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Eulogies are pieces of writing or funeral speeches that are typically shared at a funeral or gathering for someone who has passed away. The speeches often contain a description of the person who passed away, the kind of person they were and personal memories that the person delivering the eulogy finds meaningful to share. That being said, eulogies can be fully customized to fit your writing style and needs and can come in all types of formats. Somber eulogies, eulogies filled with stories, short eulogies, and funny eulogies are all common. The best eulogy speeches are those that are written from the heart.

How to write a eulogy

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Not sure where to start? Don’t know how to write a eulogy for a mother? Friend? Sister? Grandfather? Try to relax and remember that many people don’t know how to write a eulogy, especially for someone important in their life. To start, the main parts to include in a standard eulogy are as follows:

Introduction

A brief introduction usually looks like “Thank you all for being here” or “Thank you all for coming”. You’re acknowledging the audience and thanking them for sharing this time with you and yours.

Short story

Including a short story about your loved one is customary and is usually a story that really shows their personality or what about them made them special. If you’re interested in a lighter eulogy, consider sharing a funny story. For more somber atmospheres, stories about lessons taught by the individual or a story about their achievements is a great alternative. Other popular story topics include major accomplishments, life events, the impact the person had on others, childhood memories and years, stories about traveling, marriage, family, children, or other important stories.

Favorite memories

Similar to the story, it’s not unusual to see eulogies include one or two favorite memories the person had with the deceased. These memories can be of simple or complex moments; this is up to you and what feels right.

Important quote

If your loved one had a favorite passage, verse, quote, or poem, you can include it in the eulogy itself. Alternatively, if you have a passage or quote that you feel is relevant and important to share, you can include that as well.

You can end the eulogy by summarizing the impact this person had on the lives of others and by acknowledging the family and those who chose to attend the services again. It may also feel fitting to end the eulogy with a treasured quote or passage.

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Shannon McMasters' eulogy

Written by Stephen McMasters Shannon McMasters' eulogy, written and read by her brother, Stephen, is a beautiful testament to a woman who Stephen describes as a "shining star that burned out too soon". Shannon's life was far from easy, but reading about her perseverance, determination, and strength and hearing her brother recount meaningful moments in their life and the impact she had on him and those around her is powerful. Shannon's eulogy is an example for those who are looking to honor the struggles and difficulties their loved one dealt with while remembering other important aspects of their life. Visit Shannon's memorial website to learn more about her life.

Read Shannon's full eulogy below:

Shannon had such a big life and touched so many people, it’s hard to know where to begin. Other than our mother, Shannon was the closest person to me growing up. I was basically raised by my mom and sister. Many of my earliest memories are of the two of us, singing Disney songs together, watching The Breakfast Club on rerun, and of course, fights in the backseat of the car. Later in life, she was the cool big sister. And I wanted to be just like her. I have so many fond memories with Shannon, from the University of Florida to moving cross-country to Los Angeles and on to Atlanta. I would not have done many of these things if not for her. Shannon was my best friend. We laughed at everything together, our sense of humor was nearly identical. We bonded over music sharing two of our top three favorite bands. People even said we look alike, which I was never sure was a compliment or not. The bulk of my life was spent with Shannon; it’s hard to believe she’s gone. She was a shining star that burned out too soon. I don’t know too many people that met Shannon and didn’t have something wonderful to say about her. She truly had a gift to connect to people, understand them, make them feel special and like they mattered. I believe she got this gift from our mother who also had a knack with people. Everyone’s life was brighter having known my sister, especially mine. People think Shannon was lucky to have me, but I was lucky to have her. I know I would not be the person I am today without her. She was always positive and believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself. Because of her, my dreams were bigger, my achievements were bigger, my life was bigger. Shannon was fearless in her pursuits; she accomplished so much in her short life. She graduated from UF, double-majoring in Political Science and Theatre. She then graduated from UCLA Law. She obtained degrees from both institutions while enduring bone marrow transplants. Later she went to cosmetology school at the Aveda Institute in Atlanta. I think it’s fair to say Shannon was dealt a rough hand from the start. In 1997, and again in 2004, she was diagnosed with Aplastic Anemia, an extremely rare disease in which the bone marrow quits producing red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets. Even with a donor, chances of survival are still not 100%. Fortunately, I was a match. I was Bone Marrow Boy as Shannon liked to call me. Throughout both transplants, she had to undergo chemotherapy, hospital isolation, and months of recovery before returning to her normal life. Her oncologist declared her in remission in 2012, but she suffered from graft versus host disease, which caused numerous side effects both internally and externally. For years she took cancer-causing immunosuppressant drugs to suppress her immune system so her body would not reject my marrow. Not only did Aplastic Anemia do tremendous damage to her body, it wreaked havoc on her mind. Doctors told Shannon she would not live passed 40 and would likely be barren. I can’t imagine hearing this as an 18 year-old. Living more than half of her life with a terminal illness resulted in clinical depression and PTSD. She was also told she may develop mental disorders later in life due to her extraordinary illness. As a young adult, her way of dealing with the condition was to not be emotional or vulnerable. She dealt with her illness by pushing it aside and pursuing her academic and career goals, leading many of us to forget that she was ever sick at all. Music, painting, and dancing also played significant roles in my sister’s healing. Shannon viewed dance as therapy. In 2014, she was a research participant in one of my school projects. She tied her connection to music and dancing directly to her illness. She stated, quote, “It’s where problems don’t exist. When you’re not thinking of everything else going on in your life, therefore your anxiety is reduced. Moving and dancing to music makes you happy. You’re not feeling depressed. It’s all about the whole getting lost in the moment. That’s a lot of what Buddhist practice is, staying in the present.” My sister seemed to have found peace in those moments of presence on the dance floor. She also found peace through painting, which she spent a lot time doing the last five years. I think that’s one of the many reasons we all loved Shannon, she made us feel special every moment we were with her. We were present because we felt her presence. In the summer of 2015, Shannon had her first psychotic break. Later that year, she was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder borderline Schizoaffective Disorder. Mental illness would prove to be the battle of Shannon’s life. She really struggled those last few years. During this time, her mind was changing and she was helpless to stop or reverse it. She lost many of her close connections, not because she OR we didn’t want them, but because she was trying to navigate her new reality that included mania, paranoia, and delusions. Losing our mother in 2021 and her dogs Osa and Kiki back-to-back was just too much to handle. She was hurting and trying to survive the only way she knew how, but I know she did not want to hurt herself and what happened was an accident. She told me not too long ago that she knew she was never going to be the same again, and she hated her illness and what it had done to her. It just isn’t fair what happened to Shannon. In the end, I think she felt misunderstood and no longer accepted, and that’s what hurts the most. I think she felt alone, like she didn’t have anyone. That’s the tragedy of mental illness, not just because of what she went through, but it’s hard for us to understand and even when we try to help, relationships suffer. Unfortunately there were no easy answers or quick fixes, and I underestimated her ability to cope with her illness. The transplants may have saved her life before, I just wish I could’ve saved it again. Sometimes I feel I didn’t do enough and maybe I’ll always feel guilt for that. Shannon recently told me she prayed to God frequently to take her. I think she was ready to go. I think she has been ready for a while. She felt she had a bigger purpose beyond this place. She came into our lives briefly, laughed with us, cried with us, danced with us, made us smile, made us feel special, then left as quickly as she arrived. Maybe that was her purpose here, to have a positive impact on all of us by leaving us better than she found us. I suppose death is what makes life beautiful, knowing that our time here is finite, to make the most of it and remember what is important. Shannon reminded us of that. When she died, a part of me died too, but a part of her and our mother will always live on in me because they make up so much of who I am. While my heart is broken that she is gone and I will never see my sister again in this life, a part of me feels that she is no longer suffering and is at peace with our mother in God’s kingdom. Some birds simply aren’t meant for this world, their feathers are too bright. That’s how I’ll always remember Shannon, and God called her home to be with our mother.

Juanita Pearce's eulogy

Written by Christopher Cost Juanita Pearce's eulogy, written with love and forethought by her grandson Christopher, is a wonderful example for those who are looking for a unique way to deliver a eulogy for a loved one. Christopher gives beautiful insight into Juanita's life by describing one of his earliest memories, describing how she was throughout her life, and what kind of emotional impact she had on all those she knew. Her dedication to her family and willingness to sacrifice for the good of others is detailed throughout his tribute. Additionally, Christopher takes the time to address members of the family, a beautiful departure from the standard eulogy format that makes Juanita's eulogy incredibly heartwarming and unique. Visit Juanita's memorial website to learn more about her life.

Read Juanita's full eulogy below:

Good morning. I am Christopher, Juanita’s grandson from her daughter, Debbie. My nearly 42- year life is right about the length of the job she retired from. She made it to her 89th birthday and then some. From her birth in 1933 to her retirement was just around 60 years. I still have 18 years to get to that point. A lot can happen within that time span. Memory and Truth are funny things. My memory tells me that of all the family, I feel I may have spent the most time with her. The truth is that of all the people that have been in my life, my grandma is the one that has been the most present and participatory. One of my earliest memories of time with my grandma, which is a bit fuzzy at this point in my life, is going to work with her during a summer I was staying with her. She was a manager at Southwestern Bell and visitors had to wear a special badge. What I remember is that I was playing with the alligator clip on the badge and managed to pinch and hurt my finger. I remember my grandma and many other grandmas running to my rescue. I remember my grandma taking me to see these giant catfish that were bigger than me at the time. I remember that I was being a dumb kid and fell and hurt my wrist and she found a way to get me patched up. I still have the scar. My earlier memories may be fuzzy and even failing me, but the truth isn’t: my grandma was always there for me, no matter what. For many of you, perhaps family most of all, that knew grandma before our car accident in 2004, there may be memories of a woman with strong beliefs. You may have memories of her sharing her opinion, and perhaps even memories of some strong judgments and prejudices. For those of us that were especially close to her, we likely also have memories of her always learning and growing into a person that overcame her prejudices. What I remember is she became a woman that even with her opinions, and attitudes, and judgements, never let that get in the way of doing the right thing and rendering aide and support when it was needed. The truth is I’ve only collected two-thirds the memories that my mother and uncle can recall. Her elder sister and only surviving sibling Helen may be able to recall my grandmother’s entire lifetime as memories. The truth is memories are but glimpses and moments and no singular memory or even the collection of memories from a single person will ever adequately define an individual. A lot of you may be blessed by only the last few years of my grandma’s life. I dare say they may be some of the richest blessings you may receive. Truth be told, for as long as I have memories of her, they are made up of sacrifice and offering, one after another. Be it driving to Texas to take care of her grandchildren when my uncle and aunt had to go on a trip or an overnight drive into the mountains of Arkansas to help my mom care for me and my sisters. Or middle of the night runs to the emergency room when one of my sisters or myself had an emergency and mom needed support. No matter the reason, no matter what she was doing, my memories are of a woman who was always there for her family. These last 18 years of my grandma’s life were some of her most challenging. Yet, while she always brought her ornery and cantankerous personality, she also brought every bit of survival fight and strength of character to fill my memories with a woman who scaled an ever-increasing mountain of health and physical and mental challenges. For the 8- and one-half years I directly cared for my grandma following the accident, we tackled daily physical and occupational therapy at my parents’ house and then at the clinic until she could finally return to her own home. We later battled through a relocation to find her and me a new home that was better suited for her ongoing needs and care, to only then face breast cancer before getting into thyroid surgeries. My mother then took over for a few years on daily care before my sister Rebecca took over principal care and support in 2020, just as the pandemic hit. Most of you have your own memories of these last two or three years that I ask for you to recall as I share what I believe of the last few years of my grandma’s life. I believe the truth is that our individual and collective memories tell of a woman that continued to be there no matter what the situation was. They tell of her being a person of support, care, and growth both personally and as an example for everyone around her. And I believe that she will continue to be that person in spirit through the end of each of our lives and the lives of each life we touch. I would like now to speak directly to a some of our family that have been part of Grandma’s daily life and were crucial in the ongoing fight my grandma put up these last 18 years. Kylie, You may never understand how important you were to Grandma Juanita. You were born just ahead of our car accident that changed her life forever. By the time she came to your grandma’s and grandpa’s house for her recovery, you were a source of ongoing reason for her to keep going. I hope that you will from time to time calm your mind and heart to just let her example of love and value for family guide you as you enter your adulthood. RyLee and Lora, She didn’t play favorites often--I should know because I did spend so much time with her--but she does have a special connection with each of you. Ava, Your video calls lighted your Grandma Juanita’s day and gave her a bright smile. To Owen, You don’t understand this today, but Grandma Juanita will always be with you. You were her source of strength and inspiration to keep fighting when her life was turned upside down going from living alone to living with you, your two big sisters and brother, your mom and dad, and the dogs. It was not an easy adjustment for her, but she was able to make that transition because of you. And as your Grandma Debbie and mommy will remind you in the years to come, your partner-in-crime will always be with you, even if you cannot remember her. And, to Kaison and Gavin, the twins, You brought her fresh spirit when her life was yet again shaken with a relocation and then her stroke earlier this year. To my dad, David, Despite your own health, you found the energy to help grandma with her laundry and as always, the two of you continued to keep each other on your toes in conversation. To my brother-in-law Matthew, you helped to clean up messes and did a lot of the heavy lifting with RyLee to relocate her lifetime of things to the new house and storage. To her sister Helen, I know that having a close relationship with you, and your brothers Dillard and Dalford when they were still with us, was very important to her. And, to all of grandma’s family and friends with whom she spoke or saw, there have been so many “cooks in the kitchen,” but she was always grateful for each of you. You each played a role greater than you may know in her ability to continue bringing us blessings and love for 89 years. To my sister Rebecca, who possesses a soul of infinite compassion and caregiving, I want to thank you for the life you were able to let our grandma keep. I may have taken care of her first, but you stepped up and took care of her when she needed support and assistance that allowed her to retain her dignity and privacy in a way a grandson couldn’t provide. And, finally, to her daughter, my mother, You’ve been here as a coordinator and source of medical knowledge and wisdom that completed out and has been no less important than the direct care Rebecca and I provided. Life has thrown you one personal or family health challenge after another, and you have continuing challenges in front of you. Always remember that you too can always calm your mind and heart to allow your mom’s strength and guidance to pick you up when you’re in doubt or facing uncertainty. Death is not the end! It is merely another step we must all take. For those of faith and spirituality that believe Juanita is in Heaven with God, death on Earth is but her means to move to that eternal life. And, for all of us, her death is merely a transition to an ongoing presence on Earth for as long as we each continue to keep her memory within us and grow from her and for as long as you each keep her as part of your truth. In a few hours, some of us will go on a bit of drive to Anadarko to inter her body with her parents and two of her brothers. For as far back as I can remember, this was an annual pilgrimage over Memorial Day weekend. Each year, I can recall the same story as we would pass by Sonic on the highway. Grandma would always remind us that she grew up in a house behind that Sonic. I don’t think that specific Sonic is still there. But for any of you that join us for the burial this afternoon, as you enter Anadarko and see what looks like an old Sonic on your right, let it be a reminder of how precious memories are. For me, I will always remember my grandmother as the woman that took me to the store to get hamburger meat, go home and cook spaghetti and Ragu, spread towels on the floor in front of the TV, and watch movies while we ate on those towels. No matter what memory of her beliefs, opinions, and judgments, I will always know the truth is Grandma loved me, her family, and her friends. The truth is she wasn’t only present, she was actively participating when present. It is in great part through her example and pruning that I am the person I am today. I thank you, Grandma, for every gift and lesson and moment you gave me, and there are nearly 42 years of them to draw on. I love you and carry you with me always!

Barbara Burton Kleinert's eulogy

Written by Christine Maszkiewicz This beautiful eulogy is a wonderful example of how to interweave testament to someone's personality and character with the core occassions of their life. Barbara's eulogy is able to paint a thorough picture of what she enjoyed, what she was passionate about, how she was as a mother, her educational and career choices, and so much more. It's clear that anyone who had the privilege to listen to this eulogy (or to read it in its written form) was given a wonderful opportunity to learn deeply about who Barbara was as a mother, partner, friend, and person. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website .

Read Barbara's full eulogy below:

Hello everyone, I am Christie Maszkiewicz, Barbara’s daughter. Today we come to honor and remember the life of Barbara Kleinert. My mother passed away four months exactly from the day my father passed away this year. We sit here in the same spot where we held his memorial back in February. It’s surreal. My family is still dealing with raw heartache from his death and now we are all feeling the pain from hers as well. They both left a void in our hearts. My brother and I are now without our dear parents. My nephews have lost both grandparents on their father’s side. It’s been a tough year so far so I want to thank you all for coming out to remember Barbara and to support this family once again while we are all trying to come to terms with such a great loss. I know many people could not make the trip to Colorado for health reasons or travel reasons. Barbara’s sister Laurie, brother Dave and niece Jenny all are here in spirit and watching online from the east coast and beyond. They wish they could be here today. They joined my brother and I and our spouses in the days leading up to my mother’s passing. We sat around her bed and talked with mom and reminisced about our time with Mom. At times I know for sure that Mom heard and reacted to what we were saying. She was surrounded with family and love in her last days and to me that is the most important thing. Love you Laurie, Dave and Jenny. Thank you, guys, for being there and for being here virtually today. My mom, Barbara was a sincere and warm person. She was a daughter, a grandchild, a niece and then a big sister. She was a close friend, a parishioner, a nurse and a teacher. She was a wife, a sister-in-law, an aunt, and a grandma. To many in her life she was a listener, a singer and a hand to hold. To me she was my mom. My mom loved to care for others throughout her life. My aunt Laurie told me one of her earliest memories was Mom, known as Barbie to Laurie, picking her up out of her crib when she was upset one night, holding and comforting her. During my mom’s childhood she grew up feeling unseen and unheard; she felt she didn’t really fit in or live up to her mother’s expectations. Her heart though was full of love, she turned those feelings of hurt into good. She reached out and helped others to make them feel seen, to make them feel heard. Her passion growing up was very much the church and music. She learned piano but found the guitar to be her instrument of choice and she used it throughout her life to bring song into a youth group or on a mission trip. When she was older, she went to nursing school to help others. Giving of herself was her calling. In her mother’s last year’s my mom was by her side and took care of her and the two eventually made peace. My mother was persistent about peace and understanding between those she loved. Mom was always involved in hobbies that helped others; she even met my dad through her volunteering activities. They met at the U.S.O. in New Jersey where she volunteered. Through her giving spirit she and my dad saw each other through some rough early years. Mom worked nights so dad could work and go to school. She juggled raising a young son while working long hours and supporting her husband. Eventually when a second child came along, she stopped working to be a stay-at-home mother and continue supporting her husband as he continued working and pursuing a Master’s Degree. My brother and I don’t have early memories of daycare, we have memories of being home with mom. Memories of being loved and cared for by her. That was a sacrifice she made, family was very important to her and I know we both appreciate the fact that our parents made that choice. When she went back into the workforce, she had to volunteer to get experience, since a Nursing degree wasn’t enough apparently. She volunteered and eventually worked in the school district with severely handicapped children. The passion she had for helping others became a lifelong career. Mom was always devoted to helping others, through her church St. Michaels in Colorado Springs, she joined the prison Ministry Kairos. I remember as a child answering the phone on weekends when mom was away on a Kairos Retreat. I very politely told the caller that mom was not here right now, she was in prison, could I take a message? My parents always got a chuckle out of that. As a child I connected with my mom’s fun spirit. She was childlike in the sense that she found wonder and beauty in the world where ever she went. She loved animals and nature. As child she had a bunny named Thumper that she adored. Later when she married my dad they acquired a pet skunk named Flower….I think we can figure out what name a pet deer may have acquired. Growing up we couldn’t have a dog or a cat since dad was allergic. With two kids and a wife wanting a critter he and mom figured out a way to make a guinea pig work with dad’s allergies. We had a spotted female named Cutie for a time and then we brought home Skeezics, a red spiky haired guinea pig. My mother had so much fun with him. We’d let him run around the living room and race down the hallway of the house. Many times mom had to help dad dismantle the huge sleeper sofa to get the guinea pig out from underneath where he was hiding. My mom would also sing various songs to the guinea pig, especially at treat time. That little pig would squeak so loudly when he heard the song….”What Shall we get for the Pig” since he knew he was getting a tasty treat. When we moved from CO to VA it was very hard on our family. Mom made sure to help us kids adjust and get involved in activities. As a horse crazy 8-year-old I wanted my own pony. The next best thing, riding lessons. My mom was at every single riding lesson camera in hand. She stood at the fence cheering me on as I learned new things like cantering or jumping. When I had my first fall she rushed to my side and as the old adage tells you, encouraged me to get back on. I’m sure as a mother that goes against many instincts to encourage a child to continue something that injured them. That next week she got me up early every morning so I could soak in a warm bath to ease my pain. In VA my mother continued with Kairos Prison missions but also got involved in Therapeutic riding for special needs children. I joined her a few times at the farm helping with the horses. She loved working with the children. They would come alive up on horseback, it relaxed them and they responded to the games mom and other volunteers played to engage the children. The smiles were just as bright on her face as they were on the children’s. My mother continued to love critters even after our family didn’t have any more pets. Our deck in the back of the house was not our deck. We didn’t have patio furniture or a hot tub out there. Nope, we had birds and squirrels lined up on every single railing eating the seeds and peanuts placed out there by mom. At night we ended up having raccoons at times. One evening there must have been 12 raccoons eating the seeds and other goodies mom fed to the critters. A special guest was Petey, a Virginia Opossum. This little critter loved noodles with BBQ sauce a specialty my mother whipped up for for her culinary delight. Mom spent hours taking photos of this sweet little creature. One day the opossum was still there in the morning and we watched her run off the deck to the underside of the front porch. She came back out with 10 babies clinging to her back and headed off into the woods. Mom made sure we all there to see it and she took pictures of the spectacle. Growing up loving animals just like my mother I didn’t have to look far to find a fuzzy or feathery friend to enjoy. My mother would often take in the birds that flew head first into the window. She would let them rest in a darkened aquarium until they came out of shock and then released them back to the woods. One such incident occurred with a little Tufted Titmouse, aptly named Tufty. He hit the window and needed help. When mom went to catch him, the little guy flew into the house and into the powder room that I was just exiting. My mom and I spent 15 minutes trying to catch that little bird to get him back outside. As I got older and moved on to college and beyond, I acquired the pets I didn’t have growing up, the fuzzy allergy triggering ones. My mother and father loved their grand-dog Spencer. He was a silly little Jack Russell Terrier. Mom never begrudged the fact that I didn’t want children of my own she accepted her four legged grandchildren. Every time I brought Spencer over you would hear the shrill voice of mom bellowing “Grand-Dog! Grand-dog”. He certainly was a spoiled grandchild. When I finally got my pony, my mother was there to meet her, happy as a clam to see me with Daenerys and to share the moment. My mother was constantly documenting our lives with photos. This was before digital photos which now everyone takes pictures of EVERYTHING. My mom invented that; out would come the camera and us kids would groan. Now we have boxes and boxes of memories to sort through that I know we will cherish as we walk down memory lane and thank her for being the shutterbug she was. Kodak stayed in business for a long time because of mom! My mother was the ever-present cheerleader and moral compass of our family. She brought a light to our lives, she often instigated fun but was also patient when we stepped out of line. Surviving my teenage years is a testament to the patience and love my mother had for her family. One hard part I’ve learned about losing someone is having to go through their belongings. Though I will state this act can shed light on memories that will warm the heart. So honestly this burden is one my brother and I are happy to take on. While looking through some books I came across a note mom wrote. She made many notes and comments in nearly every book she read. This particular note though was about parenting. She wrote that parents will make many mistakes. These mistakes shouldn’t really matter if the child knew they were loved. And mom, yes….we knew we were loved. Very much so. This year has been a hard year but with all the tragedy and difficult times we’ve had to endure, this year has been a year full of love, last moments and memories. I cherish these memories and they bring me comfort that there was so much love. I hope each of us can reflect on the memories we have of my Mom, Barbara….and that those feelings can bring us all comfort. We will love you forever Mom. We will love you forever.

Barbara Fritsche Olmanson's eulogy

Written by Leif Olmanson Written in the form of detailed descriptions of different memories Leif had with his mother, Barbara's eulogy is a perfect example of the how the accumulation of small moments woven together end up creating a beautiful landscape of a life well lived. Leif's description of each memory that he cherished with his mom is a perfect way for the reader to gain an understanding of the type of woman Barbara was and the effect she had on those around her. For those looking to share a eulogy that's built on memories, Leif's eulogy is a wonderful place to gain inspiration. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website .

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Remembrances of Mom: When she was ten years old our mother was baptized at St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in New Ulm, but I think one reason she chose the Church of the Holy Communion for our family was because of the beauty of the church and its history. I recall being told that the ceiling was designed to look like an upside-down ship—basically a vessel to bring the parishioners to heaven. And that the stained-glass windows came from England by sailing ships and overland by ox cart. The Dodd family grave in the back of the church evokes pioneer history. Mom had a keen interest in local history, and this Episcopal Church building is a living reminder of that history. The obituary focuses on Mom’s love of travel, especially their long trip to Burma and their service to a disadvantaged part of the world under difficult conditions. I think this was a formative experience for them—at times a trial by fire. In some ways, they must have been different people by the time they returned to resume their life in St. Peter. It was a few months after they returned to St. Peter that I (Leif) was born, and my little sister Lori followed shortly. With six kids you would think that the adventures would stop, but that was not the case. Although sometimes they traveled without the kids, often they brought all of us or some of us along. There were memorable trips to the Boundary Waters, Canada, the Black Hills, Florida, Yucatan, and the Cayman Islands. These trips instilled a sense of travel in all of us. Long after we all left home, when Mom was 70 and my sister Trudi was 40, she decided to fulfill her bucket list. It started with Trudi and Thor traveling with my parents to Ecuador and the Galapagos Islands. Other adventures included Peru - Machu Picchu and Lake Titicaca, Panama (with Trudi and Eric), Norway and Germany (with Trudi and Eric), and Trinidad and Tobago (with Trudi, Leif, and grandkids Britta and Anders) where I made the mistake of calling my parents elderly when we were inquiring about a boat trip. I was set straight by Mom right away but had reason to be concerned since the docks were in bad shape and the captain had to time the waves to get them on and offboard. There were also several trips to Mexico with each of her children and several grandchildren joining them. The most memorable trip was for Mom’s 80th Birthday where Trudi and I were with them for the entire 21-day trip and all but one of the other siblings and Anders joined for a week. We started in Puerto Morales (a great discovery and location we returned to many times for easier traveling as our parents aged) and then went to Tulum. From there we headed to Xcalak (which was one mile from Belize) and ended up staying at a scuba diver training facility which was cool since they had students from around the world and for the diving trips, we were outnumbered by diving instructors. Mom and Dad enjoyed the snorkeling and bird-watching trip. For such a small fishing village they had some great restaurants with some interesting locally sourced gourmet dishes. We were having a great time and I was using my iPod to text my brother Thor to tell him to come to Xcalak. He misunderstood my messaging and indicated he would meet us in Punta Allen. When Mom heard that we were off to meet Thor in Punta Allen. The travel books said the road from Tulum to Punta Allen was anywhere from 1 to 4 hours depending on road conditions. Well from Xcalak we had a 4-hour drive to Tulum and what turned out to be another 4 hours to Punta Allen. (This long drive was the first time I noticed signs of Alzheimer’s in my dad.) Amazing how well my mom and dad were able to cover it from us. So back to the story. It had been raining so the roads were more like small lakes than a road. With mud puddles covering most of the road and as it turns out it was the route for the adventure Jeep tours you would see if you would go on a cruise or to a big resort. So, there we are in our Jetta size car with luggage and five passengers, Anders on the hump in the back seat. Since the few people that lived on this route did not like the jeeps ripping up the road, they would put in Jeep size road bumps to slow them down. So, every time we came upon one, I would stop and have everyone get out of the car to make it over the bump. After we finally got to Punta Allen the streets were not any better since they were also flooded. We met up with Thor and his girlfriend at the time and had a wonderful time with some great food and company. The adventure continued with Schelli, and Lori joining us Back in Puerto Morelos and trips to Chichen itza to recreate childhood photographs and Ek Balam. A great and memorable trip. Other memorable occasions: Dad and Amby were working on the Ford Model As that were being used for Schelli and Amby’s Wedding parade. Right before the ceremony, Mom saw Amby and took him into the bathroom of the church and said no man would marry her daughter with greasy hands, so she helped him scrub the grease off. When she was babysitting Marty when he was 3, he helped her pick berries and make jam. When Schelli picked him up, he had dark red around his mouth, and she said “the jam must have been good”. Mom gave her a funny look and brought a washcloth over and said, I think he got into a Woodtick that fell off the dog. Picking Morel mushrooms, canoeing, her amazing cooking inspired by traveling including braunschweiger dip, kawswe, elderberry Kiekle, Burmese curry, homemade sauerkraut, and her conch ceviche Mom was always willing to go, whether it was dancing, fishing, going to the lake and tubing behind the boat, and paddle boarding at 80, and they really enjoyed garage sales. Mom was an anchor for our family. She took care of us when we were sick, fed us, taught us about nature and history, and encouraged our interests. She was the keeper of holiday traditions, adapting her more German Christmas traditions by adventurously adding her husband’s annual Norwegian delicacy: LUTEFISK. Regular Christmas guests were: Violet, Charles, and Pauline Kinson (Violet’s shrimp paste), Bernie Bornhagen (black mustard for the lutefisk), and other friends we adopted along the way. One Christmas when we all arrived Mom said they had noticed an awful smell in the house. They remembered their Springer Spaniel dog (Spike) had a dead squirrel in the yard. Sure, that she must have brought the carcass into the house they did a thorough search of the house and to their surprise, they discovered a piece of lutefisk under a chair. The dog must have grabbed it out of the bucket it was soaking in. Dad told us that he rinsed it off and put it back in the bucket. We were pretty sure he was joking. Lots of great memories and we will miss her greatly!

Juliann Therese Weimholt's eulogy

Written and read by Josef Weimholt In Juliann's eulogy, Josef does an excellent job at delivering many of the details you'd find in a eulogy in a loving, descriptive, and beautiful way. In addition to thanking the community, describing his mother's impact on those around her and her character, Josef includes a beautiful and creative tribute to his mother with additional context and pledges for what he aims to do in the future to honor his mother. To learn more about Juliann's life, visit her memorial website .

Good morning. Before I begin, I want to take the opportunity, on behalf of our entire family, to thank all of you for being here today—in person, in this beautiful, old church that our mom loved so much, or virtually—to help us celebrate our mom’s life. We’d like to thank everyone who travelled from out of state to be here today, including those on our dad’s side of the family who traveled from as far away as California. Let that sink in for a second—there are people here today who flew from warm, sunny California. To Chicago. In February. To attend the funeral of an in-law, essentially. Now, I know they came in part to support our dad in his time of grief, but I think it really speaks to the impact our mom had on people. And that’s been evident as well in the flood of messages we’ve received since Mom passed, which have come not just from close friends and family, as you’d expect, but from those who worked with her briefly decades ago, those who met her only recently—including members of the Breakers community in Edgewater, where our parents have lived the past couple of years—from friends (and friends of friends) of my sisters and mine who may have met her only once at one of our weddings years ago. So many have reached out with a kind note, a memory, a heartfelt message about how our mom affected them. As everyone here can attest, to meet Mom was to know instantly what a beautiful person she was, inside and out; a kind, caring soul; sharp, funny, and fun to be around; someone who brightened the lives of all those around her. I heard it said recently that grief is simply unexpressed love. The moral, I think, is that grief isn’t something we should avoid or try to overcome, but something we should embrace. If grief really is just a reflection of the love we feel for the person we lost, then we should hope to always feel some measure of grief for our departed loved ones. I like that sentiment; I think there’s some wisdom there, and perhaps some solace for those of us who are grieving our mom’s loss so deeply still. But it got me thinking about that notion of "unexpressed love." Unexpressed love: that was a foreign concept to Mom. Like our dad, she never missed an opportunity to tell my sisters and I how much she loved us, how proud she was of us, how happy we made her, how lucky she was to be our mom. And we always reciprocated—in person, on the phone, over text (including, in recent years, through liberal use of heart emojis in any text with Mom). Now, I don’t know whether that has lessened our grief any, but I do know that I speak for my sisters, our dad, our Aunt Mary Kay, and everyone who was on the other end of those exchanges with Mom, when I say that we are incredibly grateful for each of those moments, each of those expressions of love that my mom would simply not let go unexpressed. It was in that spirit that I set out some time ago to put down in writing exactly what my mom meant to me—an impossible task, to be sure. I regret deeply that I didn’t finish it before she passed, but I’m grateful I can share it here today with her and with all of you. I initially intended for it to be a poem, as that’s the language that she loved best, but I’m afraid I didn’t inherit her poetic voice (or talents). So I ended up with something else, I’m not sure what exactly. But I call it, “My Mother’s Son.” My Mother’s Son I knew it was coming, every time I would visit Mom at work—usually to ask for money for the movies or to pick up the car to meet friends or for some other equally important reason—never just to say hi, or ask about her day, or tell her how much I loved her. (There would always be time for that later, right?) “You must be Julie’s son!” It was probably my nose or the shape of my face; perhaps the hazel eyes or brown, curly hair. At first, I was annoyed. I didn’t want to resemble a short, middle-aged woman—beautiful though she was—and rued the fact that I didn’t inherit a chiseled jawline or muscular physique instead. So I usually just smiled sheepishly. But beyond an amusement at the resemblance, there was something else evident in their tone. “You must be Julie’s son!” The front desk staff, her fellow nurses, the doctors and residents, the custodial workers—they always made sure to tell me how much they loved working with Mom—how kind and skilled she was with patients, how supportive and generous she was with colleagues. They were quick with an anecdote or an expression of admiration. Eventually, I came to embrace the comparisons—proudly wrapping my arm around her (and sometimes giving her a playful pat on top of her head, which by then came up only to my chest) whenever a new friend, colleague, or stranger remarked on the resemblance. In her later years, as her health declined and the Parkinson’s loomed like a storm cloud growing nearer and more ominous by the day, I would reflect often on the connection I shared with my mom, on what it meant to be her son. Apart from any physical traits she may have passed down, I knew she would be leaving for her children and grandchildren something truly precious and rare. Something that couldn’t be simply inherited, but would need to be earned—brought to fruition through the countless small acts and daily decisions that make up a person’s life. Now that she has passed, and I think about the man I strive to be for my own family—for my wife, Sarah, and our daughter, Tessa, who will grow up without having truly known her Ama—I find in my mom’s legacy a clarion call, a beacon guiding my way, a pledge I must continually renew: I will be kind to friends and strangers alike—especially the less fortunate, the marginalized, and the forgotten among us. I will be generous with my time, energy, and resources, and will commit to causes greater than myself. I will laugh, loud and often. My patience will know no bounds. I will smile constantly and exude warmth so that others are uplifted even when I’m down. I will be selfless and unfailingly loyal. I will not swoon at the sight of blood, but will swoon over a mariachi band (or really any live music). I will create. I will nurture. I will dance with enthusiasm. I will be open to all things, and constantly seek out new adventures, foods, cultures, and people. I will find happiness in the simple things, and peace in nature. When my health fails me or curveballs inevitably come my way, I will put on a brave face to spare my loved ones their worry, and will fight with a strength and tenacity that will make them proud. I will laugh some more, through everything. I will be grateful for all that I have been given. I will love, and be loved, and the world will be a richer, better place for my having been here. I will, I pray, truly and forever be my mother’s son.

Richard "Dick" Floyd Messalle's memorial speech

Written and read by Renee Messalle In this memorial speech, there are plenty references to memories, passions, hobbies, and delights that Richard took part in during his time. These references help paint a loving and broad picture of what Richard's life was like and the kind of person he was. In addition to the personal stories shared, Renee also includes a beautiful poem at the start which kicks off the metaphor of the Train of Life for the rest of the memorial speech. To learn more about Richard's life, visit his memorial website .

Welcome everyone. Thank you so much for coming today. Carl and I wanted to share a few memories about our Dad before the service started. I wanted to start off by reading this lovely poem that I saw recently. Train of Life At birth, we boarded the train of life and met our parents, and we believed that they would always travel by our side. However, at some station, our parents would step down from the train, leaving us on life's journey alone. As time goes by, some significant people will board the train: siblings, other children, friends, and even the love of our life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed that we won't realize that they vacated their seats! This train ride has been a mixture of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. A successful journey consists of having a good relationship with all passengers, requiring that we give the best of ourselves. The mystery that prevails is that we do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. Thus, we must try to travel along the track of life in the best possible way -- loving, forgiving, giving, and sharing. When the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty -- we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who continue to travel on the train of life. And let’s remember to thank our God for giving us life to participate in this wonderful train ride. I am so glad that I was on my Dad’s train for 51 years. And thanks to those that joined the train at one time or another. His stop and his step down was so very unexpected for us – but he left so many great memories, and we are so grateful he stepped off on a high note! We have all loved hearing what others thought of my Dad – and am so happy that it was what we knew of him. The prevailing theme – he was such a kind and gentle and smart person. And several people said he was a “Renaissance Man”. And I totally agree – he loved to learn and knew a lot about everything. He was so happy in his recent move to Greenspring where he had a big office surrounded by at least 1,000 of his books, all in one room. And most importantly my Dad loved math and data. He had a bachelor and master’s degree in Math. He worked for the Navy using his math skills. And in going through things in his office – we saw that my Dad doodled math everywhere. And he did at least a sudoku a day. I have great memories of him helping us as kids with homework, which he enthusiastically did, and especially of course with math. My high school friends even fondly remember his tutoring us in math. After retirement, he even spent many years tutoring various students – even his grandsons. Just recently he helped Brandon and me with some math homework and sent us detailed descriptions and steps to help us. And he was still the volunteer Treasurer for the Four Corners neighborhood association, which he had been doing for many years. After grad school with his advanced degree in Mathematics, he met my Mom on their first day of work at US Navy, David Taylor Model Basin as they were both trying to find the math lab! My Mom worked there until I was born. And then, when I was looking for a summer job in college, I decided to apply where my Dad worked. This turned out to be the start of my government career as well, and I eventually worked in the same Directorate with my Dad for the summers and then for 7 years after college. It was a great chance for us to know and see each other in different ways, learn what my Dad did at work, have similar co-workers, etc. After my Dad retired, he had so much fun taking liberal art classes at the community college. He also loved going to see plays with my Mom, so they both ushered at various local theaters for over 30 years. And he even directed and acted in some community theater plays. Despite my Dad’s quiet demeanor – he definitely had had a wild and adventurous side …. He loved rollercoasters. Even as recent as about 5- 10 years ago, he was still going on roller coasters and rides at Disney and Universal with my husband and niece and Brandon, and even on the water slides at the water parks. When we were younger, he took us on a hot air balloon ride. He loved to bike – biked to work, biked with friends, biked long distance rides of 100 miles, and biked as a family. He did Hang gliding for a while – and even bought one. I remember playing in fields while my Dad would hang glide off of small hills. He even bought a Unicycle. He also loved science fiction, and he introduced us to Star Wars as kids. And I was able to take my parents to the new Disney Star Wars theme park in February, right before Covid. And I just took him to the movie theater at Thanksgiving to see the new Dune movie, which he loved. My Dad was always around and involved when we were younger. We always had family dinners, he made breakfast every Sunday (where I was introduced to and then loved scrapple), he washed the dishes every night for my Mom, and was always willing and around to assist us with our school and homework. And then he continued to be present and involved in my life as a grandfather to Brandon, especially since we lived somewhat close by. He set such a great example for me of what a father and what a spouse should be. And I am so happy that he met the love of his life, and that he and my Mom had such a wonderful marriage of 53 years – best friends - truly soul mates. In summary, my Dad had a fun life on that train for 79 years, sharing 55 of those years (70% of his life) with my Mom! He left many great memories for me and for others. Thanks Dad – I love you and you will be missed.

Following you will find some eulogy examples, with most of them being short eulogy examples. Shorter eulogies can become longer simply by adding in stories and memories that you hold dear or different aspects of your loved one’s life you’d like to share.

Thank you all for being here today. I’m honored to share this time with [Name]’s friends, family, and others in remembering [his/her] life.

I met [Name] [number] years ago at [description of meeting location]. I immediately liked [Name]’s [sense of humor / personality / presence] and knew we would make fast friends. Once, when we were [description of memory], [Name] turned to me and said “[Quote]”.

[Longer description of memory]

After we met, I [description of life after meeting person] and [he/she] went on to [description of what they did]. When [Name] met [spouse], everything changed. [He/she] became [description] and was one of the best [husbands/wives/fathers/mothers] a family could ask for.

I know I’ll always miss my best friend and that no one can replace [him/her]. With that, I’d like to leave you all with one of [Name]’s favorite quotes, by [author]: “[quote]”. Thank you.

[Name] was my best friend, confidante, partner in crime, and one of the best people I’ve ever had the honor to know. I first met [Name] in [location] and we quickly became fast friends. We shared a love of [hobby] and a desire to [description], something that very few others connected with me on.

[Name] taught me a lot about [description], something I will never take for granted. Our other friends refer to [Name] and describe [him/her] as [description]. What I know for certain is that anyone who knew [Name], knew how [brave/special/funny/kind/unique] they were. You don’t meet someone like that every day.

One of my most cherished memories with [Name] was the time we [description]. If not that, then it’s definitely the time we [description].

I want to thank you all for gathering today in honor of [Name], I know it would’ve meant the world to [him/her]. Let’s honor [his/her] memory by continuing to spread love in this world and to try our best each and every day. Thank you.

For those who don't know me, [Name] and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. We grow up in [town] together, lived down the street from one another, and went to the same schools from elementary to high school. We planned on going to the same college together (but [Name] was smarter than I and got into some schools I didn't). We weren't just friends, we were [brothers/sisters].

When I was younger, [Name] used to take me to [area]. We'd play [game] and sit out in the field, talking about [subject] for hours on end. [Name] was there for my life's most important events. [He/she] was there for [list out important life events] and always remembered my birthday and other important anniversaries. [He/she] was beyond thoughtful -- [he/she] was one of the kindest and most compassionate people I've ever met and will ever meet.

Losing [Name] is akin to losing a family member. [He/she] is irreplaceable and their loss is felt deeply, more than words can ever describe. At the same time, I know [Name] would hate it if they saw me up here crying, talking only about their loss and ignoring all the wonderful things [he/she] did with their precious time here on Earth. So, I'd like to take this time, to thank [Name] for everything [he/she] taught me: [list out lessons or important takeaways]

Let's honor [Name's] memory today (and all days) by being kind to one another and remembering the struggles that we all have to face during our time here.

Joie and I met before we were born -- our mothers were in the same prenatal group and bonded over their hatred of the lack of sushi in their lives. We were born only a few days apart, spent our first years of life held by each other's moms and had almost no chance in not becoming great friends. Little did our moms know -- they'd given us more than friendship when they became friends. They'd made us family -- sisters.

Both of our families had decided to only have one child, so Joie and I filled the void that every only-child experiences. She was my sister, through and through. I was there for every one of her life's major accomplishments (and letdowns). She returned the favor in kind. Joie was my support through my first relationship, my first heartbreak, my first degree, my first marriage (and second!) and my first child. I was there for so many of her firsts, seconds, and thirds in life. That's the kind of person Joie was. Supportive. Constant. Foundational. She was my rock and the rock for so many people around her.

Even in death, Joie knew we'd be lost without her support. Her husband, Robbie, is constantly finding small notes that Joie left behind, just little reminders that she still cares for him and is supporting him, despite this complication we call existence. Two days after Joie was diagnosed with cancer, she gave me a call. She told me to sit down and to get ready for the "shit to hit the fan". I thought it was just another rant about her job or some stupid thing she saw at the store or a 30 minute monologue on the downfall of American reality TV.

When she told me she had cancer, I nearly passed out. But she explained to me that now, more than ever, she needed me to be the strong one. Not just for her, but for her husband, for her family, and for myself. She told me not to embarass her in this eulogy, so I'll restrain myself from doing that by going over the top. Please just know, if you're here today, you meant something to Joie. If you're here today, you matter and are important. If you're here today, please honor Joie's memory by being the rock for someone else in your life.

Joie, I love you so, so much. I can't wait to see you again.

Thank you all for being here today. I’m honored to share this time with our friends, family and community and join in remembering [Name]'s life and ongoing legacy.

I met [Name] at [location] around [number] years ago and instantly knew we'd become lifelong friends.

We spent all our time during that summer [description of activities] and the following years were spent periodically visiting [location] and inviting friends out for our annual [description of trip].

[Name] was the kind of person who you never forget. [He/she] was [describe personality]. [He/she] instantly made people feel like [description]. [He/she] was endlessly [selfless, loving, caring, etc.].

I know this loss is one that runs deep for many of us gathered here today, but I also know that [Name] wouldn't want us to sit around mourning [his/her] loss and instead would want us to look towards the future and think on what we can do to make this world a better place.

In [his/her] memory, let's try our best.

For those who don't know me, [Name] was my childhood best friend. We met when we were [age] and instantly connected. We bonded over [subjects], we spent summers at [location] and I could almost always be found at [his/her] house on the weekends. I spent so much time at [Name]'s house that I was known as [his/her] [brother/sister], even by [his/her] parents own admission.

A lifelong friendship is incredibly hard to find and even harder to live without once you've experienced it. To say that this loss is hard is an understatement. [Name] was one of the [describe personality] people I've ever met. [He/she] was unique. [He/she] was hilarious. [He/she] was irreplaceable.

For all those that are gathered with me today, I ask that you join me in honoring [Name]'s life by practicing the values they held so dear. Be kind, be loving, enjoy life, and live life slowly.

Before I get started, I wanted to thank each and every one of you for showing up to honor and remember the incredible life of [Name]. If you knew [Name] (which, if you didn't, why are you here?), you know how magnetic they truly were. Standing up here with only a few minutes to speak on how amazing they were and what they meant to me feels impossible. How can I describe [Name] in a way that's accurate? How can I sum up the impact they had on me, on those around them, on the field of [career field], on the world? It's a near impossible task, so I decided to list out the top 10 things I appreciated most about [Name]. I plan on integrating these top 10 things into the way I treat others as a way of honoring their memory.

Things I learned from [Name]:

Thank you for joining me and listening to me today. I hope you take some of these values and ways of being with you.

Memories of [Name]

Instead of a standard eulogy, I wanted to use this time to share some of my most cherished memories of [Name]. These are ones I've picked out intentionally as I feel they best represent the type of person [Name] was, at least to me. While not all of these memories are ""positive"", they are the ones that have stuck with me the most.

[List memories]

We are gathered here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable young man, who was taken from us far too soon. [Name] was a 25-year-old Marine, who loved hunting, woodworking, and theater. He had a stoic, but kind personality that drew people to him, and he had a deep passion for nature, exploration, and family.

[Name] was a skilled hunter, who spent many hours in the woods, quietly observing the world around him. He had a deep respect for nature and all of its creatures, and he loved nothing more than being out in the wilderness, breathing in the fresh air, and feeling the sun on his face.

In addition to his love for hunting, [Name] was also a talented woodworker, who enjoyed creating beautiful objects out of wood. He had an eye for detail and a steady hand, and his creations were always stunningly beautiful.

But perhaps most of all, [Name] loved theater. He was a gifted actor, who had a way of bringing his characters to life, and he had a deep appreciation for the art of storytelling. He loved nothing more than being on stage, basking in the spotlight, and entertaining his audience.

Throughout all of his endeavors, [Name] was guided by his dedication to his family. He was a loyal son, a devoted brother, and a loving friend, who always put the needs of others before his own. He had a heart of gold, and he never hesitated to lend a helping hand or a listening ear to those in need.

[Name] was a remarkable young man, who touched the lives of all those who knew him. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will live on in the hearts of those he loved. Rest in peace, [Name]. You will always be remembered.

First, I want to thank everyone here for showing up today. It means a lot.

Losing my dad is one of the most difficult hardships I’ve ever had to go through. That being said, this process has made me realize just how lucky I was to have a father like [Name]. Without his example, encouragement, advice, and love, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I am eternally grateful for his life as an example for how I should live my own.

My dad was difficult to sum up in a few words, but some that come to mind are: [hardworking/gentle/loving/caring/strong/hilarious/funny/serious/crafty/intelligent]. When I was younger, we’d spend time [description of memory]. That’s where I first learned to [description of skill].

I remember once when I was younger, we [description of memory].

Dad, you will never be forgotten. Our family is eternally lucky to have had you as the head of our family. We will honor your memory by [way you’re going to honor memory].

Thank you all for coming today.

Growing up, my father was always [description of attitude / personality]. My friends would always say that he was [description of friends’ thoughts]. His coworkers would describe him as [description]. But to me, he was just my dad.

One of my favorite memories with him is when we [memory description].

Another time, we went to [memory description].

Those are the times that I keep in mind whenever I think of my dad, some of the best times of my life. It’s impossible to describe the amount of love I hold in my heart for my father, so I’ll leave it to someone else to describe for me. In the words of [author name], “[Quote]”.

Hello, everyone. Before I get started, I just wanted to acknowledge everyone's presence today. It means so much to me and to my family that you decided to be here with us today to remember my father's life. I know he's smiling on us from above and is absolutely thrilled that so many of you showed up today to remember him.

My dad is impossible to sum up -- we'd be here all day if I had the opportunity to share with you all all the wonderful things he did, taught, and accomplished in his life. To spare you all from that (and to shield you from watching me cry for a few hours) I've decided to restrict this to a short list of some of my favorite qualities of my dad. Without further ado, here's the things that made my dad the man he was:

• My dad taught me and my brothers the meaning of what is was to be a man.
• He was compassionate and kind, funny yet stoic, bubbly yet reserved, and quietly bonded our family together through difficult storms and joyful moments.
• He was the BEST on the grill and 5 year winner of the Best Chili award at our annual chili cookoff.
• He hated the Patriots, with a passion.
• He'd sneak out in the middle of the night when we were younger to take us to midnight premiers of our favorite movies -- much to Mom's dismay.
• He once drove over 500 miles to help me move out from an ex's apartment -- again, in the middle of the night.
• He was known by my entire group of friends as "The Cool Dad".
• Even during his last months, he was ensuring me and my brothers knew what to expect, knew what was coming, and what our responsibilities to each other were.
• His family was the most important thing in his life.
• My mom was the love of his life and never failed to put a twinkle in his eye.

My dad is the reason I am the person I am today. He was endlessly encouraging, loving, caring, and intelligent. To lose him is to lose a piece of who I am, though I know he's with me in spirit. Thank you once again for showing up to support our family and remember this great man.

[Author] once said, "[Inspirational quote]". Little did he know, this quote would go on to be the foundation of my father's life.

While most knew my dad as a [descriptor] person, those closest to him knew him for his [kindness, bravery, love, caring, tenderness, softness, etc]. A man of few words and many talents, my father spent much of his life in [work / career description] and caring for [his children/family/wife/etc.]. His greatest love in life was [Name] and his favorite pasttime was [pasttime]. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him and not a day goes by that I'm certain the world is worse off without him in it. Losing my dad has taught me two things: [list lessons]

Thank you all for joining me, please tell your parents how much they mean to you and please do kindness, wherever you can.

My father was not an easy man. He was someone who hated the idea of small talk, celebrated people who worked hard (but knew when to take a break), and would be more than happy if no one talked to him for months, leaving him to read through his favorite detective novels.

His life could also not be described as easy. My father grew up poor, he lost his own father at the young age of 8 and had a mother who could be described as absent (at best). His youth was spent attempting to make ends meet through illegal jobs he held while attending school. He ended up dropping out of highschool in order to pursue a job as a dishwasher and support himself.

It was at this point that he met my mother, who seemed to be one of the only people on the planet who could charm my dad. He described her as "The first sense of relief I felt on this earth." and would refer to her as the love of his life for the rest of his life. He did his best to shield me and my brothers from the harsh upbringing he endured. He pushed us to attend college, he pushed us to stay in school, and he pushed us to cherish those in our family -- something he never had.

He worked hard to get to where he was and without a doubt, could be described as a successful man. My father was resilient, generous, and reserved. Though he was a man of few words, he made sure that my brother and I knew we were important, were loved, and were cherished.

I love you Dad and I hope you rest easy. You did a wonderful job.

Lessons from [Name]

Instead of delivering a 20 minute eulogy on my father, that I know he would've hated, I've instead decided to share some of the lessons he taught that could go on to help others. These are lessons that have helped me navigate this life and are lessons I'll cling to now that he's gone. If they resonate with you, please feel free to take them for your own. I love you, Dad.

[List lessons]

My father laid the foundation for my life as a man. He took the lessons his father taught him (rather harshly), picked them up, brushed them off, and buffed them, turning them into the lessons he shared with me (much less harshly than his father did). He was patient. He was kind. He was handy. He was incredibly intelligent and well-spoken, yet preferred to let others speak. If there was a party, you'd often find him on the balcony, in the backyard, or in a corner somewhere, people watching and smiling kindly at anyone who wandered near him. He preferred learning above all else and would most often be seen in his study, with ten different books at varying stages of being read. I owe my father everything and I credit my success in life to the way he raised me, each and every day. To lose him, means to lose a piece of myself. Dad, I love you.

To say my dad meant the world to me is an understatement. A man of few words, and even fewer faults -- he was the stoic figure in my life, the foundation that stayed true no matter what was thrown at him, and the reason I became the woman I am today. I learned to let things go, to love people who loved me back, to befriend those without, and to stay close to those who mattered. My dad meant everything to me, and more. Rest in peace, Dad.

We all dream of having a mother who is kind, loving, and genuine. [Name] was exactly that type of mother. She guided us through years and years and years of hardship, difficulty, joy, and achievement. Our mother was the foundation of our family and without her, it’s difficult to know what to do or what comes next.

I’ll miss her [laugh/smile/generosity/humor/jokes/other descriptor], but am lost without her [guidance/thoughts/advice/other descriptor]. I know we’ll all miss her [insert personality trait or something she was known for].

One of my absolute favorite moments was when my mom [description of memory].

Another one of our family's favorite memories with [Name] was when she [description of memory].

Thank you all for showing up today to honor my mother’s memory and legacy. I know it would’ve warmed her heart to see you all here and I appreciate it greatly. In the words of my mother, “[quote]”

It is an impossible feat to sum up the importance that one’s mother has in one’s life, so I’d like to instead, share some of my favorite memories that I had with my mother. Before I start, let me give you a breakdown of the type of woman my mom was. [Name] was [hardworking/intelligent/ferocious/hilarious/kind/gentle/etc.]. She was always [description] and she never [description]. Her top three favorite things were: [name three things]. One of my favorite memories with my mom was the time we [description]. This is followed closely by the time we [description]. Her [smile/laugh/voice] would light up a room and bring joy to those around her. Her presence was deeply felt and her loss is almost too much to bear. So thank you to everyone who decided to come here today, it means the world to me. One of my mom’s favorite quotes is from [name of author]. It reads, “[quote]”. I’d like to leave you with that today as we celebrate my mother. Thank you.

Thank you for joining me today as I navigate the impossible task of summing up the life of someone incredible, in only a few minutes.

I guess I'll start by sharing one of my favorite moments with [Name]. I was [age] and had just [descriptor]. My mom took me to [location], one of my favorite spots. We had just gone to [location] the previous year, so this was a nice change. We spent the day [descriptor], working on [descriptor] and eating [food]. At night, we [description] and met with [people you met with].

Nights like this weren't uncommon with Mom -- she constantly made sure we had the most fun possible whenever we could. Her free time was spent supporting us, cheerleading for us, driving us to various activities, picking us up, hosting sleepovers, paying for our (many) mistakes, and being known to all as "the best Mom". My friends have all insisted I was blessed with her as my mom, and I know this to be true.

Today, I want us to join together to remember that. To remember the kind of woman she was and the kind of person she taught me and everyone who knew her to be. A woman of joy, light, kindness and warmth. A woman of love and positivity and a ray of sunshine that will be so desperately missed from this world. Mom -- I love you.

To my mother,

I miss you so much. You were the glue that held our family together. You were always there for me when I needed you. I am so grateful to have had you in my life.

You were an amazing woman and an even better mother. I will never forget all the things you taught me. I will never forget your unconditional love and support.

I know you are in a better place now, but I still wish you were here with us. I know that we will see each other again one day, but until then, I will cherish all of our memories together.

I love you, mom.

My mother was the most incredible woman I have ever known. She always supported me in everything that I did, and she was my biggest cheerleader. I know that she is up there looking down on me now, watching over me and guiding me as I navigate through life without her by my side.

Although my mother is no longer with us in this life, I know that she lives on in the memories that I have of her, and the love and support that she gave me throughout my life. She was strong, kind, and warmhearted, and I will always treasure the time we spent together.

I know that it is difficult to lose someone so important to you, but my mother's memory will live on forever in my heart. In her honor, I plan to spend the rest of my days living a life full of kindness and compassion, just as she did. She will never be forgotten.

I am so grateful to have had such an amazing mom, and I know that I will never be able to forget all of the wonderful things she taught me throughout my life. We will cherish all of the amazing memories we have of her until we meet again someday.

Hello all. Before I get started, I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has decided to join us today (and even those who reached out and mentioned they couldn't make it). We're gathered in this beautiful location to celebrate my mom's life. For all of those who decided to travel long distances, who reached out to us during our time of need, and who took the time to help us get this set up -- you have no idea how much this has meant to our family.

What's been most clear to me during this difficult time is simply the staggering amount of people my mom influenced, cared for, and loved. So many folks, even those she hasn't seen in over a decade, have written in and let us know the impact she had on their lives. To say she made you feel loved, seen, and appreciated at all times was an understatement. She was the pillar of our family, a pillar of her community, and would take each and every opportunity available to her to make those around her feel supported and seen.

This has been one of the hardest times our family has gone through and I'm so warmed to know all these bright and smiling faces here today. Thanks for coming to honor my mom.

To lose a mother is to lose a piece of your soul. My mother was no exception. Some would say our relationship was too close and my father used to warn me against "relying" on her too much, since he was trying to protect me from this exact day. My mom was the center of my life and without her, I feel lost. I'm angry, I'm confused, and I miss her so, so, very much. I want to ask each and everyone one of you visiting today, who took the time out of your busy schedules to show your support to my family -- please huge your parents. Please resolve any unresolved issues you currently have, if you love them -- none of it matters. Once you don't have the opportunity to make amends, it feels like everything was so silly. Mom, I miss you, I love you, and I'm lost without you.

Friends and family, today we gather to remember and honor the remarkable life of a woman who truly made a difference in this world. She was a devoted mother, a compassionate humanitarian, and an inspiration to all who knew her.

As we heard from her obituary, this incredible woman faced immense tragedy at a young age, losing her husband in a tragic accident. But instead of giving up, she channeled her grief into a powerful force for good. She joined the Peace Corps, dedicating her life to helping those in need in underdeveloped countries around the world. Her commitment to service was unwavering, and she spent years traveling the world, spreading love and kindness wherever she went.

But she was not only a humanitarian. She was a devoted mother to her son, who was her greatest joy in life. She instilled in him the values of kindness and compassion, and he is a testament to her incredible parenting.

Though we mourn her loss, we can take comfort in knowing that her legacy lives on. She touched so many lives with her kindness, generosity, and unwavering dedication to making the world a better place. She will be deeply missed, but her memory will always be a source of inspiration for us all. Rest in peace, dear friend.

Today, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Chef Kimmino, a beloved chef who has left us too soon. Chef Kimmino was a true culinary artist, whose passion and creativity inspired all who had the pleasure of experiencing their dishes.

Sadly, Chef Kimmino's battle with breast cancer came to an end at the age of 45. But let us not mourn their passing. Instead, let us celebrate the life they lived and the joy they brought to countless individuals through their delicious and unforgettable meals.

Chef Kimmino was a true master of their craft, always experimenting with new flavors and techniques to create dishes that were both innovative and mouth-watering. Their culinary creations were a reflection of their adventurous spirit, and they were never afraid to push the boundaries of traditional cooking.

But Chef Kimmino's impact went beyond their culinary talents. They were a mentor and inspiration to many aspiring chefs, always encouraging them to pursue their passion and follow their dreams. They were also a philanthropist, using their talents to give back to the community by donating their time and resources to various charities and organizations.

Chef Kimmino's passing is a great loss to the culinary world and to all who knew and loved them. But we can take comfort in knowing that their legacy will live on through the countless lives they touched with their passion and generosity.

So let us honor Chef Kimmino's memory by continuing to share their love of food and cooking with others. Let us keep their spirit alive by embracing their adventurous approach to life and always striving for excellence in all that we do.

Rest in peace, Chef Kimmino. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

We’ve all heard the heartwarming stories many have about just how great their [grandmother/grandfather] was, but I’m here to tell you today that mine was the best. Our [grandma/grandpa], [Name] was such a classic [grandma/grandpa] that it’s almost too difficult to believe. [She/He] was the best at [baking/cooking/fixing things/trips/parties/crafts/giving advice/etc]. [She/He] made the most amazing [food/hobby]. [She/He] also was a part of many clubs, including [list of clubs]. Loved by everyone around [him/her], [name] was the star of the show from the very beginning. When [she/he] was young, [she/he] participated in [activity]. As [she/he] grew older, [she/he] became a fan of [description of hobby/interest]. As [her/his] grandchildren, we were lucky enough to spend time with [him/her] doing [description of time spent]. Now that [she’s/he’s] gone, a hole is left in our hearts and in our souls, but we know we will see [her/him] again soon. One of [name]’s favorite passages was, “[passage]”. I think that sums up who [she/he] was quite well. Thank you all for being here today and I know that [Name] would’ve been in tears just seeing all of you who loved and cared for [her/him] show up for [her/him] today.

My [grandmother/grandfather] was one of those women who [description]. [She’s/He’s] incredibly difficult to sum up in just a few words so I’ll do my best. To start with, my [grandmother/grandfather] was most known for [his/her] [description of something they were known for]. Every single person who came into contact with [her/him] would tell me stories about how [he/she] would [story] and [story].

My favorite memory with [her/him] was the time we went to [description of memory].

I’ll always remember [her/him] as a [loving/caring/kind/gentle/wise/intelligent/hilarious] soul who would try [her/his] best each and every day to put a smile on the faces of others.

For those of you who knew my [grandmother/grandfather], you knew just how special and important [she/he] was to our family. I thank you all for spending time with us here today in honor of [her/him] and the person [she/he] was.

My grandmother was an amazing woman. She was always so kind and loving, and I will never forget all of the wonderful moments we shared together. I am so grateful to have had her in my life, and I know that she will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

She was a strong and independent woman, who always put others first. She was always there for me when I needed her, and she was such an important part of my life. I know that she is now at peace, and I take comfort in knowing that she will always be with me in spirit.

Those who knew her, knew how much she loved her family, and she was always so proud of us. She was the heart of our family, and we will never be the same without her. We will cherish all of the memories we have of her, and keep her in our hearts always.

Thank you for everything, Grandma. I love you so much.

My grandmother was one of the most influential people in my life and the lives of so many others. Never one to back down from a fight, she spent almost her entire life dedicated to trying to improve our system, to the best of her ability.

Whether this was through community service, time spent volunteering, or simply being a listening ear to those who needed one, her time spent on this planet was time spent caring for others.

I want to honor my grandmother's legacy by continuing in her footsteps and ask all here to do the same. Be kind to each other. Find ways to help those who cannot help themselves. Figure out how to invite joy into your life and how to cultivate it in the lives of those around you.

Grandma, thank you so much for being the bright soul that you so were. I adore you always and forever.

Before I get started, I wanted to say thank you to every single one of you who has shown up today to honor the life of my grandmother, [Name]. Each and every one of you meant something to her and I know that you know that, without a doubt.

Now, to the hard part -- summing up the life of such an accomplished, loving, and special woman. [Name] -- you were one of the most unique and special souls that has ever graced this earth. Everyone who encountered you immediately felt like one of your best friends. You held that special talent of conversing easily with strangers, of making newcomers feel like oldtimers, and of holding space for anyone and everyone that needed it. I have run into so many people that have said to me, "I'm so sorry for your loss, [Name] was one of my best friends." I've heard this phrase so often it's astounded me -- how did [Name] have so many best friends?! It's because she was special and she knew how to make others feel just as special.

To say the loss we've suffered is great is an understatement -- there is no way to describe the hole that is left by her passing. That being said, I aim to honor her life and legacy by attempting to make others feel just as loved, held, and cared for as she made them feel. I invite everyone here, to do just the same. Thank you.

I know my grandmother would be rolling in her grave if she could see me up here giving her even the slightest bit of praise. Always one to tut at any kind of recognition of her good deeds, she'd absolutely hate that we were all gathered here today to do just that. I can say, without a doubt, that my grandmother was the love of my life. She was the first person to make me feel like I had a home and a place in this world. She encouraged me to pursue my passions, no matter what they were. She was the first person I called when I decided to switch majors at college. She was the first person I called when I needed relationship advice, or advice on how to fix my toilet, or instructions on how to change a tire. She was endlessly crafty, knowledgeable, loving, and hilarious. She hated sad movies and loved a good horror film. Her church group referred to her as "The Old Commander" because she was so stringent in getting them to submit their projects on time. It didn't matter if it was for a church potluck or a wedding reception, she kept people in line and kept all of us in her orbit. Grandma, I love you endlessly and have no idea how I'm to navigate this scary world without you by my side. But I know you're out there, somewhere, looking over me. I love you.

Ladies and Gentlemen, friends and family, we gather here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable man, a loving grandfather, and a proud veteran - [Grandfather's Name]. He lived a full and fulfilling life, filled with joy, laughter, and countless precious memories that will be cherished by all who knew him.

[Grandfather's Name] was born in San Francisco and spent his early years exploring the city and all that it had to offer. He was an adventurous spirit, always eager to try new things and see new places. When he was called to serve in World War 2, he answered the call with bravery and honor, defending our country and our way of life. His service to our nation was a testament to his character, and it was a source of great pride for him throughout his life.

When [Grandfather's Name] returned home from the war, he began a new chapter in his life, one filled with family, friends, and all the things he loved. He was blessed with five grandchildren, and he cherished each and every one of them, spending countless hours camping, fishing, and exploring the great outdoors with them. His love of nature was second only to his love of his family, and he always took time to share his knowledge and appreciation of the natural world with those he loved.

[Grandfather's Name] was also a talented artist and woodworker. He spent many hours in his workshop, creating beautiful pieces of art and furniture that will be cherished by his family for generations to come. His passion for creating was matched only by his love of giving, and every year he donned a Santa Claus suit to bring joy to children in his community.

In the end, [Grandfather's Name] passed away peacefully in Florida at the age of 82, surrounded by the love of his family. He left behind a legacy of love, kindness, and generosity that will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. Today, we say goodbye to a beloved grandfather, a proud veteran, and a true friend. May he rest in peace and may his memory live on in our hearts forever.

Today, we gather to honor and remember the life of Louis Pereira, a Senior Program Manager and passionate writer. Louis had a love for writing, a passion that he was able to pursue in his final years, penning over six short novels that were close to his heart.

Though Louis may be gone, his legacy lives on through his family, particularly his two beloved grandchildren. His kindness, wisdom, and love will continue to guide them throughout their lives.

Louis's dedication to his work and his commitment to his passions serve as an inspiration to all of us. He was a beloved member of the community, known for his compassion and his willingness to lend a helping hand to anyone in need.

As we say goodbye to Louis, we take comfort in the memories he has left behind and the impact he has had on our lives. May he rest in peace, knowing that his spirit and his legacy will live on through his family and his writing.

You were always determined to be the best – on the field, on the court, in the classroom. You set your sights high and worked hard to achieve your goals.

I am so proud of everything you have accomplished in your short life. You were an amazing son, brother, and friend and you will be deeply missed.

You had a passion for sports and a natural talent for competition. You were always driven to win and I know that you would have gone far in your chosen field, no matter what that ended up being.

I will miss watching you play and excel at what you loved so much. You brought joy to everyone around you and I am grateful to have been a part of your life.

Rest in peace, my son. You will be forever in my heart.

First, let me take this moment to thank each and every one of you who showed up today (and to those who are joining us online). It means so much to our family to have this support system in place after the sudden passing of our beloved son, [Name].

I'm not a person of many words, but at this point in time it feels almost like there aren't enough words in the English language to describe how I feel or the impact my boy had on those he met throughout his short life. From the day he was born, I knew he was something special. It was in the glint of his eyes when he couldn't figure out a problem, in the sound of his laughter as it reverberated through our home, in the shine of his smile whenever he came home from school. He was special. I know every parent feels that way about their kid, but it's true -- [Name] was unique.

Losing him is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with and I know the spot left behind by him is irreplaceable -- I will deal with that for the rest of my days. At the same time, my son was absolutely not the kind of person who would want his friends, his family, and his loved ones to stand by and let grief consume him. He would want his memory to be celebrated and honored through love, laughter, adventure, and a deep appreciation of everything our lives have to offer.

In honor of my son, please hug your children a little tighter today. Please take a few minutes to appreciate what this planet has to offer. And please, most of all, be kind to one another.

I knew from the second I held you in my arms for the first time, how special, unique, and incredible you were going to be. And I was right.

My heart was overflowing with love and joy each and every time I saw your sweet face. Every time you said "Mom!", even if it was said in anger or frustration. I knew how much you loved me, our family, and life itself. Our talks were some of the most special moments of my life -- whether they lasted 2 minutes or were one of our infamous "loving debates" that lasted hours.

Your mind was brilliant, your passion for justice was admirable, and you were everything I wish I could've been at your age. I love you so very much son and to say this loss is unimaginable is simply an understatement.

I will follow your trajectory through life and attempt to celebrate your spirit in everything that I do. You are my sweet boy and I cannot wait until I get to see your sweet face and hold you in my arms once again.

I love you, son.

[Name] was my [youngest/oldest] [brother/sister] and one of the most important people in my life. I know [he/she] would’ve been amazed to see all of you who have come out today in support of [him/her] and us as a family. For those who don’t know me, I’m [Name]. From the very beginning, [Name] and I were inseparable. I loved having [Name] as a [brother/sister] more than anything else in my life. I’ve tried to protect [him/her] as though [she/he] was my own [son/daughter] throughout our lives and it is incredibly painful to be here letting [him/her] go today.

Even though [Name] was taken from us too soon, I know that I will see [him/her] again soon. [He/she] lived a full and happy life, one that touched the lives of so many people. I take comfort in knowing that [his/her] legacy will live on through the lives of others.

I’d like to leave you with one of my favorite quotes that I feel sums up [Name] perfectly: “[quote]”

Thank you all again for coming.

Today we’re gathered in memory of [Name], my [brother/sister] and biggest supporter. I’m [name], [Name] [oldest/youngest/older/younger] [brother/sister]. When we were younger, [Name] & I had a difficult relationship. Lots of fights, screaming, yelling; things that siblings tend to do. As we got older, I started to realize how important [Name] was to me and how much of a supporter [he/she] was to me as an individual.

A couple years ago, we went to [location] for [reason]. We [description of memory]. Another moment that I’ll always remember is the time we went to [description of memory].

[Name] was nothing but [generous/kind/loving/helpful/hilarious/determined/accomplished] and was the pride of our family. [He/she] was my best friend, my partner in crime, and someone I knew I could always rely on. Our family is not the same with their loss, but we will press on and live our best lives as a way of honoring [his/her] memory.

Thank you all for joining me and for allowing [Name] to have a space in your heart and in your life.

Every day, after school, my brother would wait (sometimes over an hour) for me to get out of my last class. He would stand at the bus stop, a huge smile on his face every time he heard the bell ring and saw me running towards him. This tradition continued all the way from when I was around 6 to my very last year of high school.

He was one of the most protective, kind, smart, annoying, hilarious, and goofy individuals I've ever known and will surely, ever meet. Going out of his way to stand at a bus stop just to make sure I had some consistency in my life, a friendly face at the end of the day, and a safe way to get back home was the kind of person he continued to be throughout my life (and throughout the lives of his own family).

Everyone who knew him knew what it meant to him to protect those around him, and that kind of protection was one he enacted until the day he passed away. Without my brother here, I feel a piece of me has shuttered itself away. At the same time, his loss has sparked a desire in me to be better. For him, for his family, for my family, and for myself. His impact on others was incalculable and immeasurable; his life is equally difficult to sum up in just a few words in just a few minutes. I don't doubt I'll be sharing small stories from his life for the rest of my own, but I do want to make sure I make one thing extremely clear.

My brother was the best of us and this world is less bright now that he has passed. Please, keep him in your memory and in your thoughts. Honor his memory by being kind and trying your absolute best. Thank you for coming and for joining my family in remembering my brother.

If I were to say that my sister was the most important person in my life, it might be a bit of a life. (Technically, my mom is the most important person in my life.) I didn't consider my sister as a separate individual -- she was part of me. We were two parts of a whole. Together, we were a full being. Without her, I feel as though half of me is gone.

When we were young, we would stay up until way past our bedtime, whispering down the hallway to each other as we slept in separate beds. We would share our dreams, our fears, our anger, and our joy for a few hours each night. I learned about her dream to be a veterinarian and she celebrated my desire to be a janitor. (We were young!)

Each summer we would go to summer camp together (which we hated), prompted by our parents' need to get some much needed alone time. We were fused at the hip and made almost no friends during summer camps (much to our joy and delight). When we'd get home, our parents would ask if we made new friends and had a great time, we'd lie and make up names for the friends we never made.

When we graduated from college (we both attended [name of college]), she was right behind me on the stage, clasping her degree in [subject] while I held mine in [subject] -- far from our dreams as children.

Throughout our 20's we played around with moving apart and traveling but would ultimately reunite in our hometown every two years or so. When we lost [name], we lived only 20 minutes from each other and would see each other nearly every other day. She was the first person I called when I needed someone to hear me out, someone to listen to me rant, someone to comfort me as I cried, and someone to advocate for me when I wasn't kind to myself.

Losing my sister is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I will never feel whole again. At the same time, I know she would want me to remember her in a bright light and know that I carry her with me at all times. I truly aim to do this. In her memory, please give your loved ones a hug today and let them know how much they mean to you.

Many of you attending today know my sister through her immensely successful career as a nurse, some of you know her through her brief stint as a filmographer, and many of you know her because she made a deep impression on you at some point during our childhood. To say she was a lifelong friend to many wouldn't be doing her justice. My sister was the kind of person who somehow found the stragglers, the outcasts, the nerds, the misfits, and the people who didn't feel like they had a community -- and gave them one. She opened up her home to those in need, rented out (and sometimes just lended out) her extra rooms, constantly helped people find jobs, resources, and connections when they were new to the city. She was everything to so many and I'm so blessed to see you all here today. Please try your best to fill your life with generosity and gratitude as a testament to her and her life. Thank you.

Thank you for joining me today in honoring my sister's memory. From a young age, I knew my sister was special. She would pick me up each and every day from school. When I went to college, she was there to drive me to the dorms. When I graduated, she drove me across the country. Without her constant and unrelenting support, I wouldn't have made it through the last 40 years of my life. She showed me how to be a better sister, a better person, and a wonderful mom. I owe everything to her and don't know how to navigate life without her.

My grandson, [Full Name] was an amazing young man. He made his family immensely proud of him every single day he lived. A teacher, an educator, a passionate writer, and a talented artist, his multifaceted personality and talent arsenal impressed everyone he met.

He was a strong and independent man, who always put others before himself. Even when he was younger, he'd be the first of my grandkids to ask how he could help. If I was fixing the car, he'd want to watch. If I was working in the garden, he'd want to help. If the lawn needed to be mowed, he'd be up on a Saturday morning taking care of it. When his grandmother, my wife, had hip surgery, he was the one to run and grab us groceries every week. All of this without complaint and without making us feel as though we were burdens.

I am so proud of the man that he had become and only wish he had the opportunity to live out the rest of his days. A rare and special soul, he will be missed so very much.

Thank you for everything, [first name]. I love you and miss you so much.

To my beautiful granddaughter,

You were the light in my life – always happy, always smiling. You lit up a room every time you entered it and I will miss that light so very much.

I am so proud of the woman you were becoming and I know that you would have accomplished great things in your life. You had such a bright future ahead of you and I am heartbroken that it has been cut so short.

I will cherish all the memories we have together – from your first steps, to your first day of school, to your high school graduation. You were always my pride and joy and I will miss you more than words can say.

Rest in peace, my sweet granddaughter. You will be forever in my heart.

Example # 3

Those of you who know me, know how much my grandson meant to me, our family, and our community. [Name] was a rare individual -- someone that, in today's day and age, is becoming increasingly more rare. He thrived on connecting with others and building up his community in any way he could. Countless hours were spent volunteering with the food bank, the humane society, setting up various cancer walks and runs and trying his hardest to do good in this world and to provide a sense of togetherness with the few precious years he had on this planet. His loss is deeply felt by everyone in our family and of course, many of those who are not (but according to him, would be called family). Please consider honoring [Name]'s memory by volunteering your time in any way that you find meaningful. Maybe that means setting up a walk or run (or any other fun activity) for a charity that you hold dear. Maybe that means picking up trash on the road. Maybe that means spending time in the community garden. In any case, know that any time spent building up the lives of others is time spent remembering and honoring the life of [Name] -- and for that, we are forever grateful.

When I gave birth to [Name], my life was permanently changed. I'd heard how this can happen from friends and family, stories about how having a child changes your life. I'd known this would happen but no amount of warning could've prepared me for how rapidly and totally my world was consumed by my baby. When I held her in my arms for the first time, I knew. I knew my life's purpose. I understood the unspeakable bond that tethers a mother to her child. I was hesitant to release her, to let anyone else but me hold her, even her father. I was obsessed.

With each day, she grew into the bright, confident, and cheerful little girl she ended up being. Every flower was a burst of laughter, interactions with puppies and dogs was a cause for joy, she cried incessantly and wouldn't let me sleep for over 2 months -- but it was so worth it. Seeing her bright, chubby cheeks light up as I turned the corner into her room made it so very worth it.

My daughter was my world and I have no idea how I am to cope with her loss. No parent should undergo the rage and grief that accompanies picking out a casket for your small child. Her life was tragically taken from her and I'll never get to know what kind of person she would've been -- though I have theories. I know she loved every day she got to spend on this earth and I know she felt loved for each and every day.

What I learned from her was to embrace joy, to find a spark of happiness in each and every day, and to cry it out when you have to. [Name], sweet girl, you are so loved and so very missed.

Thank you for joining me and my family today to celebrate, remember, and honor the life of [Full Name]. [Name] was a [man/woman] of [describe characteristics] with a penchant for [description] that always showed itself whenever [he/she] would [description]. A [man/woman] of many talents, [Name] showed us that it was never too late to start [hobby/career].

My [father/mother/sister/brother/relation] was, without a doubt, my best friend, my biggest cheerleader, and my constant supporter. When I was interested in [hobby], [she/he] showed up to all the events. When I decided I was obsessed with [hobby], [he/she] went out and purchased [item]. When I decided to [description], [she/he] was the first person to [description].

My [mom/dad/relation] was an unforgettable and truly remarkable human being. I endeavor, with all my heart, to follow in [his/her] footsteps for the rest of my life. I will honor [his/her] time on Earth and [his/her] contributions to our society by [describe how you'll honor their life]. I ask that everyone here today join me in this endeavour as we aim to honor the life of [full name]. Thank you.

To my wife,

You were my best friend and my partner in life. We shared everything – our hopes, our dreams, our lives. You were the love of my life and I will miss you forever.

We had so many happy years together and I am grateful for every moment we shared. You brought joy to my life and I will cherish our time together always.

I am so proud of the woman you were and I know that you touched the lives of everyone around you. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

Rest in peace, my love. You will be forever in my heart.

Choosing a favorite moment from my life spent with my wife is impossible. Was it the time that we went to Lake Minetonka and passed out on the shores after sharing a box full of wine? Was it when she surprised me with tickets to see The Black Crowes in concert, only two months after I'd mentioned it to her? When I'd wake up in the morning to a hot cup of coffee and a brief rant on the political state of the world? The way she mothered our children effortlessly and still took the time to ask me about specific relationships at work? My life has been full of these warm memories -- I can't land on one. What I do know is that my wife emanated love each and every day. Every single day I felt loved, supported, and known. It made me want to make sure she was taken care of in each and every way. I did my best. I tried to give her the life she so deserved, but even if I could give her the life of a queen, it wouldn't have been enough for what she deserved. My wife was everything and is the center of my joy. I miss her each and every day and I know I will see her again.

Ever since I was a little girl, I wanted to be married. I was obsessed with any and all films of prince charmings, beautiful and big weddings, and women being swept off their feet. I was convinced that my time would come by the time I was 20 (how naive!). I went through college and by the time I was 32 realized I'd never had a boyfriend. I'd never been courted. I wasn't even sure I liked men. My desire to be swept off my feet dwindled and I became secure in myself.

Until I met [Name].

Immediately, within the first 20 minutes of meeting [Name], I was absolutely smitten. I thought of almost nothing else when we were apart -- and we hated each other! She was competing with me for the same promotion at work and we were both tenacious and fierce women. She was stubborn, confident, and sure of what she wanted -- much like myself.

After she got the promotion I so desperately wanted, she invited me out for a conciliatory drink -- a move I never would've made. She would go on to refer to this as our first date, though I considered it the first brick towards building a bridge away from dislike and towards camaraderie.

I was swept off my feet, in a completely unexpected way. During our first years of dating, I found myself wanting to provide for her, take care of her, make her smile at all possible moments. When she ranted about work, I wanted to defend her. When she managed to burn chicken each and every time, you wouldn't hear a peep from me. When she suggested we get married, I wanted her to be the star of the show. I wanted to show her off to every important person in my life. She'd lovingly refer to me as her ""Princess Charming"" -- a role I happily inhabited.

My wife brought joy, kindness, love, courage, strength, and purpose into my life. Without her by my side, I feel an unhealable void. At the same time, in her way, she prepared me as best she could. I ask those gathered here today, in her memory, to help me keep her presence alive. Please spread joy in all the ways you can. Tell people how you feel. Advocate for yourself. Be free.

My life's greatest years were spent with [Name], the love of my life. She loved everything about life, even the downsides -- she embraced it all. Life was hard, but it was also worth it for her. From the moment I met her, I knw my life would be different and that I'd found the one.

[Name] made such a massive difference in the community around her, especially after becoming president of the charity she worked for. Her favorite things in life were witnessing others transform their lives for the better, helping people access community resources wherever possible, and advocating for those less fortunate. Go out today and try your best to emulate everything she did, and more.

I am so saddened by the loss of [Name]. We didn't always see eye to eye, but I always respected [him/her] as a hard worker and a great person. [She/He] was always so kind and helpful, and I will never forget all of the times [she/he] went out of [him/her] way to help me. [She/He] will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing [him/her].

When we first met at [company], [name] was one of the first people to make me feel welcome. I’ll never forget how [she/he] took the time to get to know me and helped me feel like I belonged there.

I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to work with [him/her], and I know that [she/he] has left a lasting impression on everyone [she/he] met. [She/He] was an amazing person, and I know that [she/he] will be deeply missed. Thank you for everything, [name].

May you rest in peace.

Throughout my career, I've met plenty of personalities, characters, and people -- but none as special as [Name]. When [Name] first entered the front doors to our building, I immediately knew we would get on. [Name] was the type of person you'd easily become friends with. People who met [him/her/them] would immediately want to work alongside them. As one of my first direct reports, I can't tell you how many people would come to me on the side and request to be paired with or on a team with [Name]. Why? [He/she] was special. People gravitated towards them. People wanted to be in their sphere of influence. People wanted to work alongside them and get to know them.

That's rare. This is the first time I've seen the majority of my company in one room that wasn't our building -- and it's for the funeral of our very special friend and colleague -- [Name]. Thank you to [Name's parents] for raising such an incredible human being. Please know that your [son/daughter/child] changed the lives, every day, of so many people around them. I have never in my 50 years of managing imagined running into someone like [Name] and I am blessed to have known them. Rest well and peacefully, [Name], you did well.

Today we come together to honor the life and legacy of a beloved retired musician, who touched so many lives with his passion for music. He was a kind-hearted man who enjoyed pushing boundaries and exploring new horizons. He was an avid traveler, having visited countries all over the world. He also had a strong connection to animals, particularly cats. His home was often filled with cats of all shapes, sizes and colors.

He had a variety of musical influences, which he blended together to create his own unique sound. He was an incredibly talented musician who could play various instruments including the guitar, piano and flute. He wrote some beautiful melodies that will live on long after him.

He was also a generous soul, always ready to lend a helping hand. He had an open door policy and welcomed people into his home with open arms. More than anything else, he loved sharing stories and swapping ideas with those around him.

Today we celebrate the life of this incredible man who left behind a beautiful legacy of music and of kindness. He will be remembered for all that he has accomplished and the many lives that he touched. May we strive to follow in his footsteps and honor his memory by living our own lives with love, humility and caring. Thank you.

These eulogy examples are for those who would like to focus on a loved one's profession or career choices as their way of honoring their life's work.

Eulogy for a speech pathologist

Dear friends, family, and colleagues,

Today, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Sarah Kwambe, a remarkable woman who touched the lives of so many people during her time with us. Sarah was not only a skilled speech pathologist but also a former professional soccer player who had to leave the sport she loved due to a career-ending injury. However, Sarah didn't let that setback stop her from pursuing her passion for helping others.

Sarah's journey began in South Dakota, where she lived with her beloved cat, Sam. She dedicated her life to making a difference in the lives of young people, particularly middle schoolers, whom she worked with as a speech pathologist. She had a remarkable ability to connect with her students and inspire them to achieve their full potential.

Despite the challenges she faced early on in her life, Sarah never gave up on her dreams. She was an accomplished athlete who excelled in soccer, but when her injury put an end to her career, she channeled her passion and determination into her studies. She pursued a degree in speech pathology, and her dedication to her work was evident in everything she did.

Sarah was a compassionate, caring, and selfless person who always put others first. She was a mentor to many, a friend to all, and a source of inspiration to everyone who knew her. She had a warm smile and a kind heart that could light up a room, and her love for her students was evident in the way she interacted with them.

Although Sarah never had children of her own, she had a deep love for her cat, Sam, who was always by her side. Her commitment to her feline friend was just one of the many examples of her kindness and compassion.

In conclusion, Sarah Kwambe was a truly remarkable person who touched the lives of many people in ways that will never be forgotten. Her legacy will live on through the countless students she helped, the colleagues she inspired, and the friends and family who loved her dearly. She will be deeply missed, but her spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

Rest in peace, Sarah Kwambe.

Eulogy example for an environmental activist

Dear friends and family,

Today, we gather to remember and celebrate the life of Rachel Chen, a remarkable woman who dedicated her life to protecting and preserving our environment. Rachel was an accomplished environmental scientist, mother of three children - Irina, Bliss, and Mario, and a loving partner to her husband of many years.

From a young age, Rachel had a deep love and appreciation for nature. Her passion for the environment inspired her to pursue a career in environmental science, and she quickly became a respected expert in her field. She spent many years working tirelessly to protect our national parks, and her dedication to this cause never wavered.

Rachel was also an avid gardener, and she had a remarkable ability to bring beauty to everything she touched. Her love for nature was evident in everything she did, from the way she tended to her garden to the way she spoke about the natural world.

As a mother, Rachel was loving, patient, and kind. She instilled in her children a deep respect for the environment and a desire to make the world a better place. Her children were the light of her life, and she was so proud of the people they had become.

Rachel's passing is a great loss to us all. She was a remarkable person who touched the lives of so many people in countless ways. Her legacy will live on through the countless national parks and natural spaces that she helped to protect, as well as through the love and memories that her family and friends will always carry in their hearts.

Rachel, we will miss you dearly, but we know that your spirit will live on through the beauty of nature that you cherished so deeply. Rest in peace.

Eulogy example for a young adult

Today, we come together to celebrate the life of Zach Peterson. Zach was a talented mechanic, a loving son, and a loyal friend. He passed away far too soon, but his memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

Zach had a passion for auto maintenance that was unmatched. He loved nothing more than working on cars, and he was always happy to help a friend in need. His skills were truly remarkable, and he had an uncanny ability to diagnose and fix any issue that came his way.

But Zach was more than just a mechanic. He was a gentle soul who cared deeply about those around him. He had a warm smile that could light up a room, and he was always quick with a joke or a kind word. He had a way of making everyone feel welcome and included, no matter who they were.

Zach's passing has left a void in our lives, but we take comfort in knowing that his memory will live on. We will remember his kind heart, his infectious laughter, and his unwavering loyalty. Zach was a special person who made a lasting impact on the world around him, and we are all better for having known him. Rest in peace, Zach.

Eulogy for an infant

With heavy hearts, we gather here today to mourn the loss of a precious child who has been taken from us too soon. We know that God has a plan for each and every one of us, but it is still difficult to understand why a young life has been cut short.

As we come together to remember this beautiful child, we take comfort in knowing that they are now in the loving embrace of our Lord. Though their time with us was brief, they brought immense joy and love into the world, and we will cherish the memories we have of them forever.

We know that this is a time of deep sorrow, but we can find solace in the fact that this child is now at peace in the arms of our Heavenly Father. May we all find comfort in our faith, and may we hold this precious child close in our hearts as we navigate this difficult time. Rest in peace, little one.

Eulogy for a grandmother

Today we gather to remember a truly remarkable woman - my grandmother. She was a woman of many talents: a masterful cross-stitcher, an incredible fudge-maker, and a loving grandmother to a whole gaggle of grandchildren.

Grandma was the kind of woman who made you feel like you were the only person in the world when she was talking to you. She always had a smile on her face and a twinkle in her eye, and she had a way of making even the most mundane tasks seem like an adventure.

And oh, her fudge! I think we can all agree that Grandma's fudge was a work of art. It was creamy, decadent, and so rich that you could only eat a tiny piece at a time - not that it stopped any of us from trying to eat the whole batch in one sitting!

But beyond her talents and her love of fudge, Grandma will be remembered most of all for the love she had for her family. She was a guiding light for all of us, a source of wisdom and strength when we needed it most.

So, as we say goodbye to this incredible woman, let us not mourn her passing, but celebrate the incredible life she lived. She was one of a kind, and we were all blessed to have known her. Rest in peace, Grandma - we will never forget you.

Eulogy for a farmer

Today we gather to celebrate the life of a man who loved nothing more than working hard under the sun, watching his land grow and thrive. [Name] was not just any farmer - he was a tireless advocate for agricultural reform and change. His passion for sustainable farming practices, conservation, and education knew no bounds.

He was never afraid to get his hands dirty or put in long hours because he believed that every crop mattered; every seed planted had the potential to make a difference. His dedication inspired those around him and helped shape the landscape of our community.

[Name] will be remembered by all as an honest, kind-hearted man who always put others first. I’ll miss his unwavering determination to better this world through agriculture and his infectious smile that brightened up everyone’s day.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when he taught me how to plant corn by hand while sharing stories about his childhood on the farm.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when he organized a fundraiser for local farmers affected by droughts and natural disasters.

Thank you all for being here today to honor my friend’s memory and legacy. In [name]’s words “Farming is not just a profession but also an art form”. May we carry on this art form in honor of him.

Eulogy for a teacher

We are gathered here today to say goodbye to someone very special: A teacher who dedicated her life towards social justice inside her classrooms, making sure each student felt valued and respected regardless of their background or ethnicity. She empowered students from underserved communities with access to quality education - she showed them they could achieve anything if they worked hard enough.

[name]'s legacy lives on through every student she touched during her career as an educator, instilling confidence in them whilst fighting against systemic oppression within school walls.

I’ll miss her contagious energy, witty humor, and deep compassion for everyone she met.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when she invited me to speak in her class about my personal experiences and background, empowering me to share my story confidently.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when she organized a rally with her students for Black Lives Matter movement that brought people together from all walks of life.

Thank you for being here today, honoring the memory and legacy of someone who dedicated their life towards ensuring social justice inside classrooms. In the words of [name], “Education can change how we view ourselves, other people, and the world”. Let’s carry on this legacy in honor of her.

Eulogy for a foster dad

We gather here today to celebrate the life of a man who was known for his unwavering dedication towards family, golfing and fostering kids - [name]. If there’s one thing that everyone knows about him- it's that he loved nothing more than spending time with those he loved and helping those in need.

[name] had an infectious personality which brought joy to all those around him. He made sure to always put his family first no matter what, while also making time for the sport he was passionate about: Golf.

He would often take foster kids along with him on these trips; providing them a chance at a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

I’ll miss his contagious laughter, generosity, and his commitment to living every day to its fullest potential.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when we went out golfing together by the lake, enjoying each other’s company over some good shots.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when he organized a youth-golf tournament fundraiser raising funds for underprivileged children.

Thank you all for being here today honoring someone who lived their life so fully dedicated towards their passions - Family, Golfing & Fostering Kids. In the words of [name], “Life is like a round of golf; try your best from tee to green but don't forget to enjoy the moments along the way."

Eulogy for a soldier

Today we come together as friends and family members mourning the loss of someone whose bravery knew no bounds- [name]. A soldier who sacrificed everything including her own life during deployment serving her country valiantly.

Her courage has inspired us all and reminded us that freedom sometimes comes at great cost—she gave up everything she had just so others could have something better tomorrow.

She will be remembered not only as a hero but also as a friend whose selflessness touched countless lives on and off-duty alike. Her positivity knew no bounds even in times where things felt like they couldn’t get any worse.

I’ll miss her infectious energy, unbreakable spirit and her ability to inspire people around her even in the darkest of times.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when we went on a vacation together after she returned from deployment, catching up on life post-duty and just enjoying each other’s company.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] was when she organized a fundraiser for veterans who had been wounded during active duty.

Thank you all for being here today. We celebrate someone whose profound sacrifice has given us the freedom that we enjoy today- Freedom which comes at great cost. In [name]'s words: "Duty first; self second." Let us never forget this sentiment as we honor those brave men and women who serve their country valiantly.

Eulogy for an animal activist

Today marks the passing away of a woman whose compassion for animals was unmatched - [name]. She served as President at local ASPCA chapter where she inspired others through her dedication towards animal rights advocacy and protection. Her tireless efforts led to increased awareness within our community regarding animal welfare issues such as abuse or neglect.

[name] will be remembered not only as an advocate but also as a friend to all animals; big or small. Her kindness knew no bounds and it extended beyond just domesticated pets like dogs or cats- advocating for wildlife preservation too!

I’ll miss her infectious energy, unwavering passion and her ability to inspire empathy in those around her.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when she rescued several abandoned kittens outside our office building during lunch breaks.

Another one of our local communities’ favorite memories with [Name] was when she coordinated fundraisers which helped raise funds for medical treatment costs associated with pet care amongst low-income families.

Thank you all for being here today honoring someone who made it their mission to ensure well-being among some oft-forgotten members in society: animals. May we strive each day to extend kindness towards them, carrying on what [name] started so passionately.

Eulogy for a writer

Thank you so much for attending the services today as we gather to say goodbye to Kaleb Morris, an incredibly talented author and journalist. His work delved into the darkest corners of human behavior, shining a light on the most heinous and unthinkable crimes. Kaleb had a gift for telling stories that not only captivated readers but also helped to shed light on important issues that might have otherwise gone unnoticed.

Tragically, Kaleb's life was cut short in a boating accident, leaving behind his child and former wife, Shareece. Though we grieve for the life that has been taken from us too soon, we can also take comfort in the legacy that Kaleb leaves behind.

His writing was not just a means to entertain, but a way to make a difference in the world. Kaleb shone a light on issues that needed to be addressed, and gave a voice to those who had been silenced by violence and tragedy. He was a gifted storyteller, and his impact on the true crime genre will be felt for years to come.

Kaleb will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his work will live on as a testament to his incredible talent and dedication to his craft. Rest in peace, Kaleb.

Eulogy for a nurse practitioner

We gather to remember and honor Cherish Abrams, a beloved nurse practitioner who touched the lives of countless patients and colleagues during her 25 years of service. Cherish was known for her compassion, dedication, and expertise, and her loss is deeply felt by all who knew her.

Cherish was like a ""grandma"" to the NICU where she worked, comforting and caring for infants and families during their most vulnerable moments. Her gentle touch and kind words provided solace and hope to those in need, and her wisdom and guidance were invaluable to her colleagues.

Cherish's tragic passing is a reminder of how precious life is and how quickly it can be taken away. But even in death, she continues to inspire us with her selflessness, her unwavering dedication to her patients, and her love for her profession.

Cherish's memory will live on in the hearts of those she touched, and her legacy will continue through the lives of the countless patients she cared for and the colleagues she mentored. May she rest in peace, knowing that she made a profound difference in the world and that she will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a community leader

Today we gather to honor and remember the life of Michael Patel, a beloved community leader and philanthropist who dedicated his life to making the world a better place. Michael was a self-made businessman, a devoted family man, and a passionate advocate for those in need.

Throughout his life, Michael demonstrated a deep commitment to his community, supporting countless charitable organizations and causes. His generosity knew no bounds, and his impact on the lives of those he helped will never be forgotten.

Michael's passing is a great loss to us all, but his legacy will continue through the countless lives he touched and the causes he supported. We are grateful for the time we had with him and for the inspiration he provided to us all. Rest in peace, Michael, knowing that your life made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a high school teacher

We gather here today to remember and celebrate the life of Samantha Liu, a beloved high school teacher who passed away far too soon. Samantha was a bright, energetic, and dedicated educator who brought out the best in her students and inspired them to reach for their dreams.

In her 15 years of teaching, Samantha touched the lives of countless students, colleagues, and parents. Her passion for education was infectious, and her positive energy was felt by everyone who crossed her path.

Though we mourn the loss of Samantha, we take comfort in the memories she has left behind and the impact she has had on our lives. Her legacy lives on in the countless students whose lives she touched, and in the hearts of all those who were fortunate enough to know her. Rest in peace, Samantha, knowing that you made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a philanthropist

Eulogy example for loving mother.

We gather here today to celebrate the life of Emily Thompson, a beloved mother and grandmother who passed away peacefully surrounded by her family. Emily was a kind, caring, and nurturing woman who devoted her life to her loved ones.

As a mother of four and a grandmother of nine, Emily's love and devotion knew no bounds. She was the heart and soul of her family, providing comfort, support, and wisdom whenever it was needed.

Though we mourn the loss of Emily, we take comfort in the memories she has left behind and the love she shared with us all. Her legacy lives on through her family and the countless lives she touched during her lifetime. Rest in peace, Emily, knowing that you made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy example for teacher

Marcus was a beloved teacher who dedicated his life to helping his students achieve their goals. He had a gift for teaching and his enthusiasm for learning was contagious. Marcus always went above and beyond to help his students, whether it was staying late to help them with homework, or just lending an ear when they needed to talk. He truly believed in the power of education to change lives, and he worked tirelessly to make sure his students had the tools they needed to succeed. Marcus was also a devoted husband and father. He met his wife, Sarah, when they were both in college, and they were inseparable ever since. They had two children together, and Marcus loved nothing more than spending time with his family. He was always there for his kids, whether it was coaching their sports teams or just reading them a bedtime story.

Marcus was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, but he never let it slow him down. He continued teaching, even when he was undergoing chemotherapy, and he always had a positive attitude. Marcus fought his illness with courage and grace, and he never lost his faith in God.

Marcus was a shining example of what it means to be a good person, and he touched the lives of everyone he met. He will be deeply missed by his students, colleagues, and his loving wife and two children.

Eulogy example for a chef

Isabella was a talented chef who had a passion for creating beautiful and delicious food. She was always experimenting with new flavors and ingredients, and her dishes were a work of art. Isabella had a natural talent for cooking, but she also worked hard to hone her skills. She attended culinary school and worked in some of the best restaurants in the city. But Isabella's love for cooking wasn't just about creating amazing dishes. She also loved the way food brought people together. Isabella was always hosting dinner parties and potlucks, and she loved nothing more than seeing people enjoy her food. She had a big heart and loved to share her food with family and friends. Her food was a way for her to show her love for the people in her life.

Isabella was also a devoted partner. She met her girlfriend, Maria, when they were both working in a restaurant, and they were inseparable ever since. They built a life together, and Isabella loved nothing more than spending time with Maria and their two dogs.

Isabella's death was a shock to everyone who knew her. She had so much talent and so much to give to the world. But even in death, Isabella's spirit lives on through her food and the memories she created for those who knew and loved her.

Eulogy for a principal

Today, we honor the life of a great educator who dedicated his life to shaping young minds and transforming our community through educational reform. We celebrate Michael's passion for education and his tireless efforts in ensuring that every child in this school district received quality education. He was not only an excellent principal but also a mentor, friend, and role model to many.

Michael was committed to providing resources necessary for students' success by creating programs that would enable them to have access to books, computers, and other learning materials. His unwavering commitment towards serving disadvantaged communities will forever be remembered.

We'll miss his vision for educational reform but are grateful for the impact he left on us all.

One of my favorite memories with Michael was when he fought tirelessly to get funding from the government so that we could add more classrooms and hire more teachers. His determination inspired me always.

Eulogy for a doctor

It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye today to Dr.[Name], an incredible physician who touched many lives during his medical career. While he loved fast cars, small dogs, and Margaritaville music, his dedication towards helping others never wavered.

Dr.[Name] had a way of putting people at ease whenever they were anxious about their health issues; he made you feel like everything would be okay no matter what happened.

He lived life fully and inspired those around him while doing so - even while battling his own illness—always encouraging others never to give up hope or lose faith in themselves.

I’ll miss his sense of humor but am lost without his guidance on how I should take care of myself better!

Another one of my favorite memories with Dr.[Name] is when he took me out on a ride-along in his sports car after work one day! He loved living life vicariously through little adventures like these!

Eulogy for someone who followed their dream

Today we gather here to honor [Name], who was a brilliant data analyst with a desire to become a potato farmer in Europe. He had an insatiable love for his lineage and dreamt of starting his farm there.

[Name] loved data analysis, but he also believed that there was more to life than crunching numbers. His passion for agriculture inspired him to follow his dream of farming potatoes and reconnecting with his roots.

He will be missed for his gentle nature and quiet strength. Still, we can all take comfort in knowing that he lived life on his terms and pursued what made him happy.

One of my absolute favorite moments was when [Name] shared pictures of the farmland where he hoped to start farming someday—his eyes lit up as he spoke about it so passionately!

Eulogy for a CEO who swapped careers

Today marks the passing away of someone incredibly special- a CEO turned dog trainer specializing in corgis- [Name].

[Name]'s career shift from being a successful CEO reflected how passionate she was about dogs, especially corgis! Her love for them was unmatched, and she spent her later years training them.

She was an inspiration to many who dreamed of following their passion. She showed that it's never too late to start something new, no matter how old you are!

We'll miss her business acumen but are grateful for the legacy she left behind. [Name] lived a life filled with happiness and fulfillment, doing what made her happiest - surrounded by pups!

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when I visited her training facility and saw all the corgis happily playing under her watchful eye; it was a beautiful sight to see!

Eulogy for a small business owner

Today we celebrate the life of our beloved community leader [Name], who served tirelessly on city council while running one of the most popular sandwich shops in town.

[Name] had an unwavering commitment towards serving others; she dedicated her time, energy, and resources towards making our community better. From creating programs for at-risk youth to supporting small businesses like hers financially - she did it all without asking anything in return.

She brought people together through her sandwiches, which were not only delicious but also affordable! Her relentless dedication towards serving her customers helped establish her business as one of the best sandwich shops around town.

We are grateful for everything [Name] did during her lifetime, and we know that her legacy will continue to inspire future generations.

Another one of our family's favorite memories with [Name] is when she would often give us free sandwiches if we couldn't afford them! She truly cared about everyone who came into her shop!

5.Today marks the passing away of someone incredibly special- a CEO turned dog trainer specializing in corgis- [Name].

Ladies and Gentlemen,

We gather here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable woman, a mother, an engineer, a farmer, a community activist, and a beloved friend to many. [Name] was a beacon of strength, compassion, and unwavering love.

Born 58 years ago, [Name] was a woman of many talents and passions. She pursued an engineering degree with the determination and brilliance that defined her character. Not one to rest on her laurels, she furthered her education with a Master’s in Agricultural Sciences, a field where she found her true calling.

[Name] was not just a scholar but a practitioner. Her homestead was her haven, a place where she cultivated not just crops but a sense of community. She loved farming, a passion that was evident in the thriving fields and the abundance she shared with her neighbors. Her produce fed not just bodies but souls, fostering a sense of unity and support in our community.

As a mother of twins, [Name] was phenomenal. Her love for her children knew no bounds. She was bright and thoughtful, always finding the right balance between nurturing and guiding her children with patience and wisdom. Her love was the foundation upon which her family stood strong.

Her battle with lung cancer was a testament to her incredible resilience and strength. Even in the face of illness, she remained an active and dedicated member of our community. Her activism and her unwavering commitment to making a difference in the lives of those around her were truly inspiring.

[Name] was more than her accomplishments; she was a person of immense warmth and kindness. She had a unique ability to make everyone feel seen and heard. Her thoughtful nature, her loving heart, and her unwavering patience were qualities that left a lasting impression on everyone she met.

Today, as we mourn her loss, we also celebrate her life and the indelible mark she left on all of us. Her legacy is not just in the fields she tilled or the degrees she earned but in the lives she touched and the love she spread.

Let us remember [Name] not with tears but with the joy and gratitude for having had the privilege of knowing such an extraordinary woman. Her spirit will forever live on in our hearts and in the community she so dearly loved and served.

Rest in peace, [Name]. You will be deeply missed, but your legacy will continue to inspire and guide us.

Eulogy for [Name]

Ladies and Gentlemen, family, and friends,

Today, we gather to celebrate the life of an extraordinary man, a loving father, a dedicated foster parent, and a pillar of our community, [Name]. He was a man of boundless generosity, unwavering love, and unparalleled dedication to his family and community.

Born 62 years ago, [Name] was the proud father of four wonderful children. But his heart was so vast that it couldn't be confined to just his own; over the years, he opened his home and heart to more than 15 foster children. Each child who came into his life was embraced with the same love and care as his own. He was not just a father but a beacon of hope and love for all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Tragically, [Name] passed away after a sudden heart attack. His departure has left a void that is felt deeply by all of us, but his legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire us.

Family vacations were always a highlight of the year, meticulously coordinated by [Name]. He ensured that each trip was filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable memories. Whether it was camping in the great outdoors, exploring new cities, or simply spending time together, these moments were cherished by all, thanks to his thoughtful planning.

[Name] had a passion for cooking and baking, often seen in the kitchen whipping up delicious meals and treats. He shared this love not only with his family but also with underprivileged families, teaching them how to cook and build healthy meals. His culinary skills brought warmth and nourishment to so many lives.

His hands were never idle, always busy fixing or building something. He had a remarkable talent for organizing and creating, leaving behind a legacy of beautifully crafted items and well-maintained homes. His ability to turn chaos into order was nothing short of magical.

Every year, [Name] competed in a marathon, showcasing his determination, strength, and dedication. His participation was not just about personal achievement but also about inspiring others to push their limits and strive for their best.

Beyond his immediate family, [Name] extended his care and compassion to the wider community. He served on the board of three community food kitchens, tirelessly working to ensure that those in need were fed and cared for. His commitment to these causes was a testament to his selflessness and desire to make the world a better place.

Beloved by all his children and family members, [Name]'s love was a constant, reassuring presence in their lives. His wisdom, guidance, and unwavering support were the foundation upon which they built their lives.

As we say our final goodbyes, let us remember [Name] not with sadness for his passing, but with gratitude for the incredible impact he had on our lives. His spirit will live on in the love he shared, the lives he touched, and the countless memories we hold dear.

Rest in peace, dear [Name]. You will forever be in our hearts, a shining example of love, kindness, and dedication.

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A Guide to Writing a Funeral Speech: 8 Heartfelt Examples

By: Author Camila Steinfeld

Posted on Last updated: October 20, 2023

Categories Writing Prompts

With the passing of a loved one comes the responsibility of making arrangements for their funeral. This includes deciding who will be saying a funeral speech at the funeral service.

Saying a funeral speech is not something that should be undertaken unprepared. It requires some forethought and planning.

A funeral is an emotional occasion and delivering a speech, unprepared, in front of the congregation is a recipe for disaster = one that will not soon be forgiven.

The ‘Do’s and Don’ts’ of a Funeral Speech

When you sit down to decide what you’re going to say in your eulogy speech, there are a few factors you need to take into consideration.

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In writing your speech , it’s important to demonstrate the personal relationship you shared with the deceased. It’s necessary that you give the congregation an insight into the person’s life as it related to your own.

If you want to relate a situation or event that occurred in the deceased’s life, do so tastefully.

Your aim is not to deliver a stand-up comedy routine, but rather, a poignant and potentially somewhat humorous view of who the deceased was and what they meant to you.

A funeral speech is difficult to deliver if you’re feeling over-emotional. You cannot afford to break down and cry in the moment.  

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That’s not to say that you cannot show your emotions and grief. But you must be able to get through the speech you have prepared.

Finally, don’t use a funeral speech as an opportunity to settle old scores or tell others about unfinished business between yourself and the deceased.

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Here are some examples of a funeral speech that celebrates the deceased’s life but at the same time expresses the grief of the speaker.

A Eulogy for a Mother

The last thing I imagined myself doing today was delivering the eulogy at my mother’s funeral.

Despite the fact that she was ill, and we knew her passing was inevitable, it has still come as a shock to us as a family.

My mother was a phenomenal woman who possessed reserves of strength and patience that seemed to be infinite.

We, her children, were her pride and joy; she regarded us as the greatest accomplishment of her life. That doesn’t mean that raising us was easy, nor always enjoyable.

My siblings and I gave her a lot of gray hairs along the way. But, regardless of our misdeeds, she would always find it in her heart to forgive us.

And not only that, she would have enough faith in us to believe that we would not transgress again.

One of my fondest memories of my mother is watching her sit down and relax after a long day. She worked hard at her job and came home to run her household. That meant that she had very little time to herself.

And even with the little ‘me time’ she had, she never used it for herself. She’d always be knitting or sewing or making something that we needed.

What our family lacked in money, my mother more than made up for with love.

My mother was the heart of our home, the center of our universe, and the greatest example of unconditional love we could’ve hoped to have.

A Eulogy for a Father

My father was a quiet man. He seldom said much. That’s why, when he did have something to say, we listened.

That may make him sound like he was distant, but nothing could be further from the truth.

He was always interested in what was going on in our lives and was extraordinarily proud of our achievements.

Whether it was scoring a home run in a Little League baseball game or getting a bursary for a university, he delighted in our successes.

As a child, one of the places I felt the safest was in the arms of my father. In fact, right now, that’s the place I wish I was more than anything else.

He was a hardworking man who set a great example for my siblings and me. We learned from him that, regardless of the task, it was not worth doing if you didn’t want to do it properly.

My father had an incredibly dry sense of humor. It took us a while to grasp it because, as children, we didn’t get it.

But as we grew up, we began to understand his wit and laugh at the things he said.  

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He presided over family dinners with a quiet dignity that spoke of a patriarch who took that responsibility seriously.

He was the mediator in our disputes as siblings and always took the high road, refusing to take sides.

He’s left a gap in our lives that we can’t even begin to contemplate filling.

A Funeral Speech for a Best Friend

Jennifer and I met, two gap-toothed first-grader’s, on the first day of school – ever.

Something drew us to each other though. We could never quite figure out what it was, but it’s lasted a lifetime.

As children, we would spend hours with each other without talking that much.

We just understood each other. Even if you put us on either side of a big room full of people, Jennifer and I would always find our way back to each other immediately.

We survived high school together. I’m not sure if either of us would’ve made it without the other. We laughed and cried together so many times.

There were crushes and boyfriends that caused heartache and heartbreak. But, throughout it all, we were always there for each other, no matter what – no matter how many times I needed a shoulder to cry on, Jennifer was there.

We went to different colleges after high school and the careers and lives we pursued after our studies were poles apart. We lived far away from each other and I’ll be honest, we sometimes went for long periods without talking, which I regret.

I’ll be honest, we sometimes went for long periods without talking, which I regret.

But every time we spoke or saw each other though, we picked up where we left off, and it felt like we’d never been apart.

It’s that mutual love and respect that makes me know Jennifer was the best friend I could ever have had.

A Eulogy for a Wife

I don’t know where to begin to tell you about the enormous gaping hole that Samantha’s passing has left in my life.

It feels like half of me has vanished in an instant, and I’m not sure I’ll ever feel whole again.

Samantha was an amazing woman. She had such an infectious zest for life that she could always find the humor or a silver lining of any situation, regardless of the gravity. Anything seemed possible with her attitude.

The way she attacked the obstacles she encountered with such strength and determination was inspirational.

Samantha and I met quite by accident. I walked into her office in error – and there she was: the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. She seemed to radiate some kind of magnetic attraction.  

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I knew there and then that I would never be able to stay away from her, and that my life would not be complete without her in it. She didn’t make it easy.

I had to ask her out several times before she agreed. But when I look back on the life we’ve shared, it was more than worth it.

Our children were the center of Samantha’s world. She took her role as a mother seriously and did an amazing job of raising them to be the adults they are today.

I wish I’d had more time with her, I really do. But I will treasure the years I had with her in my heart for the rest of my life.

A Funeral Speech for a Husband

The thing that made me fall in love with Stephen was his sense of humor. He always made me laugh, even when all I wanted to do was cry.

Whenever I’d get angry or upset with him – for whatever reason – I’d always wind up laughing because he could always make me see the funny side of it.

As a husband, Stephen was supportive of everything I did.

Like when I decided that the patio needed to be refurbished. He was right by my side working so hard to help me, even though I’m sure the last thing he felt like doing was revamping the patio.

In fact, I know he would have preferred to spend his weekend resting and relaxing. But he never let me down. Tired or not, he’d help me with all my ‘projects’.

Stephen endeared himself to me even more when we became parents. He was so proud to be a father and a wonderfully hands-on partner.

I couldn’t have asked for a better father for my children. In fact, there were times I had to ask him to be a bit more hands-off so that I could get to my babies!

The lives of our children and their achievements gave Stephen an enormous amount of satisfaction.

He supported them every step of the way. He picked them up when they fell or failed.

He encouraged them to keep going. And he showed them how to be the resilient adults they have become.

My life was better that I could have ever imagined, and fuller that I ever dreamed because of Stephen’s presence by my side.

A Eulogy for a brother

I’m not going to stand up here and tell you that it was all sunshine and roses between David and myself growing up.

There were times I wished he wasn’t my brother. And I’m sure there were times he wished I wasn’t his sister.

We seemed to have a knack for pushing each other’s buttons, sometimes with some amusing consequences, sometimes not.

From the outset, David stood out as an individual. He did not march to the beat of society’s drum. He had his own internal drumbeat, and he remained committed to it.

One of my favorite memories of David is the one-and-only time my mother asked him to water her indoor plants. True to form, David came up with a plan to make the job easier.

He brought the hose and sprinkler indoors and turned it on. I’ll never forget the look on my mother’s face and the mischievous grin on David’s.

As we grew older, I began to see David for what he truly was. He was a caring brother who’d do anything to protect me.

He let me cry on his shoulder when I went through my first break-up. He was the only one who understood my hurt and confusion when our parents divorced.

David was a loyal and kind person who’d never let you down.

He’d have given anyone the shirt off his back. I’m proud to have called this incredibly special man my brother.

A Funeral Speech for a Sister

My sister Janet never met a challenge she didn’t conquer.

Even as a baby, she showed an exceptional amount of determination. She would turn her mind to an obstacle and work on it until she’d overcome it.

Of course, she drove me crazy. Having a little sister who wanted to tag along was, at times, infuriating.

She would go through the things in my room and leave a mess. When she was about ten years old, she got into my makeup drawer and went completely overboard.

When I caught her, she had rainbow-colored eyelids, forehead and cheeks. Her lips and teeth were full of lipstick, and there was mascara everywhere. I was furious at the time. When she saw how angry I was, she began to cry.

Anytime she’d open those beautiful big brown eyes of hers, silently reminding me that she was my flesh and blood, I couldn’t stay angry with her.

She’d open those beautiful big brown eyes and remind me that she was my flesh and blood. And I couldn’t stay angry with her.

Janet was an exemplary student. She had an incredible work ethic. If she didn’t understand something, she’d work at it until she did.

Losing my sister is so heartbreaking. She had so much left to offer the world.

But wherever she is, I know that she’s looking down on me now with those gorgeous brown eyes and that beautiful smile.

A Funeral Speech for a Close Acquaintance (e.g., a teacher, boss, coworker)

I’d like to start by offering John’s family my sincerest condolences.

Your loss is so great. You had a special man in your midst, and I’m can’t imagine the depth of loss you must feel.

John was my high school English teacher, so you might wonder why I refer to him as John and not as Mr. Robinson; it was at his insistence, as soon as I graduated.

When I first called him Mr. Robinson after graduation, he’d turned around and said, “Is my father standing behind me?” When I replied in the negative, he’d said, “Then why are you saying his name?”

John taught me so much more than English. He taught me how to think critically, and not to take things at face value.  

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He showed me the value of questioning that which was placed before me as fact. Thanks to him, I developed analytical skills that I continue to use today.

John’s work ethic influenced me greatly. He would always show us the value of hard work and diligence. I took those lessons to heart.

His passion for teaching English was contagious. I fell in love with the language on a different level thanks to him. He made the written word come alive in class.

He may not have known it, but John fulfilled an important role in my life. He was like a father, an uncle, and a big brother all rolled into one.

He shaped me into the man I am today. There are no words I can use to express my gratitude, which I know would disappoint John. After all, he made sure he taught us a wide vocabulary

Eulogy Examples: How to Write a Eulogy for a Loved One

By Bernie Flowers

How do you distill a lifetime of memories and experiences into a 15-minute eulogy? It’s an honor to hold the responsibility of eulogizing your loved one, but it can feel like a challenge to fit everything you want to say in one speech.

Instead of making the funeral attendees feel like they are reading an encyclopedia from cover-to-cover, look for ways to highlight the rich life experiences that matter most. A eulogy should be a sampling of the best the person had to offer including accomplishments, personality traits, and memorable stories.

When it comes to eulogy writing, you can search online for ideas and examples. But the most important thing you need to keep in mind: quality over quantity .

All this being said, we would advise using our professional Eulogy Template to guide you through your writing, you can find it here - Eulogy Template

What is a Eulogy?

Giving a eulogy means that you are sharing a remembrance speech with the purpose of paying tribute to a loved one. This speech is given at the funeral or memorial service by a family member or close friend.

A good eulogy highlights the lasting impact of the person on their family and community. Through your speech, you’ll have an opportunity to share their unique qualities, as well as the ripple effect of positivity and change they created in the world around them.

How can you best honor  your loved one? A eulogy can be a part of your healing, and a beautiful way to reflect on the details that were most special about them.

Eulogy Examples

One of the simplest ways to write a eulogy is to review a eulogy speech example that matches your own preferred tone and style. What makes a eulogy unique is the unique details you’ll share about the person themselves, which is why it’s essential to customize your eulogy to honor and celebrate the personality of your loved one.

You may want to start with our primer on how to write a eulogy . Then, use the following outline and eulogy examples to create a strong speech  that communicates the message you want to share about the person who meant so much to you.

Eulogy Sample Outline

Using a eulogy sample outline is a proven way to create a great speech. Remember those Mad Libs books from your childhood? This process is similar: follow the outline and plug in the personal details applicable to your loved one. 

These eulogy samples help you overcome writer's block and keep you focused on the details that matter most. Aim to cap the eulogy at a maximum of 10 minutes total. The simplest eulogy outline can be broken down into three parts, so you’ll need to consider how much time to spend on each section:

• Set the tone by beginning with a poem, quote, or scripture that was meaningful to the person.
• Names they were known by, including nicknames and maiden names.
• Cause of death (an optional detail).
• A brief insight into your relationship with the individual.
• Accomplishments
• Major life events
• Stories or fond memories
• How the person affected others
• Childhood years
• Travel adventures
• Marriage and children
• Any other thoughts you want to share about the person
• A final take away from your theme
• How you want family and friends to remember the individual
• What the person would want you to remember them for
• Quote, scripture, or song lyric
• Thank attendees for participating

Eulogy Examples for a Friend

It can be helpful to write this eulogy as if you were talking to a friend. Common talking points might include:

• Common activities enjoyed together
• What you like most about the person
• Personality traits or phrases they often use
• How you would describe the person
• What will you remember them by?

Here is a eulogy example for a friend:

I can’t imagine how empty it will feel to spend time on the basketball court without Jim by my side. Our relationship was built with a basketball in hand, and evolved to share many family gatherings and other activities together over the years. With his passing, Jim is leaving behind a legacy of kindness, compassion, and generosity.

Jim shared good humor and a big smile with everyone he met. Even though people often cursed at his practical jokes, he was an integral part of creating a solid foundation of friendship in our group. When times were difficult, he could always put a smile on my face. He held his head high until the end, showing what it looks like to finish strong.

Eulogy Examples for Your Father

Writing a eulogy for your dad may be really tough. How do you memorialize your hero amid grief and emotion? We hope these tips and the example below will help you in your process. 

• Share childhood experiences when spending time with dad
• Talk about his best qualities
• Capture his essence through “dad jokes” and the things that made you laugh
• Tell about the things you will miss most about him
• Describe his role in your upbringing

Here is a eulogy example for your father:

My dad was my hero. He could make every person feel like they were the most important person in the world. Growing up, I knew that I could always ask Dad for help – and he would be willing to drop anything to lend a hand. He was a rock of stability in my childhood and a source of strength for our whole family.

My father was a man who infused fun into the most mundane tasks. I remember how he would turn our bedtime routine into an adventure that included highlights from our favorite storybooks. He was a kind and thoughtful person. Every night at the dinner table, he encouraged us to talk about the things we were grateful for, and always had yummy treats for us kids hidden in the back of the pantry. I will miss you, Dad, and I’ll always hold onto the amazing memories we shared together.

Eulogy Examples for Your Mother

How can you ever do justice to a eulogy for your beloved mother – the woman who was always there with love and guidance through the ups and downs, the celebrations and challenging moments of your life? Here are a few tips for writing a eulogy for your mother:

• Describe the way she showed her love for you
• Celebrate the small ways she turned your house into a home
• Highlight the impact she made throughout the community
• Explain the smells, sounds, and feelings you felt when arriving home
• Share stories from childhood and adulthood that reflect her character

Here is a eulogy example for your mother:

Today we are honoring, celebrating, and remembering {mom’s full name]. She was a woman of grace and courage, with a stubborn streak that showed up when she set her mind to something, like going back to school to become a nurse at age 40. 

My mother was truly my best friend and I am humbled by the challenge of describing the fullness of her beauty and caring here today. I don't know how she did it, but Mom always found the perfect balance between work and home. Even though she worked 40 – 50 hours a week to support us, she prioritized family dinner. That time was sacred to our family. Her love and kindness were infused in everything she did, whether she was baking cookies for a bake sale to help the hospital or sewing our Halloween costumes by hand year after year. 

She had a magical way of bringing joy every time she walked into the room. No one who met her could forget her smile. And I’ll never forget the advice and the lessons she taught me. Her wisdom will forever guide the decisions I make through the rest of my life. I love you, Mom.

Eulogy Examples for Your Grandmother

How do you share the details about the love you felt through your relationship with a grandmother? Follow these tips to write a good eulogy for this important woman:

• Talk about the fun traditions she brought for your favorite holiday
• What was she known for in the community?
• How did her influence touch your life?
• What are the daily moments that will remind you of her?
• Share funny stories that showcase her quirks or sense of humor

Here is a eulogy example for your grandmother:

My grandmother paid attention to the details – it was the little things that added the finishing touch to every experience. Whether she was setting out the treat jar on the kitchen table or clinking the glass while drinking her iced tea, she always prioritized food and drinks.

Since she loved to shop, grandma would often take us to the mall when we were visiting for the weekend. We would have fashion shows in the dressing rooms and often come home with bright, frilly dresses that were perfect for twirling.

When grandpa was away for the war, grandma was an example of always getting back up again when things get hard. She never complained; just worked hard and supported her family at all times. Despite the personal challenges, she always looked outside of herself – which is why she will be remembered as a beacon of light in this community.

Eulogy Examples for Your Grandfather

What are the details that make your grandfather larger than life? Here are a few ideas to help when writing a eulogy for this great man:

• Explain the qualities that best describe his personality
• Tell about the details that made him stand out from other grandparents
• What hobbies or passions did he share with the family?
• How will the neighborhood or community remember him?
• Talk about stories that were life-changing moments for him

Here is a eulogy example for your grandfather:

Even though my grandfather didn’t like to be the center of attention, he had an undeniable impact on the community. If he was here with us today, he wouldn’t want us to share grief and sorrow. Instead, his desire would be to focus on the happy memories and joyful experiences shared over the years.

Grandpa was a man who set a lasting impression on everyone he met. His deep laugh and kind eyes warmed the room and brought life into the most boring daily activities. Grandpa loved spending time with his grandkids because he said that it made him feel young at heart.

He was a great teacher and a dependable friend. His advice and guidance will continue to carry me through the joys and challenges that life has to offer.

Eulogy Examples for Your Brother

Siblings share a special bond, giving you deep insights to share about your brother. Follow these tips for writing a good eulogy:

• What was it like growing up in the same house together?
• Describe the way your relationship changed in adulthood
• Share funny stories about sibling rivalries
• Explain the lasting impact he left on you and the family
• List his favorite hobbies and food

Here is a eulogy example for your brother:

While it’s tragic to think about Kyle leaving us too soon, he left behind a lifetime of memories that we can celebrate. Kyle was always ready for a fun day with friends – he would have been the one showing up today with the perfect playlist for the event.

Even though my brother was a few years older than me, he always included me in the adventures with his friends. I never felt like the little brother he was dragging along. He made me feel special and included in the group, and helped me build confidence along the way.

Kyle was my best friend and I can’t imagine what life is going to be like without him sending me funny cat memes every night. But I know that his memory will live on when I eat his favorite pizza or hear his favorite band on the radio.

Eulogy Examples for Your Sister

If you’ve lost a sibling, we are truly sorry, Writing a eulogy for your sister can be a way to honor her through your memories of your childhood and growing up with her, as well as the milestones of her life. A few ideas for this eulogy include:

• Share her notable life accomplishments
• Retell your favorite stories from growing up together
• Highlight the kind of person she was
• Summarize your relationship in a few short words
• Talk about what she meant to you and how she influenced your life

Here is a eulogy example for your sister:

My sister, Kim, might have been a little shy at the first introduction. But once she warmed up to a friendship, she always had plenty to say every time she talked. Kim loved to share stories from her time volunteering at the children’s hospital and she had a beautiful gift of making everyone feel like the most important person in the world.

We were only a year apart, which meant that I was the younger sister who was often stealing her clothes or listening in on her conversations with her boyfriend. Even though I was the pesky sibling who cracked jokes about her unique style, she was everything I wanted to be when I grew up. She was independent, strong, and beautiful. She was a free spirit who wasn’t afraid to act boldly, like moving to Paris after college and starting her own business. She was my partner in crime, and I could always tell her everything. She will never be replaced. . My dear sister, I love you and I will be forever grateful for every moment we spent together.

Short Eulogy Examples

Short and sweet is a good rule of thumb to follow when writing a eulogy. Consider these important talking points if you want to write a short eulogy:

• Highlight the person’s passions or interests
• What were the most memorable times you spent together?
• Sum up the person’s character using a story or memory
• Express your gratitude for the impact the person had on your life
• Talk about their influence on family and community

Here is a short eulogy example:

The years I spent with Kathy in my life were filled with excitement and adventure. She showed up for life in the biggest way possible. From the moment she shared her cookie with me on the first day of kindergarten, I knew we would be best friends.

She spent many years working as a teacher, and her heart was big enough to offer individual attention to every child that walked into her classroom. Kathy made a difference in the lives of hundreds of children over the years, and her kindness and positivity will leave an unwavering legacy in this community.

Funny Eulogy Examples

Sometimes a bit of humor is the perfect way to lighten the mood and showcase the personality of your loved one. Consider these tips if you want to add a few jokes into the eulogy:

• Point out the person’s comedic qualities
• Be specific about sharing their jokes or pranks
• Look for ways to communicate what the person would say if they wrote the speech
• Find the right balance of humor to share laughs without being irreverent
• Share a funny poem or a quote from the person’s favorite movie

Here is a funny eulogy example:

Anyone who met Josh quickly learned that there are always laughs to be shared. It was impossible to spend time with him without enjoying a gut-busting laugh at some point in the conversation. Josh was known as the class clown, and his jokes were quick-witted and hilarious.

Who could forget the time Josh showed up to the family reunion wearing that ridiculous blow-up dinosaur costume? He chased the kids around the park until everyone laughed until they were crying.

Many funny memories came out of our family camping trips. He couldn’t sit down to enjoy a peaceful campfire. Instead, the s’more making always seemed to turn into a marshmallow fight – with white puffs flying through the air when you least expected it. Josh kept a smile on my face through the ups and downs of life, and I will keep on smiling in his honor.

Personalizing the Eulogy

As you read through these funeral eulogy examples, the most important thing to remember is that there isn’t a right or wrong way to write a eulogy. Instead, consider the best way to share the person in the way they would want others to remember them. It’s your chance to verbalize your love and honor the memories of your loved one.

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10 Powerful Eulogy Examples That Will Inspire and Guide You

Losing a loved one is an incredibly difficult and emotional experience. It’s during these times that the importance of a heartfelt eulogy becomes evident, as it allows us to pay tribute to the person’s life, share fond memories, and provide comfort to family members and friends. A well-crafted eulogy can have a significant emotional impact, helping those in attendance find solace and connection through shared stories and experiences.

At MemoryCherish, we understand the challenges and emotions that come with writing a eulogy , especially when you’re grieving the loss of someone dear to you. That’s why we are here to guide and support you throughout this process, offering valuable insights and examples to help you craft a moving funeral speech that captures the essence of your loved one’s life.

In this article, we will explore 10 powerful eulogy examples that will inspire and guide you in creating a meaningful tribute for your beloved family member or close friend. Whether you’re looking for funeral speech ideas or seeking guidance on how to strike the perfect balance between reminiscing about precious memories and honoring the life of the departed, these examples will provide you with the inspiration you need to express your feelings and pay tribute to the person who meant so much to you.

II. Preparing to Write a Eulogy

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When preparing to write a eulogy , it’s essential to gather your thoughts and memories about your loved one. This process begins by reflecting on the special bond you shared with them. Death is never easy, but through funeral speeches and eulogy examples, we can find solace and pay tribute to the person’s life.

As you embark on this emotional journey, remember that there is no right or wrong way to write a eulogy. Whether you choose to share funny stories or fond memories, the goal is to honor your beloved family member or dear friend. Funeral speech examples can serve as inspiration, but your own memories and personal stories are what truly make a eulogy unique and heartfelt.

Begin by reminiscing about your favorite memories with your loved one, whether it’s a funny story from your childhood or a precious moment shared with your best friend. As you sift through these memories, consider the impact your loved one had on your life and the lives of others. Were they a supportive father or a caring mother? A loyal friend or a cherished sibling?

As you write, strive for a balance between emotions and storytelling. While it’s natural to feel grief and sadness, a eulogy should also celebrate the life and legacy of the departed. Share anecdotes about their achievements, passions, and the qualities that made them special. By recounting these stories, you’ll not only pay tribute to their memory but also provide comfort to family and friends in attendance.

As you work through the writing process, don’t be afraid to lean on others for support. Reach out to close friends or family members who knew the person well and ask them to share their own memories and experiences. These collective stories will help paint a vivid picture of your loved one’s life and provide a solid foundation for your eulogy.

Lastly, remember that your eulogy should be an authentic reflection of your relationship with the deceased. It’s okay if it’s not perfect or polished – the most important thing is to speak from the heart and honor their memory in a way that feels true to you.

In conclusion, preparing to write a eulogy requires time, reflection, and a willingness to embrace both laughter and tears. By gathering thoughts, memories, and stories from your own life and those of others, you can create a heartfelt tribute that honors your loved one’s life and provides comfort to all who hear it.

III. Key Elements of a Powerful Eulogy

A powerful eulogy is not only a tribute to the deceased but also a source of comfort and solace for family and friends. To create a meaningful and heartfelt eulogy, focus on these key elements:

A eulogy should celebrate the person’s life and highlight their unique qualities, accomplishments, and passions. By sharing stories that showcase their character, you’ll help paint a vivid picture of the person they were, allowing those in attendance to remember and cherish the time they spent with them.

Incorporate fond memories and funny stories into your eulogy to bring smiles and laughter to the room. These lighthearted moments provide relief from grief and remind everyone of the joy the deceased brought to their lives. Don’t be afraid to share personal anecdotes – these genuine stories will resonate with others and deepen the emotional connection.

Take the time to express your gratitude and love for the person who has passed away. Share how their presence impacted your life and the lives of others, and acknowledge the lessons they taught you. In doing so, you’ll create a sense of unity and support among those grieving, and show that the deceased’s memory will continue to live on in the hearts of those who loved them.

As you write your eulogy, remember that there is no right or wrong way to honor your loved one. Drawing inspiration from eulogy examples and funeral speeches can help guide your writing process, but ultimately, your own memories and personal stories will make your tribute unique and heartfelt.

In conclusion, a powerful eulogy celebrates the person’s life, shares fond memories and funny stories, and expresses gratitude and love for the departed. By focusing on these key elements and speaking from the heart, you’ll create an emotional connection with your audience and pay a fitting tribute to your loved one. Embrace the informative, persuasive, and empathetic nature of storytelling to honor their memory and provide comfort to those who are grieving.

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IV. Eulogy Example 1: A Tribute to a Dear Friend

Ladies and Gentlemen,

As we gather here today, we are united by the love and the profound sense of loss we all feel for a woman who touched our lives in ways words can hardly express. Darlene was not just a friend; she was a constant source of light and warmth in our lives, a force of nature whose energy and spirit were as boundless as her capacity to love.

Darlene was a woman of many talents and passions, but above all, she was a woman of extraordinary kindness. Born in a small town, she carried that sense of community with her throughout her life. Her heart was her hometown, welcoming and warm, a place where everyone felt loved and accepted.

She was a teacher by profession, but her influence extended far beyond the four walls of a classroom. She didn’t just teach lessons from textbooks, she taught lessons of life. Patience, kindness, empathy, courage – these were the tenets she lived by, and instilled in everyone around her.

Her laughter was a melody that played on even the cloudiest of days, her smile, a beacon that could light up the darkest of nights. She had a zest for life that was infectious, a spirit that was indomitable. She found joy in the simplest things, and in doing so, taught us to appreciate those little moments that make life so beautiful.

Darlene was a friend who was always there, in good times and in bad. She was our rock when we were adrift, our compass when we lost our way. Her friendship was a gift, one that we unwrapped every day, one that brought us immense joy, comfort, and love.

She was an avid gardener, her hands weaving magic into the soil. Her garden was a testament to her belief in growth, change, and the idea that beauty can bloom even from the darkest corners. Just like the flowers in her garden, the seeds of love and kindness she planted in our hearts will continue to grow and bloom.

As we bid farewell to our dear friend Darlene today, let us not lose ourselves in the sorrow of loss, but rather find comfort in the memories we shared, the laughter, the tears, the love. Let us remember her not with sadness, but with the joy she brought into our lives, the lessons she taught us, and the love she shared with us.

Darlene, you were a blessing in our lives, a light that never dimmed. You were a friend who left footprints of love and kindness on our hearts. As we say goodbye, know that your spirit will continue to live on in the garden of our memories, in the bloom of every flower, in the rustle of every leaf.

Rest in peace, dear Darlene. You will be missed, but your spirit, your love, and your light will forever shine bright in our hearts.

V. Eulogy Example 2: Honoring a Parent’s Legacy

As we gather here today, we find ourselves in the midst of an ocean of emotions. It’s not easy to say goodbye, especially to a man like my father, Richard. He was my guiding star, my greatest mentor, and my dearest friend. His passing leaves a profound void, yet his spirit continues to surround and guide us.

My father was a man of humble beginnings, but he was rich in ways that cannot be measured by material possessions. He was rich in wisdom, in kindness, in love. He was the kind of man who knew the value of hard work, the importance of honesty, and the strength of humility. His life was not an easy journey, but it was a journey he embarked on with courage and dignity.

Richard, or Dad as I was blessed to call him, had a heart as vast as the universe. He loved unconditionally, gave generously, and forgave easily. His laughter was the soundtrack of my childhood, his smile, my beacon of hope. He had a way of making the ordinary feel extraordinary, of turning mundane moments into cherished memories.

Dad was an engineer by profession, and he brought that same precision, dedication, and passion to every aspect of his life. But it was his role as a father that truly showcased the depth of his character. He was not just a dad, he was a superhero without a cape, a guiding light without a lantern, a teacher without a classroom.

He taught me the importance of resilience, the power of kindness, and the value of integrity. He taught me to be brave in the face of adversity, to be compassionate in the face of cruelty, to be humble in the face of accolades. He taught me not just how to live, but how to live well, with purpose, with passion, with love.

As I stand here today, I am reminded of his words, “Life is not about the number of breaths we take, but about the moments that take our breath away.” Dad lived his life embracing every moment, cherishing every breath. His legacy is not just in the years he lived, but in the lives he touched, the hearts he warmed, the souls he inspired.

Today, as we bid farewell to my father, I am not saying goodbye. Instead, I am saying thank you. Thank you, Dad, for your unwavering love, your endless patience, your invaluable lessons. Thank you for your laughter, your wisdom, and your guidance. Thank you for being my dad.

Richard, Dad, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your love continues to surround us, your wisdom continues to guide us, and your laughter continues to echo in our hearts. Rest in peace, dear Dad. You will always be loved, always be missed, and forever be remembered.

VI. Eulogy Example 3: Remembering a Sibling’s Life

Today, as we stand united in grief and in love, we are here to celebrate the life of Destiny, my sister, my confidante, my lifelong friend. Her departure has left an irreplaceable void, yet her spirit, her laughter, and her memories continue to surround us.

Destiny was a beacon of light in our lives. Her name was not just a moniker, but a testament to the vibrant, inspirational life she led. She was a woman of courage, of compassion, of boundless love. Her spirit was indomitable, her heart, an ocean of kindness.

From our earliest days, Destiny was not just my older sister but my mentor, my guiding light. She was the one who taught me how to tie my shoelaces, the one who comforted me when nightmares kept me awake, the one who stood up for me when bullies tried to tear me down. Her protective nature, her unwavering support, and her unconditional love are the foundation of the unbreakable bond we shared.

Destiny was an artist, her canvas as expansive and as diverse as her spirit. She painted with a passion that was contagious, her artwork a reflection of her soul – bright, beautiful, and brimming with life. Her paintings were not just images, but stories, stories of hope, of love, of dreams. Her art was her voice, her way of touching lives, of making a difference.

Her laughter was infectious, her spirit, unyielding. Destiny faced life’s trials with a courage that was awe-inspiring, and a determination that was unstoppable. She taught me the true meaning of resilience, the power of hope, and the beauty of life.

Destiny was a lover of nature. She found solace in the rustling leaves, joy in the blooming flowers, and inspiration in the setting sun. She believed in the healing power of nature, its ability to comfort, to inspire, to rejuvenate. Her love for nature was not just a passion, but a way of life.

As I stand here today, I am not just mourning the loss of my sister, but celebrating the life she lived, the love she shared, the dreams she chased. Destiny, you were more than a sister, you were a part of me, a part of my life, a part of my soul.

Destiny, you will always be remembered, not just as a sister, but as a beacon of love, of strength, of inspiration. Your spirit will continue to guide us, your memories will continue to comfort us, your love will continue to surround us. Rest in peace, dear sister. You will be missed, but your spirit, your love, and your light will forever shine bright in our hearts.

VII. Eulogy Example 4: Celebrating a Spouse’s Love and Partnership

We are gathered here today in the midst of profound sorrow, but also in heartfelt gratitude and love for a man whose presence in our lives was a blessing, my dear husband, Nick. His departure has left an indelible mark on our hearts, yet his love, his laughter, and his memories continue to comfort us.

Nick was not just my husband, he was my partner, my confidante, my best friend. Our journey together was not just a marriage, it was a beautiful dance of love, respect, and companionship. His love was my sanctuary, his arms, my home, his heart, my haven.

Nick was a man of extraordinary strength, of unwavering courage, of boundless love. He believed in the power of dreams, the strength of kindness, and the beauty of life. His spirit was as vibrant as a summer’s day, his heart as warm as a winter’s fire.

He was a man of many talents, but his greatest talent was his ability to love, to love unconditionally, to love profoundly. He loved with a depth that was awe-inspiring, with a passion that was heartwarming. His love was not just a feeling, but a force, a force that brought joy, comfort, and strength.

Nick had laughter that could light up the darkest of nights, a smile that could brighten the gloomiest of days. His optimism was infectious, his spirit, indomitable. He faced life’s trials with courage, its joys with gratitude, its sorrows with grace.

Nick was a man who loved the sea. He found solace in its vastness, joy in its waves, and inspiration in its depths. He believed in the power of the sea, its ability to heal, to inspire, to rejuvenate. His love for the sea was not just a passion, but a way of life.

Today, as I stand here, I am not just mourning the loss of my husband, but celebrating the love we shared, the life we built, the memories we created. Nick, you were more than a husband, you were my rock, my lighthouse, my compass.

Nick, your physical presence may be absent, but your love continues to surround us, your laughter continues to echo in our hearts, your spirit continues to guide us. Rest in peace, dear Nick. You will always be loved, always be missed, and forever be remembered.

VIII. Eulogy Example 5: A Heartfelt Tribute to a Child

Today we gather, our hearts heavy with sorrow, our souls seeking solace, to honor and remember a life that was short in duration but infinite in its impact. A life that was a beacon of light in our world, the life of our beloved Poppy.

Poppy, our little angel, was a burst of sunshine, a spark of joy, a wellspring of love. Her life was a dance of innocence, a symphony of laughter, a canvas of dreams. Her presence was a blessing, her laughter, a melody, her love, a treasure.

From the moment Poppy arrived in our lives, she brought with her a love that was boundless, a joy that was infectious, a spirit that was indomitable. She loved with a purity that was awe-inspiring, she laughed with a joy that was heartwarming, she lived with a zest that was life-affirming.

One of my most treasured memories is of our trips to the park. Poppy would run towards the swings with gleeful abandon, her laughter ringing through the air, her eyes sparkling with joy. Those moments of pure, unadulterated joy, of innocence, of love, are etched in our hearts, a balm to our aching souls.

Poppy was a lover of stories. Every night, we would dive into a world of dragons and princesses, of superheroes and talking animals. Her eyes would light up with wonder, her laughter would fill the room, her dreams would take flight. Those moments of shared stories, of shared dreams, of shared love, are treasures we will forever hold dear.

As a family, we grew, we learned, and we loved, all through the grace of Poppy. She was our teacher, our inspiration, our guiding light. Her innocence taught us the beauty of simplicity, her laughter taught us the joy of living, her love taught us the power of kindness.

Today, as we bid farewell to our beloved Poppy, we are not saying goodbye, but thank you. Thank you for the love, for the laughter, for the lessons. Thank you for the joy, for the memories, for the dreams. Thank you for being our child, for being our joy, for being our love.

Our dear Poppy, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your laughter echoes in our hearts, your love surrounds us, your spirit guides us. You were a blessing in our lives, a gift we will forever cherish, a love we will forever hold dear.

Rest in peace, our dear Poppy. You will always be loved, always be missed, and forever be remembered.

IX. Eulogy Example 6: Commemorating a Colleague or Mentor

Today, we gather not only to mourn, but to celebrate the life of an extraordinary individual, a mentor, a colleague, and a friend, Sharon. Sharon’s physical absence has left a void in our lives, but her spirit, her teachings, and her memories continue to inspire us.

Sharon was a woman of extraordinary intellect, of unwavering dedication, and of boundless kindness. She was not just a colleague, she was a mentor, a guiding light. Her work was not just a job, it was a passion, a mission, a calling.

Sharon’s professional accomplishments were as vast as they were impressive. She was a visionary, a trailblazer, a leader. Under her guidance, our team overcame challenges and reached heights we could only dream of. Her strategies were innovative, her decisions, insightful, her leadership, inspirational.

I remember a time when we were facing a particularly challenging project. The deadline was tight, the stakes were high, and the pressure was immense. But Sharon, with her characteristic calm and determination, led us through. She worked tirelessly, inspired us with her dedication, and encouraged us with her positivity. It was her leadership that brought us to success, her strength that kept us going, her spirit that made us believe.

But Sharon was more than just her professional achievements. She was a woman of deep compassion, of genuine kindness, of profound wisdom. Her office door was always open, her heart always ready to listen, to understand, to help. She had a knack for making you feel heard, for making you feel valued, for making you feel important.

Sharon was also a lover of books. She believed in the power of words, the magic of stories, the wisdom of lessons. She often said, “Books are not just pages filled with words, they are mirrors reflecting life, windows opening to the world, doors leading to wisdom.” Her love for books was not just a hobby, it was a way of life.

As we bid farewell to Sharon today, we are not just saying goodbye, but thank you. Thank you, Sharon, for your guidance, for your support, for your wisdom. Thank you for the lessons, for the memories, for the inspiration. Thank you for being our mentor, our colleague, our friend.

Sharon, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your teachings continue to guide us, your memories continue to inspire us, your legacy continues to shine. Rest in peace, dear Sharon. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be treasured. Your spirit, your wisdom, and your love will forever shine in our hearts.

X. Eulogy Example 7: Paying Homage to a Community Member

We stand here today to honor the life and legacy of a man who was not just a member of our community, but its backbone, its heart, its soul. Today, we remember Will, a man who dedicated his life to the service of others, who believed in the power of community, and whose impact will forever be etched in our hearts.

Will was a man of extraordinary generosity, of unwavering dedication, and of boundless compassion. He believed in the strength of unity, the power of kindness, and the beauty of community. His life was a testament to his values, his actions, a reflection of his heart, his legacy, a tribute to his spirit.

Will was the driving force behind our community center. I remember when it was just an idea, a dream, a vision. But Will, with his determination and hard work, turned that vision into a reality. Today, the community center stands as a testament to Will’s dedication, a beacon of hope and unity, a symbol of our community’s strength and resilience.

I remember the joy on Will’s face during the annual community festival. His laughter echoed through the air, his spirit contagious, his joy palpable. He would organize games for the children, cook for the community, and bring everyone together with his stories and songs. Those moments of shared joy, of unity, of community, are treasures we will forever hold dear.

Will’s contributions extended beyond the community center. He was always there to lend a helping hand, to offer a comforting word, to share a hearty laugh. Whether it was helping a neighbor with their garden, teaching the children how to fish, or simply sharing a cup of coffee and a good conversation, Will’s presence was a source of comfort and joy.

Today, as we bid farewell to Will, we are not just mourning his absence, but celebrating his life, his legacy, his impact. We are celebrating a man who was a pillar of our community, a beacon of hope, a symbol of unity.

Will, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your legacy continues to inspire us, your memories continue to comfort us, your love continues to unite us. Rest in peace, dear Will. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be cherished.

XI. Eulogy Example 8: Cherishing the Memory of a Distant Relative

In the tapestry of family, every thread is vital, each color and texture essential in creating a beautiful whole. Today, we gather to honor the memory of a cherished thread in our own family tapestry, our beloved Betty.

Betty, though distant in relation, was close in heart. Her life was a beautiful melody in our family symphony, her presence, a radiant color in our family portrait. She was a woman of remarkable strength, unwavering resilience, and infinite kindness. Her stories were our history, her experiences, our heritage, her legacy, our treasure.

Betty was the keeper of our family stories. I remember how as children we would gather around her, our eyes wide with anticipation, our hearts eager for adventure, as she took us on journeys through the annals of our family history. From tales of ancestors who crossed vast oceans for a better life, to stories of our great-grandparents who built the foundations of our family with their bare hands. Those stories, told in her warm, soothing voice, connected us to our roots, our past, our heritage.

I remember Betty’s annual visits during the summer holidays. Despite the distance that separated us, she would make the journey, her face lighting up with joy as she embraced each one of us. Those summer days spent with Betty are filled with memories of laughter, stories, and the sense of belonging that comes from being part of a family.

Betty also loved nature. She had a garden filled with the most beautiful flowers you could ever imagine. Each petal, each leaf, each bud, was tended to with love and care. She often said, “Gardens are like families. Each plant is unique, each has its place, each contributes to the beauty of the whole.” Her garden was not just a hobby, it was a reflection of her philosophy of life, of family, of love.

As we bid farewell to Betty today, we are not just mourning her absence, but celebrating her life, her legacy, her impact. We are celebrating a woman who was a vital thread in our family tapestry, a cherished note in our family symphony, a vibrant color in our family portrait.

Betty, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your stories continue to connect us, your memories continue to comfort us, your love continues to unite us. Rest in peace, dear Betty. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be cherished. Your spirit, your love, and your legacy will forever shine in our hearts.

XII. Eulogy Example 9: A Touching Tribute to a Beloved Pet

Today, we gather to celebrate not just a pet, but a friend, a companion, a family member. Today, we remember and honor our beloved Pluto.

In the grand tapestry of life, some threads shine brighter than others, some touch our hearts more deeply, and Pluto was one such irreplaceable thread in our lives. He was not just a dog, but a beacon of unconditional love, a source of joy, a companion in life’s journey. His loyalty was unwavering, his love, boundless, his spirit, indomitable.

Pluto came into our lives as a tiny bundle of joy, his eyes sparkling with mischief, his tail wagging with excitement. From that moment, he became a part of our family, his laughter our melody, his love our treasure, his presence our blessing.

I remember our walks in the park, Pluto running ahead, his tail wagging, his eyes full of joy. He would chase after squirrels, jump into piles of leaves, and then look back at us, his eyes twinkling with mischief, his joy contagious. Those moments of shared joy, of shared adventures, of shared love, are memories we will forever cherish.

Pluto was also a great comforter. On days when life seemed overwhelming, when the weight of the world seemed too much to bear, he would sit by our side, his head on our lap, his eyes filled with empathy. His presence was a balm to our weary hearts, his love a salve to our aching souls.

As we bid farewell to Pluto today, we are not just mourning his absence, but celebrating his life, his love, his spirit. We are celebrating a companion who was a source of unconditional love, a friend who was a beacon of joy, a family member who was a pillar of strength.

Pluto, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your laughter continues to echo in our hearts, your love continues to surround us, your spirit continues to guide us. Rest in peace, dear Pluto. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be cherished.

XIII. Eulogy Example 10: Honoring a Life Cut Short

We gather here today to remember, to mourn, and to celebrate the life of Bruce, a life that was cut tragically short, but a life that was lived to the absolute fullest.

Bruce was a man who embraced life with open arms, who drank deeply from the cup of experience, who believed in making each moment count. His life was not a slow march, but a spirited dance, a vibrant symphony, a beautiful tapestry of vivid colors and rich textures.

Bruce had an insatiable curiosity about the world around him. His quest for knowledge was unending, his thirst for understanding, unquenchable. He was a voracious reader, a keen observer, a thoughtful questioner. He believed that every day was a chance to learn, to grow, to evolve. His mind was not just a repository of knowledge, but a fertile field of ideas, a wellspring of wisdom, a beacon of enlightenment.

I remember one summer, Bruce decided to learn how to play the guitar. He practiced day and night, his fingers strumming the strings, his voice humming the tunes. Within a few weeks, he was not just playing the guitar, he was creating music. His melodies were not just notes, but stories, emotions, expressions. His music was not just a hobby, it was a passion, a form of self-expression, a celebration of life.

Bruce also had a deep love for nature. He often said, “Nature is the greatest teacher. It teaches us about life, about resilience, about beauty.” He would spend hours in the woods, exploring the trails, admiring the flora, observing the fauna. His love for nature was not just a pastime, it was a philosophy, a way of life.

But what made Bruce truly extraordinary was his indomitable spirit, his unyielding courage, his unflagging optimism. Even in the face of adversity, he remained hopeful, resilient, positive. His spirit was not just an inspiration, it was a force, a beacon, a guiding light.

As we bid farewell to Bruce today, we are not just mourning his absence, but celebrating his life, his spirit, his legacy. We are celebrating a life that was lived to the fullest, a spirit that was indomitable, a legacy that is timeless.

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XIV. Tips for Delivering a Powerful Eulogy

Delivering a powerful eulogy requires more than just well-written words; it also involves speaking from the heart, managing emotions, and engaging the audience with storytelling. Here are some tips to help you deliver a heartfelt and memorable tribute:

When delivering a eulogy, it’s essential to speak from the heart. This means being genuine, sincere, and authentic in your words and emotions. Share personal stories and memories that have meaning to you and the deceased, as this will create a strong emotional connection with your audience.

It’s natural to feel a mix of emotions when giving a eulogy. While it’s important to express your grief, try to maintain a balance between sadness and celebration. Remember that you’re there to pay tribute to your loved one’s life, so focus on the positive aspects of their life and the impact they had on others. If you find yourself getting too emotional, take a moment to pause, breathe, and regain your composure

before continuing.

To engage your audience, use vivid descriptions and anecdotes that paint a clear picture of the person’s life. This not only helps those listening to visualize the stories you’re sharing but also makes the eulogy more memorable and relatable. Whether you’re recounting a funny story or a precious memory, make sure to use descriptive language and details that capture the essence of the moment.

As you prepare to deliver your eulogy, remember that there’s no right or wrong way to honor your loved one. Drawing inspiration from funeral speeches and eulogy examples can help guide your approach, but ultimately, your own memories and experiences will make your tribute unique and heartfelt.

In conclusion, delivering a powerful eulogy involves speaking from the heart, managing emotions, and engaging the audience through storytelling. By focusing on these elements and using a style that is informative, persuasive, and empathetic, you’ll create a lasting tribute that honors your loved one’s life and provides comfort to those who are grieving.

A heartfelt eulogy leaves a lasting impact on everyone who hears it, providing comfort and healing during a difficult time. By sharing fond memories, personal stories, and celebrating the life of your loved one, you create a powerful tribute that honors their memory and helps those who are grieving find solace.

As you contemplate honoring your loved one’s memory, consider seeking guidance from MemoryCherish’s eulogy writing service. Our team of skilled writers is experienced in crafting eulogies that capture the essence of the person’s life, drawing inspiration from funeral speech examples while incorporating your own memories and experiences to create a unique and meaningful tribute.

At MemoryCherish, we understand the emotional weight of losing a loved one and the challenge of finding the right words to express your feelings. Our goal is to support you during this emotional journey and help you create a lasting tribute that resonates with your audience and keeps your loved one’s spirit alive.

In conclusion, a heartfelt eulogy has a lasting impact on all who hear it, providing comfort and solace in times of grief. As you honor your loved one’s memory, remember to speak from the heart, share personal stories, and celebrate their life. Let MemoryCherish’s eulogy writing service support you during this emotional journey, as we work together to craft a powerful tribute that honors the life and legacy of your loved one.

To start a short eulogy, begin with a brief introduction of yourself and your relationship to the deceased. Then, express gratitude to the attendees for coming together to celebrate the person’s life.

A good sentence for a eulogy could be: “Today, we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Name], who touched the hearts of everyone they encountered with their kindness, humor, and unwavering dedication to their loved ones.”

An example of starting a eulogy could be: “Good morning/afternoon, my name is [Your Name], and I am [Name]’s [relationship to the deceased, e.g., sister, friend, etc.]. I stand before you today to share some fond memories and pay tribute to our beloved [relationship to the deceased].”

A beautiful eulogy is heartfelt, genuine, and focuses on the person’s life, their special bond with friends and family, and the impact they had on others. It includes personal stories, favorite memories, and acknowledges the emotions felt by those mourning the loss

The final sentences for a eulogy could be: “As we say our goodbyes to [Name] today, let us remember the love, laughter, and precious moments we shared together. May their memory live on in our hearts forever, and may we find solace in knowing that they are now at peace.”

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Our guide to help you write a eulogy.

For the majority of us, writing and giving a eulogy is something we have no experience of, and therefore we may find it difficult to know where to start. There is no right or wrong way to compose a eulogy; each is as unique as the person giving it and the person it describes, whether that be a eulogy for a best friend or your  fathers eulogy . It should however be positive, no more than 5-10 minutes, and if spoken from the heart be memorable and moving for all concerned.

What is a Eulogy?

A eulogy, otherwise known as a funeral speech, is a speech made at a funeral, often by the deceased’s loved ones: this could be their partner, their parents, their children, or even their friends. In some instances, several eulogies may be given within one funeral.

This is, essentially, a short speech that commemorates the life of the person who passed away, usually expressing stories and experiences that the reader shared with them. It is a personal way of expressing how much that person meant to everyone in the room, and a great way to pay tribute. 

The important thing to remember is that being chosen to give a eulogy at a loved one’s funeral is such a high honor to receive. Depending on the person that you are, you may feel differently: there is no denying that, while it means a lot that you have been chosen, it is a great responsibility to bear. It can be terrifying.

It can be hard to think about, and you may be experiencing several anxieties about reading a eulogy. Perhaps you feel that whatever you write won’t be good enough. After all, how can you sum up a person’s life within a 10 minute speech? 

You need to remember that a eulogy doesn’t have to be perfect, and no one in that room will expect it to be. It’s okay if you cry. It’s even okay if you laugh, especially at a particularly funny story you want to share with this person’s friends and family: in fact, a lighthearted antidote will most likely be welcomed and appreciated. 

Funerals are not only for grieving the person who has passed. More importantly than anything else, this is the time to truly celebrate that person’s life.  

Writing a eulogy will be a completely different experience for each individual person. It will also be different depending on who you are writing it about, and what your personal relationship to that person was. 

Continue reading through this list to find some prompts and ideas that may help you while writing yours. 

There are many factors that play into how a eulogy is written, and while there is no ‘correct’ way to write one, there are some guidelines that you may find useful that will help you along the way.

The experiences of others may inspire you, and the techniques they used could make your own experience a little easier. While it may seem impossible to find the exact words to use, and to cut these down into a short speech, we have no doubt in our minds that you can do it. Not only that, but we believe you will do a great job at honoring the memory of your loved one.

We’re here to help you through this difficult time. Continue reading to find some eulogy examples, as well as some tips from others who have gone through this experience in the past. We really hope you will find these to be helpful, and that they will make this challenging time a little easier for you.

Writing an Eulogy for Your Mother

Losing a parent is a feeling like no other, and there is no way of describing how it feels when we lose a mother.

This was the woman that brought you into the world, and she was there for your first breaths. She was there from the very beginning, and when she’s gone, you are left with not just the deepest devastation, but complete and utter confusion: what happens next? Learning to continue with life after losing your mother can be one of the most disorienting emotions a person can experience. 

Writing a eulogy for your own mother will be difficult. There are only so many words you can write, and none of them will ever truly be able to reflect how you felt about her. It may seem impossible to shorten this speech down to only ten minutes.

The best place to begin is writing down the first memories that come to mind when you think about her: these may be from your childhood, or perhaps they are more recent. This will be a truly emotional time, thinking back to those great times you spent together, and it is important to remember that it is okay to feel overwhelmed during these moments. 

Everyone’s relationship with their mother is different. Due to this, it will be difficult for anyone to help you come up with the right words for the eulogy, as no one else will be able to appreciate that relationship that you had. 

However, if you have siblings, perhaps it would be a good idea to ask them to help you. They will be the only other people on this earth who saw your mother the same way that you did. 

It might be a good idea to arrange a time with your siblings when you can get together, and discuss the eulogy. Make sure you take a notepad and pen with you, or some sort of medium that will allow you to take notes.

During this time, try to relax, and discuss the best memories that you experienced with your mother while she was alive. You may hear stories from your siblings that you had never heard before, and while this will be painful, it may be nice to hear these tales and to remember the sort of person that she was. Write these memories down.

Discuss what you loved about her, and even discuss the funny, annoying little things that she would do while you were growing up: for example, her finding out that you had stuck out one night, or her nagging you to do chores around the house. These funny little anecdotes will make you, and the others, laugh and remember even the not-so-great times that you cherish so deeply now.

Due to every person having a different relationship with their mother, it is difficult for us to tell you what to write. Below, there are some examples and prompts that you may use within your mother’s eulogy.

A Loving Mother Eulogy

• ‘As I was growing up, my mother made sure I always knew how much she cared, reminding me each and every day how important I was to her. She would take every opportunity granted to her to remind me how much she loved me.’ 
• ‘My mother really was an amazing person, and I was so lucky to be able to have called myself her son/daughter. I know my siblings feel the exact same way.’
• ‘I just want to take this time to say how grateful I was to her, for everything she ever did for me. My only wish is that I’d have said it more often while she was here.’

Writing a Eulogy for Your Father

Similarly to the last segment, losing a father can be like losing a limb: this may be someone who was there from the very beginning of your life, and it doesn’t feel like that he is no longer with you. If you had a strong bond with your father, you will want to make him proud through this eulogy, even if it causes you pain to write it.

You will likely have a unique view of your father that no one else in the world will have, aside from your siblings. Again, it is definitely worth using the advice from the previous segment and gathering up your siblings, choosing a time and date to discuss your favorite memories with your dad.

It will also be worth talking to your father’s friends and hearing what stories they have to tell about him from over the years: they will likely tell you about things that happened before you were even born.

It will be interesting to find out how different he was around his friends, and it will be interesting to discover things about him that you had never known about before, even now that he is gone. His friends may find it nice to hear your stories too. It is a great way of keeping his memory alive.

Below, there are some examples and prompts that you may use within your father’s eulogy.

A Dedicated Father Eulogy

• ‘A father is a person you look up to, someone you follow, someone you admire, someone to be proud of and someone you want to make proud. He is a person you can cry to, someone to learn from, someone to respect.’ 
• ‘I am so grateful that I was able to spend time with him while he was here.’ 
• ‘He would always listen, and even when we had our disagreements at times, he was always there when I needed him.’

Writing an Eulogy for a Brother or Sister

Losing a sibling can be one of the hardest losses a person can go through in their life. While your bond with your parents was something special, a bond with a sibling is often one like no other: you will have lived with this person for many years of your life, and spent a great deal of time with them.

If you were close in age, you most likely went to school together, and several after-school activities. If there was a larger age gap, perhaps you thought of them as a parent figure, or you cared about them like they were your own child.

No matter what, this is a loss that will stick with you for the longest time. A brother or sister is a friend for life, and losing them can be extremely difficult to cope with.

If you have other siblings, take this time to let them help you with the eulogy. It is likely that each of you had different relationships with each other, and shared separate, individual memories over the years. There will probably be stories from when you were children, and the mischief you got up to together.

If you are lucky enough to still have your parents around, ask them about your sibling’s childhood: what were they like as a baby? What were their school reports like? Your parents will have very different memories to you and your siblings, and they will have had very different relationships.

It will be interesting to hear the different stories, and your parents will, most likely, really appreciate spending this time with you after losing a child. This will be an extremely difficult time for them, as it is for you, and one of the best things a family can do at a time like this is stick together, and spend quality time as a group.

Below are some examples and prompts that you may use within your brother or sister’s eulogy.

• ‘This may be a cliche, but my sister/brother wasn’t just my sister/brother growing up: she/he/they really were my best friend. She/he/they were also my first friend.’ 
• ‘While we were growing up, we did everything together, and he/she/they moulded me into the person that I am today, in so many ways. If I needed a shoulder to cry on, he/she/they were there. If I needed advice, or I needed someone to listen, he/she/they were there.’
• ‘Yes, we bickered growing up, but what siblings don’t? No one protected me better, and no one had my back like he/she/they did.’ 
• ‘He/she/they were amazing, and I still haven’t been able to think about what life will be like without them.’

Eulogy for a Husband or Wife

No matter whether you have been together for one year or married for fifty years, it is never easy to lose a partner.

When you are in love with someone, you want to spend the rest of your life with them. You don’t want to consider the possibility that, at some point, one of you will be left without the other. A person may wish that they are the first to go, just so they don’t have to go through the pain of being without the other.

This grief, like the others, is completely unique, and losing a partner can feel like you have lost a part of yourself. While we often have time to prepare for the death of a parent, it can be a complete shock when we lose someone that we expected to spend our whole lives with. It can feel like a betrayal from the world when our forever with this person has been cut short.

Writing an eulogy for a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, your best friend can be an extremely painful experience. It can be hard to reflect on the good times you had together without feeling overwhelmed.

Please be easy on yourself, and remember that this is normal: it will be hard, and it is important to focus on how you feel your partner would have wanted you to feel: they wouldn’t want you to be breaking your own heart.

They would want you to be happy… and, although this won’t happen overnight, one day you will be able to look back on those moments with your loved one with a smile on your face. Writing this eulogy should include these fond memories. Remember the good times, and know that they will always live on inside your heart.

It may be a good idea to meet up with some friends, preferably ones who knew your partner. You could even take the time to meet up with his/her/their friends too, and their family. Make a note of all the good times they had with your partner, and include these stories in the eulogy. 

Below are some examples and prompts that you may use within your partner’s eulogy.

• ‘[insert name] was a man/woman that can, and will, never be replaced… not just by me, but by anyone. He/she truly was one of a kind.’
• ‘Granted, we had our ups and down, and we weren’t perfect… but, to us, our relationship was perfect. If I could go back and do it all again, I would in a heartbeat, and I wouldn’t change a single thing. I loved them for every flaw, and every perfection.’
• ‘We were together for [insert time], and although I will forever wish that we had had just a little bit longer, I am so grateful I got to spend that time with them.’

Writing a Eulogy for a Child

While the death of any friend or family member is always heartbreaking, there is nothing that quite matches what it feels like to lose your own child.

No matter how old your child was at the time of their passing, the grief that follows is one that will be particularly difficult to process. We live our lives with the understanding and belief that parents should outlive their children.

When the unimaginable happens, and the parent outlives their child, it truly is the ultimate tragedy. Bereaving parents lose a part of themselves when they lose a son or a daughter. You not only witnessed their entrance into this world, but you also witnessed their exit: this feels unnatural, and it should never have happened. It can be an extremely hard notion to process.

The thought of speaking about your child in front of an audience, telling them about the many stories and memories you hold of them, can be terrifying. It is something that no person should ever have to do. If you feel that you truly want to write and read a eulogy for your child, you should make sure to take breaks often, and give yourself the time that you need. Don’t rush this process. 

Your family and friends will surely want to be there for you at this time, and they may want to help you along this journey. The child’s other parent should also help you through the writing process: after all, he/she/they will be the only other person who truly understands your loss. This is going to be difficult, but try to focus on the good memories. Remember the happy times you spent with your child, and provide them with the eulogy that they deserve. 

Below are some examples and prompts that you may use within your child’s eulogy.

• ‘[Insert name] was my son/daughter, and we had a bond that I will never be able to describe fully with words.’ 
• ‘From a young age, [insert name] had the strongest, funniest personality, and managed to shine in every room they entered. Growing up, he/she was so curious, and always aimed for the stars.’ 
• ‘I could never fully understand how I had created such a perfect child.’ 
• ‘I always wished that he/she/they would achieve everything they wanted in life, and I truly believed they did. If he/she/they wasn’t anything else, he/she/they was happy. He/she/they were always so happy.’

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Writing an Eulogy for a Friend

Lastly, but certainly not least, we will be looking at how to write a great eulogy for a dear friend.

Throughout our lives, we will meet people who we can become closer to than our own family members. We will see them more often than our parents, siblings, and sometimes our partners, and we grow close to them in ways that we could never imagine being close to anyone else.

Our friends often become secondary family members to us, and their loss can affect us extremely negatively. If we lose someone who is close to our age, this can also hit us harder than most losses, as we often don’t see it coming: we expect people our age to live as long as we do, and it is the ultimate reality check when they don’t. We expect these people to stay with us forever. 

If you have been chosen to write a eulogy for your friend, you should consider it one of the highest honors you could be given: your friend most likely had family members, and several other friends, and so the fact that you have been chosen to give a speech at their funeral should feel like a privilege.

You may not see it that way at first: grief has a funny way of cancelling out all over emotions, and a ten-minute speech may not seem important in the grand scheme of things. However, it is your job to make sure your friend is honored in the best way possible, and you surely have many great stories to share with their loved ones. 

It could be a good idea to meet up with this person’s other friends: your friendship group can work together and note down every great memory you shared with this person.

There will surely be many funny anecdotes that you will want to share and lighten the mood for everyone else at the funeral. These memories will live with you forever, and even though your friend is gone, they will be kept alive through these infamous tales told by you and your friends. Make your friend proud.

Below are some examples and prompts that you may use within your friend’s eulogy. 

• ‘[Insert name] was such a huge presence in our lives, and this is a loss that will stay with me forever.’ 
• ‘It’s so hard to find the right words to do him/her/them justice, and to truly express who they were, and what he/she/they meant to us.’ 
• ‘He/she/they really, truly cared about us, and in the world that we live in, it is pretty difficult to come across true friends like [insert name].’ 
• ‘He/she/they were the sort of person who would do anything for you, day or night. I honestly don’t know where I would be right now without him/her/them.’

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Tips On How To Write A Eulogy

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Gather Your Material

Firstly, as you write down all your thoughts and feelings of the deceased, gather as much information from close family and friends, as well as their old acquaintances from work or even school as you can. They will hopefully be able to add to your own memories and stories.

Writing a eulogy does not have to be done totally by yourself, getting others to contribute like this, not only helps you, but will make others feel like they are contributing, and may help them with their grieving too.

Looking at old photographs can jog the memory, reliving old times, old places, old achievements.

Pick a Theme, Avoid Chronological Lists and Be Upbeat

Rather than listing events in chronological order, focus points based around achievements and a theme. Was the person always happy, were they the life and soul, a quiet and kind person or just someone you could rely on.

By picking out a central theme, this helps focus all short stories you might recite and allows the eulogy to flow, rather than simply reading a list of dry facts.

Explore moments and memories that touched you and try to group those thoughts together to create some kind of structure.

Slow down, express yourself and be open

By slowing down your speech, you give yoursel to thin kand the audience to follow along. Dont rush through it to get it over with.

Deliver the speech by expressing emotions and varying tones in your voice. Avoid a monotone delivery.

An open body language will help the audience connect with you.

Give Yourself Time to Write and Practice

Allow yourself the time and emotional space to experience the process. It’s a writing process, but it’s an emotional process, too. Allow yourself that grace as you write; you will need it as you recall memories and stories about times spent with your loved one who has now passed on.

Once you have a draft, give yourself time to practice aloud.

Read Examples

We have provided a number of eulogy examples above, so take time to read and watch them to get a feel of how you would like to recite the finals words.

Please do not try to copy or imitate anyone though, some people are naturally better or more experienced at speaking in public so just do you, be personable and speak from the heart.

Eulogy Templates

Whilst I do not recommend the use of a eulogy template approach when writing a eulogy, I understand it might help some people. Below I have drafted 2 versions.

The first one is just an idea of things you could include and a basic outline.

The second is a ‘fill in the blank’ type template. Please don’t use this word for word and just use it to help you with some ideas.

Frequently Asked Eulogy Questions

I start by acknowledging key mourners (close family etc) so that they know they are included. This part makes it easier for the reader to start the eulogy as they move the attention away from themselves and the person they have lost to a third party.

• Cause of death
• Personal Faults
• Any personal or professional Grudges
• Past arguments/family disputes
• Unhealthy addictions
• Prior Convinctions
• Bad treatment of people
• Bad decisions
• Any Emotional baggage
• Embarrassing or Inappropriate stories
• Adult humor
• Justifying the loss
• Anything youhave to thik twice about

Free Sample Eulogy Speeches (Plus Writing Tips)

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Sample eulogies can provide ideas when you need to prepare a speech for a funeral. Being asked to give a eulogy is a great honor, but it can also be daunting. Finding the right words to mark the passing of a friend or family member's life is difficult when emotions run high. There is no right or wrong way to write a eulogy, but each tribute has a basic flow. The speech doesn't have to be perfect; it just has to come from the heart.

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Following an easy format makes it easier to pull together a eulogy for a friend and takes some pressure off starting from scratch. Follow this format to make composing the eulogy easier.

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Thank you all for coming to help us celebrate Liza's life and share our grief at her passing.

• Introduction

My name is Carol, and Liza and I have been best friends since childhood. We lived just five houses apart on National Avenue, and we spent part of nearly every day together as kids.

When I think of Liza as a child, I remember how much she loved exploring the ravine behind our house. Half of our summers were spent wandering through the woods, looking for crayfish under rocks along the creek, climbing trees, and generally doing things that would have given our parents gray hair much sooner if they knew what we had been up to each day. I have to share one memory that really illustrates Liza's fearless, and sometimes impulsive, nature. Some of the neighborhood boys had built a rope swing in a tree along the ravine's edge. Liza, being fearless, decided to give it a try. As she swung out over the edge, one of the boys jokingly called out, "Jump!" My heart leaped to my throat as I saw Liza let go of the rope on her next swing out. Luckily she wound up with nothing more than skinned knees and a sheepish grin that said she couldn't believe she had just done that, but it just goes to show what a risk taker she was.

More than a simple risk taker, Liza also had a generous soul, as I'm sure many of you here this morning can attest to. She never met a person in need that she didn't find some way of helping. Her work as director of our local family shelter became her greatest passion, and she put in tireless hours organizing meals and places where "her families" could all stay together until they could get back on their feet. I say, "her families" with all seriousness because she didn't just take them into shelters; she really took them into her heart and kept contact with them even after their lives were back on track.

Mention of Family/Friends

When you combine the facts that Liza was a compassionate soul and willing to take risks, it's not difficult to understand why she ventured out in that terrible snowstorm on Wednesday night to try to take food and diapers to one of her families in need. Yes, maybe they would have been alright until morning, but that wasn't how Liza would have thought about it. She would have worried about their empty stomachs and imagined the sound of that baby's crying. She would have set any thoughts for her safety aside and gone to their aid, and that's exactly what she did.

Of course, we now know that she never made it to that family. We can second guess Liza's decision with 20/20 hindsight, or we can embrace the fact that she died doing something she believed in so deeply. Knowing her as I did, I can tell you that her only regret about her decision to go out on the road that night would have been that her husband, Mitch, is now left to carry on without her. As passionate as she was about her shelter work, Mitch was truly the love of her life.

It may comfort us all a bit to realize that Liza is now reunited with her beloved parents, Lee and Meredith, and that someday we'll all be together again when we cross over to the other side. This is only a brief parting in the larger scheme of life.

One thing you may or may not know is that Liza was a huge fan of the band Queen. She particularly loved a song called Dear Friends , and she once made me promise that if she passed before I did, I would play the song at her memorial, or at least read the lyrics. So, I'll read those now in closing, and I hope they leave you with the message that time will heal our wounds, and that life truly does go on.

Eulogy Sample for a Parent

Writing a eulogy for a parent's death can be an incredibly emotional task. Use the following sample to help you create one personalized for your parent.

Welcome and Introduction

For anyone who may not know me, my name is Jean, and I am Rita's eldest daughter. Thank you all for coming here today to help us say goodbye to Mom.

To me, Mom was my guiding light. She set the example of what a good wife, mother, and friend should be. She always did her best to be patient with all of her children, and there were five of us, so that was no easy feat. She tried to carve out some quality time with each of us, and believe me, we were all jealous when it was someone else's turn. However, that just shows you how much we all loved her and wanted that one-on-one time with Mom. When it was your turn, you found out that she hadn't really missed out on anything that was going on in your life, she just hadn't talked with you about it yet.

As for her life with Dad, she set a shining example of the kind of unconditional love required to see a marriage through good times and bad. I remember when Dad lost his job at the auto factory. He was so worried about finding work, and he felt he was letting Mom and all of us down because he couldn't provide for us. Mom gave him a big hug and told him she had no doubt that he would find another job that was as good or better than the one at the factory, and she took a job as a cashier at the grocery store to help tide us over until he found work again, this time as a manager in another factory instead of just working on the line. That was Mom; always an optimist, always willing to pitch in and do whatever was needed, all the time truly believing that things would work out in the end.

Mom was also a fantastic friend. She always saw the good in people, and if she saw the bad, she certainly didn't gossip about it. If you needed her, she was there and asking what she could do to help. I remember how she helped Mrs. Johnson get back and forth to work one week when her car was in the shop. When her best friend Mary needed a new pair of glasses and didn't have quite enough money, Mom insisted on loaning her the rest. Mom was there for all the highs and lows of her friends' lives, and I think the size of the gathering here is a testament to how much they all loved her.

Mention of Family

As much as I'd like to think I was Mom's favorite child, I know she truly didn't have one. We were all her favorite in one way or another. She always used to talk about what a wonderful artist our sister Ellie is. Our eldest brother Mark was her dependable child. She said God had "built Mark solid," and she was thankful she could lean upon him if she needed to. She adored our brother Greg's sense of humor since it was so like her own. They shared many a private laugh together about things that went over the rest of our heads. Callie was her "quiet one." Mom said that whenever Callie was especially quiet, that meant she was thinking up a storm on the inside.

As for me, Mom always said I was the keeper of the family chronicles because of my habit of journaling every night before I went to bed. She'd come in to say goodnight, and I'd let her read the day's entry. I think that must have been what inspired her request that I speak to you all today.

As you all know, Mom had a great deal of faith and rarely missed Sunday Mass. One hymn was her particular favorite, and I remember how she used to light up whenever Be Not Afraid was sung at Mass. She truly believed that she could "pass through raging waters in the sea and not drown" because God was with her the entire time. I know that's how she felt about her battle with cancer. She knew that even if cancer won, God would be there with her to carry her safely to Heaven. In honor of Mom's faith and her life, I'd like us all to sing that hymn together now...

Eulogy Speech Example for a Child

The death of a child rocks the very foundation of people's view of the world as a good place. Use the sample below to help you pull together something appropriate yet touching.

Thank you all for joining us here today, although I'm sure many of us wish we were gathering in celebration rather than in mourning. My name is Julie. I am Lisa's aunt, and I'll be speaking on behalf of Lisa's parents, my sister Gwen and her husband Mike.

I remember the day Lisa was born. She was the most beautiful little baby you could ever hope to see, and she was an especially wonderful blessing to Gwen and Mike who had struggled for years to have a family. With this one child, all their prayers had been answered.

Lisa was by all accounts an easy baby to raise. She was sleeping through the night by the time she was three months old, and she had a naturally happy disposition. Anytime someone new would enter the room, baby Lisa would give a great big smile and stretch out her arms to offer a welcoming hug. Of course, this instantly endeared her to everyone who ever came in contact with her. Lisa was definitely meant to bring love into this world for the all-too-short time we would have with her.

In light of how desperately Lisa was wanted and loved by her parents, as well as everyone here today, it's difficult to understand why her life had to end so soon. It's nearly inconceivable that God would allow a young child to become ill and suffer, let alone die. When you look at it that way, it's easy to be angry at God for taking back the gift He gave. I choose to look at it another way.

God saw how dearly Mike and Gwen wanted to know the joy of having a child of their own, and even though it might not have been meant to be, he gave Lisa to their keeping for a short time so they could know that joy. When Lisa became ill and her suffering was too much to bear, he scooped her up to Heaven, and all her suffering was gone. I believe she now waits patiently for the day when her parents will join her, and they will all live happily together once again. I believe that she would want us all to dwell on the happy times we shared with her, and let the sad memories fade.

At this time, I'd like to offer you all the opportunity to share some of your favorite memories of Lisa's brief life.

Tips for How to Write a Eulogy Speech

A eulogy is a final favor to the deceased, revealing the best parts of their life to the people who loved them. Highlight the person's life instead of focusing on how you feel about the loss.

Basic Eulogy Outline

Eulogies need not be long; the average length is between three and five minutes. You don't want to overwhelm those in attendance by speaking any longer than this. The key here is to be honest with your feelings and thoughts.

A eulogy should include:

• Give your personal sentiments
• Discuss happier times with the deceased person; include anecdotes and real-life experiences (avoid anything that might be considered offensive or vulgar)
• Describe the person's character
• Talk about family and friends left behind
• Close with a memorable poem or traditional funeral song

You should always draft a copy of your speech and, if possible, rehearse it in front of someone. Make sure you print a copy of the eulogy and give a second copy to someone who can act as a backup in case you get sick or are overcome with emotion.

Ideas for Funeral Eulogy Content

Don't try to write the eulogy in the order that you'll give it. It's easier to begin by jotting down your thoughts about various aspects of the deceased's life. Think about the following points and see if anything springs to mind. If it does, write that now, and then you can put things in the order you want them later.

• A short introduction about yourself and relationship to the person who died
• A brief biography of the deceased person
• Information about his or her career
• Remarks about his or her family, friends and pets
• List of achievements
• Favorite songs or poems
• Information about hobbies or interests
• Personal stories or anecdotes
• Memories from years gone by

Delivering the Speech at a Funeral

Funerals and memorials are very difficult times. It's okay to cry and share your emotions while delivering your tribute . However, don't try to memorize your speech. It's best to keep your notes in outline form or on note cards for reference to help you stay on track and to ensure that you cover all the key points that you plan to bring up.

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50 best eulogy templates (for relatives or friends).

Nobody wants to experience losing a person close to them. Sadly, though, this is an inevitable thing. One important aspect of saying our final farewell to a loved one is to give a short speech about the person who died and this speech is what’s known as a eulogy. In this article, we’ll focus on creating a eulogy template to help you through this difficult time.

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• 1 Eulogy Templates
• 2 What is a eulogy?
• 3 Eulogy Outlines
• 4 Parts of a eulogy template
• 5 Eulogy Formats
• 6 Eulogy Speech Outlines
• 7 How to write a eulogy?
• 8 Free Eulogy Templates

What is a eulogy?

Although you can download a eulogy template online, you may want to just use this as your framework but customize the content to make it more personal. A sample eulogy is a type of speech meant to honor, commemorate or praise the life of someone who died.

The family of this person may choose someone outside of their family to give a eulogy if they have a close relationship with the deceased. Otherwise, the members of the family themselves may create the eulogy outline or assign the task to a priest.

More than one person can compose a eulogy speech outline for the deceased as long as it’s okay with the rest of the family. Also, if several people will give speeches, they may want to agree upon what they plan to talk about. For instance:

• One person may talk about the earlier years of the deceased.
• Another person may talk about the professional life or career of the deceased.
• Yet another person may speak about the character of the deceased.
• One of the members of the family may talk about all of the lessons imparted by the deceased.

In cases where several people will give eulogies, it’s best to stick to a maximum of 5 minutes for each speech to prevent the service from running for too long.

Eulogy Outlines

Parts of a eulogy template

For a lot of people, the task of composing a eulogy template seems extremely overwhelming. Imagine, you already lost someone and you have to come up with a speech to say in front of so many people. Probably the only good thing about this kind of speech is that you can say whatever is in your heart.

Strictly speaking, there is no standard eulogy format to follow. After all, this isn’t a professional type of speech which you must submit to your superiors. If this is your first time to compose such a speech, you may want to look at a sample eulogy to give you a better idea of what it should contain.

Eulogy Formats

When creating your eulogy outline, try to include the following parts to make it complete:

• Opening Here, you may start with a short anecdote about the deceased or a funeral quote which contains a general message about death and losing someone.
• Earlier years If you had known the deceased from when he/she was still young, you may include this part. Usually, family members or close family friends may include this part in their eulogy speech outline. Share some of your best memories, some touching stories, and other good things you recall about the deceased. If you went to school with the deceased, you may talk about the time you spent with the person at school. For sure, you would have a lot of fun stories to share as well as some life lessons which you may have learned from the person you lost.
• Family Talk about the family of the deceased, the people he/she left behind, and even a short history about how the deceased met his/her partner and started a family.
• Professional life If you worked with the deceased, then you may speak about his/her professional life. Share some achievements, accomplishments, what he/she was well-known for at work, and more. You may also share some of the most significant work-related events in the life of the person.
• Fond memories and life lessons This is the most emotional part of the eulogy format, especially if you shared a close relationship with the deceased. Talk about your fondest memories and all of the life lessons imparted to you by the person you lost. Even without trying, this part would most likely be the one which brings the audience to tears as they also recall the moments they shared with the deceased.
• Ending After saying everything you want to share, it’s time to wrap things up. You may ask everyone to join you in prayer or you may use another quote which applies to the life of the deceased. Also, have a statement where you thank the person for being a part of all your lives and how you will all miss this person.

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How to write a eulogy?

If you receive the task of creating a eulogy template for a loved one, you would have a lot of mixed emotions about this. You have to deal with the grief of losing someone you love as you try to come up with the words to honor him/her. You don’t have to take this task too seriously.

You’ve already lost someone, don’t make this a burden on yourself. Instead, think of it as an opportunity to tell others how incredible the deceased was and how much he/she had an impact on your life. To guide you, here are some tips for creating your eulogy outline and speech:

• Have a brainstorming session Before you start writing your eulogy speech outline, try to think about some ideas which you would like to include in your speech. From stories, personal information, memories, and more, there is a lot for you to choose from. You can even start a conversation with the family members of the deceased to ask for ideas for what you can add to your eulogy.
• Write the introduction In the introduction, make sure to acknowledge all the guests and the reason why they’re all gathered together. State how this is a celebration of life and a commemoration of the life of the deceased. Don’t forget to introduce yourself along with your relationship to the deceased. Then thank everyone for attending the funeral service.
• Come up with a short biography For the next few paragraphs of your speech, you may want to talk about the life of the deceased. If you hadn’t known the person when he was young, it would be a good idea to speak to the family members of the deceased. Of course, you shouldn’t interview them strictly. Remember, they are all grieving as well. Instead, speak to them casually and in a light tone. Get them to open up to you and share their fondest memories. Once in a while, you may ask some questions in order to build your biography . But if they don’t want to talk too much, don’t push the topic. If you don’t have enough information for this part, you can move on to the next.
• Talk about the deceased After giving a short background of the deceased, it’s time to speak about him/her more. Share some special memories you have, a couple of stories, and even some of the most unique qualities of the person. If you shared a special bond with the deceased, this part would be very easy to write. While you write your speech, don’t push yourself too hard. If you’re feeling an overwhelming wave of emotion sweeping over you, take a break and find something else to distract you. When you feel more clear-headed, continue with your writing. This allows you to create a heartwarming speech that isn’t too sad or emotional. Again, you may speak to other people to get inspiration and ideas from them. This is especially true if you’re the only one assigned to give a eulogy during the service. Talk to family members, friends, and colleagues so you can paint a complete picture of the life of the deceased. Organize all of the information you’ve gathered to make it more interesting and understandable. Then add your own input to the ideas which you have gathered. As you write this part of the speech, you’ll have a better idea of who the deceased person was.
• Write the closing For the last part of your speech, try to think of some effective words of comfort. You grieve with everyone else in attendance but as the person assigned to deliver the eulogy, it’s your responsibility to bring some comfort to the crowd. Talk about the most important lessons you have learned from the deceased and how much he/she affected your life. After this, close your speech by saying goodbye to the person and by thanking him/her for being an important part of your life.
• Proofread your speech Before printing out your speech and delivering it during the service, make sure to proofread it first. Emotional as this time may be, the impact of your speech might get reduced if it has a lot of grammatical errors. After checking the speech yourself, ask another person to check it again for you. Ask help from one of the members of the family or from a close family friend to proofread your speech for you. When you’re confident about the speech you’ve created, you may now deliver it during the funeral service.

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 - 2 funeral speeches to help you write.

By:  Susan Dugdale  | Last updated: 12-15-2021

Reading a sample eulogy can really help when you're facing the task of preparing a funeral speech for someone you love.

I understand.

The tyranny of a blank sheet paper and a numbed mind yoked together by the desire to 'get it right' is the perfect recipe for confusion. You start - you stop. You write - then you cross out what you've written.  I've been there too.

It's my hope that the eulogy samples here will step you over the threshold of 'shall I say this, or shall I say that' and let you begin.

You'll see that there are no definitive right or wrong ways to honor a life. Yes, there are guidelines or suggestions about  how to write a eulogy * ,  what to put in and what to leave out, but ultimately, the choice is yours.

* If you want to see the suggestions I put together after getting through the anxiety of indecision, click the link. I've also added a free printable eulogy planning template to that page because I know how time consuming and ghastly struggling to write can be!  

These funeral speeches were written for an elderly neighbor and my sister. You are most welcome to use them as spring-boards for the speech you need to write.

Although they are very different in style, both are personal tributes marking characteristics I valued and loved.

Sample Eulogy One: Eulogy for Malcolm

Background notes:.

Malcolm and his wife, Margaret 'retired' into our neighborhood. Both were extremely quiet people who spent most of their time making their house and garden beautiful.

Malcolm was a little man physically but large in generosity. He had been a hard working builder, the ultimate 'do-it-yourself'  guy. Over the years he transformed their little patch and we spent many happy times swapping gardening hints and plant cuttings.

Malcolm's service respected his wishes. It was simple and non-religious.

The text of the eulogy I wrote for Malcolm

We heard Malcolm before we met him. And that was an irony as we later found out.

He and Margaret had scarcely moved into our street before the concrete mixer started growling. It rumbled and roared for weeks on end as Malcolm transformed his back yard into what would become a showcase for his flowers and vegetables.

Our cat EVEREADY engineered the introduction bringing us together. She was small, black, full of energy, had at least nine lives, we thought, and was ever-ready for a feed or a cuddle.

During that time there was no-one at home through the day and EVEREADY roamed. She inevitably found Malcolm and Margaret. It was true love. She had a second home and was utterly spoiled. There were special treats of milk and more. They called her ‘our little girl’ and I got regular updates of her daily adventures.

When she became ill, and it was apparent she'd run out of lives, it was Malcolm and Margaret who accompanied me to the vet for her final visit.

Aside from loving our cat, I also discovered we had something else in common.

Malcolm loved plants and in particular flowers. He spent his day light hours fussing over them outside and then his nights, embroidering them inside.

His hands, so capable with a concrete mixer or a shovel, could also turn out fine needlework. I have several of his cross stitched treasures.

To me they represent his patience, perseverance and quiet endurance. Toward the end, even in severe pain, he worked on creating these little beauties.

Malcolm called me the Flower–Fairy, a name given because when I went past their letterbox for my evening walk I often dropped in a flower from what ever was blooming in my garden.

In return I now call him the Flower–Elf. I know I won’t sit down to embroider as he did so instead I offer up a thought posy.

Here’s rosemary sweet and aromatic for remembrance. A snip of pale pink rosebuds for friendship A collection of pansies for loving thoughts Some larkspur signifying a beautiful spirit

And lastly because, I know you’ll remember the alstroemeria (Peruvian lily) I gave you: how it invaded your garden and how hard you worked to get rid of it, some of that too. It stands for ‘aspiring’ and I know it will make you smile.

Thank-you Malcolm for your gentle love, friendship and kindness. We will remember you.

Sample Eulogy Two: For my sister  Elizabeth

Background notes to this eulogy:.

Rather than write a formal 'sentence by sentence' eulogy, I chose to take 'snapshots' of our childhood featuring the two of us.

Despite the eulogy being segmented it does have a three-part structure. It opens with her birth and the qualities she brought with her. The middle section is devoted to she and me. The ending returns to the start with a summary of her qualities. The repetition of her name throughout was to reinforce her being made up of many individual parts even though all of them were called 'Elizabeth'.

I've asterisked parts of this sample eulogy that you may need further explanation for in order to understand them.

Eulogy for Elizabeth

E lizabeth: an enormous capacity and will to live. Our mother spent many of the months carrying her in bed in order that she stayed put and grew. Even so she was impatient and arrived early.

Elizabeth: 'Mrs Me Too'. I did the talking. She simply said ‘Me too.’

Elizabeth: a whirl of arms and legs, turning cartwheels on the lawn with her skirt tucked into her knickers.

Elizabeth:  determined to be a marching girl and practicing up and down the path to the clothesline.

Elizabeth and I having been to see the movie * South Pacific singing to the garden under the kitchen window. We snapped our fingers in time and danced: ‘Walky, Walky Talky Hollyhocks, Talk about things you like to do…’

Elizabeth and I having elaborate doll’s tea parties under the buddlia trees. Their perfume still reminds me. We gave the dolls pink nail polish fingers and toes. A moment of inspiration later they had splendid sets of nipples too.

Elizabeth and I wearing hand knitted pale blue fluffy boleros and the other kids picking at the fluff.

Elizabeth and I in our * ‘show’ dresses. Hers was white with red spots. When it rained the dye ran red down her bare legs. She cried but later won a kewpie doll on a stick which brought back a smile.

Elizabeth and I playing music. She on the piano and me on the violin. Bach's Minuet in G getting faster and faster until the notes slid into each other and our Mother shouted for peace.

Elizabeth trying to teach me to do a handstand and I kept falling over.

Elizabeth: a tumult of passions, sensitivities, hopes, fears and abilities. The qualities I know to be true, despite the numbing rumble of daily life, were her deep desire to understand, her striving for peace, love and to honor and use her abilities creatively.

Elizabeth was and is a highly intelligent, articulate, courageous and adventurous woman. I loved her.

References:

* South Pacific : The song was actually Happy Talk . The original lyric was ' Happy talk, keep talkin' happy talk, Talk about things you'd like to do '.

At eight and ten years old, Elizabeth and I heard it differently and there were hollyhocks flowering in our garden under the kitchen window. Naturally we sang our song to them. I remember hearing our mother and father laughing, and then seeing them both peep, smiling, through the window at the pair of us. Our duet became part of family history.

* 'show' dresses.  We lived in a rural area. Each spring there was a huge agricultural show and everybody went. In those days, (1960's) girls got new dresses for the occasion usually sewn by their mothers.

And lastly -

Remember - there are no 'right' ways to write a funeral speech except that you are honest, respectful, and sincere.

If you would like further assistance, more than is available here: how to write a eulogy, with a free printable eulogy planning template , please feel free to contact me directly via the form on my About Me page.

Go well. Write with courage and love.

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We hope our eulogy examples will inspire you to write a heartfelt speech to honour your beloved father.  

I'm so proud to share the lovely eulogies my children made at my husband's funeral and I hope that they will help you to write equally moving eulogies for your loved ones.  

The following two eulogy examples are for a father, but you could adapt them for an uncle or grandfather.  The same principles apply for eulogies for mothers.

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Eulogy for his Father, by my Son, Andy

Eulogy For Dad by Andy

Dads are someone to look up to, someone to follow, someone to admire, someone to be proud of and someone to brag about, someone to hold and someone to cry with, someone to learn from and someone to respect, someone to listen to and someone to talk to, someone to try and impress, sometimes rebel against, and, someone, most of all, with whom to share everything this wonderful life has to offer.

I am so incredibly grateful and happy that I can stand here today and tell you that I have had all this and much, much more with my dad Colin. I have been blessed to have had Colin as my dad.

To say I loved my dad would be an understatement -  and  to say  I’m going to miss him would be an even greater understatement.

I cannot begin to imagine not having Dad on the end of a phone or popping around at a moment’s notice to assist, in his ever graceful manner, with any project great or small with which I happen to be needing advice or help, or to be with my children, Monica & Jamie.

Dad was always there for everyone, family, neighbours, colleagues, or friends. . .

I have known him to drive from Cambridge to Leeds to spend a weekend helping Lesley with some DIY projects at her place and then the following weekend drive across the country to help me with a move or a project in London.  He always seemed to be able to draw upon boundless energy.

He was a very clever man but was never afraid of having a laugh at his own expense.  He could help you with a complex pharmaceutical problem or just as happily, as many of you know, offer to be Santa Claus and have all the ladies of the Bridge Club queuing up to sit on his lap.

Dad was also always there for Mum to the point that she used to joke she was like the Queen and didn’t need or have to carry money.

For 52 years they have shared everything life can offer - together. They were a great team supporting each other in every way.

Dad was hard working, compassionate towards everyone, and deserved the success and rich life that he enjoyed.  He taught me many, many things but I think most importantly he gave us the ability to know that if you really put your mind to something, anything is possible, and never to be afraid to give anything a go.

His attention to detail and perfectionism was infectious and once in a while could get him into trouble. I will never forget when Lesley came home one day proud as punch and declared she got 99% in a music exam.  He stupidly asked “what happened to the other 1%?”.  He never lived that down. 

His passion for woodworking in his retirement gave him many happy hours creating in his workshop. Unfortunately woodworking tools can also be the sharpest. . . the very first time he used his imported Scandinavian carving axe he swiftly took off the end of his thumb.

Despite these odd foot in the mouth moments or unfortunate slip ups Dad was incredibly practical and creative and I am so lucky that he passed on so much of his knowledge and skills to me.

It is of course always possible to look back and remember those times when things didn’t always go to plan, like the time he installed a new dishwasher in our home in Letchworth, England.  All was well until Mum and Dad could not work out why, in the middle of the night, our dog Sheba was crying, only to come down and find her floating around a completely flooded kitchen in her dog basket!

Nobody can be perfect but Dad was as close to being the most perfect Dad anyone could have.

Dad's love was unconditional and this is something I will cherish from his character – and take with me forever. His kindness and generosity will be remembered by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

I would like to thank my children for their contributions and music today.  You know Colin loved you all very much and he was so proud of all your wonderful achievements. Thanks to Andre for his support for us all and especially Lesley my beautiful sister who has always been there for me.

I also would like to thank my wonderful partner for her incredible love and support for me.

I am humbled by Mum’s strength over the past few days and her ability to focus on the amazing life she shared with my Dad and not dwell on what she has lost.

I hope that through this I can find strength from her example and be there for her whenever she needs me.

Eulogy for Her Father by My Daughter, Lesley

Eulogy for My Father by Lesley

I must be one of the luckiest people in the world.  How many times do you hear "If only I'd told him how much I loved him, but its too late" Or, " he was suffering so much it was a blessed release"? 

A few weeks ago, Andy and I were talking about how supportive Mum and Dad had been over the last few months and we decided we should surprise them with some flowers out of the blue.  By coincidence it happened to be Valentines Day when I ordered them.  We said on the message "Thanks for being the best parents on the planet"  And they are. 

Dad would do anything for anyone, And he DID. 

When I was in trouble he and Mum flew half way round the world to Spain to help me move house.  He came back to Australia alone, leaving Mum with me for a total of 9 weeks. 

He spent Christmas and New Year alone, looked after the house, carried out his duties as treasurer at the Bridge Club, and single-handedly entertained friends from England.  If he was lonely or found it hard, he never told me about it.  In fact he used to be rather proud about how well he'd managed everything.  

Dad was never a man of many words, he expressed his love through his actions.  He never came to my house without a car full of tools and a chain saw for chopping logs.  If I couldn't find a job for him to do, you could feel the disappointment.  He always sent me home with a bag of sawdust to mulch the garden. 

Andy got the woodworking bug from Dad, but I got the gardening bug.  When we were children he grew almost all our fruit and veg, and we would be sent down the garden at dinner time to pick carrots, peas, potatoes, gooseberries.  You name it, he grew it. 

I have retained that love of always having at least something from the garden on my plate.  I loved being able to repay him by cooking nice things from my garden. 

The other trait I picked up from Dad was an obsession for recycling, cleaning and rescuing things.  With me it manifested in rummaging round garage sales, auctions and charity shops. 

Dad used to love picking through the junk I carried home with me, and helping to restore things to their former glory.  The most recent find was about 20 wooden boxes I picked up at an auction.  He loved those and immediately cleaned up several which we gave away at Christmas.

Perhaps one of the most important things we shared was a love of music.  As you know we are quite a musical family.  Dad came to as many of my concerts as he possibly could when I used to sing in Leeds and London, but it was jazz that really set his feet tapping, so we'll listen to some of his favourites as we leave today.  

You could always tell when Dad was moved by something though, and it was usually when he was particularly proud.  Jamie playing the pink panther, or Monica doing a dance or gymnastics display. 

He would well up if we managed to find a particularly appropriate birthday or Christmas present, like the large wooden tail of a whale I found in a junk shop.  He and mum loved watching the whales from their balcony and they always seemed to manage to turn up on his birthday on 21st June. 

Today he would certainly have shed a few tears to see how many of his family and friends have turned up to celebrate his wonderful life.  He would also have been very surprised, as he was a very humble man, and we are incredibly blessed to have had him as our Dad, husband, grandad and friend.  

We didn't always see eye to eye on everything of course.  When I was in my late teens, early twenties and thought I knew everything we had some real run-ins.  He worked for a pharmaceutical company and I decided that alternative medicine was the way to go.  That caused some real humdingers! 

But in later years, he started using acupuncture, and I have come to appreciate the drug companies for increasing all our life expectancies so dramatically over the last 100 years or so.

Of course, he wasn't 100% good humoured.  Like anyone he had his little ways.  He had a short fuse, hated inefficiency, bureaucracy and hypocrisy.  He was a real perfectionist and everything had to be in its place.  The explosions you'd hear if something was put back in the wrong spot! 

We really ribbed him about his habit of counting cutlery and glasses, and such. After a party or something, you'd get "Why are there only 5 knives in this box?"  - "Oh, Dad are you counting cutlery again?", we'd say.  Of course it was always just in the dishwasher or somewhere.  But he took our leg pulling in good humour. 

The other thing he wasn't all that good at was finding things.  But I think that's fairly normal for men isn't it?  He was famous for looking in the fridge and being unable to see past the first layer at the front.  Its called a "man look" in our house. 

When Tanya, our celebrant today, came round to plan this celebration, she said, Gosh, you really live in heaven amongst the trees. 

Dad was so proud of his home and so happy in life that she had hit the nail on the head. His paradise was here on earth with his family.  The piece I've chosen to play as we have a quiet think about him to end this ceremony is one that is very special to me.  It's the final movement of the Faure Requiem - 'In Paradisum'. 

I sang on this recording with the Academy of St Martin in the Fields, so I chose it so I could say I sang for him, as it was probably the only way I was going to manage that today!  Mum and Dad came along to a concert in London when I sang in this work too, it was unusual as it had been set for a ballet performed by the Royal Ballet at Covent Garden.  The choir was in the pit with the orchestra.  Because I was on the end of the row of sopranos at the edge, I could just see what was going on above me on the stage.  It was the most beautiful ballet, and I'll always have an image of the men holding women aloft in their hands and slowly spinning as the we sang the 'In Paradisum'. 

I think its one of the most beautiful pieces of all time, and tended to have me in tears even before we lost Dad.  I had to pull over on the motorway and have a good cry once when I was listening to this, but they were tears of happiness at all the wonderful opportunities I'd had in life.

Strangely, Dad put on a CD at Christmas with this very movement on it, along with some of my other favourites.  I was so thrilled and did my usual trick of singing along and drowning it out. 

Dad sat and had his coffee and listened to it with me. So I have sung it just for him very recently. Little did I realise what significance that would soon have.

He'll remain in Paradise in our hearts and minds.  

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Freedom of speech is protected. We can still shame the neo-Nazis marching in Nashville.

As hateful rhetoric continues to fuel real world consequences, such as the neo-nazi groups that marched in downtown nashville multiple times, communities must work to circumvent hate..

Elena Wilson is a summer intern on The Tennessean's opinion and engagement journalism team. She is a rising senior and journalism major at University of Missouri.

For two weeks in a row, a neo-Nazi group shamelessly marched down Broadway .

On Sunday, July 14, the group wore shirts that read "Pro-White" and "Whites Against Replacement," while carrying swastika flags and harassing pedestrians downtown. The previous weekend, another neo-Nazi group also proudly labeled themselves as white supremacists while touting similar rhetoric.

This is the third time these groups have taken to the streets of Nashville just this year. In February , about a dozen people carrying swastika flags marched downtown. The action was condemned by members of various faiths, and both Democrats and Republicans.

Bigots like the members of these groups have gotten far too comfortable in recent years. It has now become commonplace among conservative media outlets, politicians and on social media with one’s real face and name displayed to be unapologetically hateful. Their words do not die on the TV or phone screen, rather, it empowers others to enact real, tangible harm.

Several mass shooters, such as the perpetrators of the Buffalo and Mother Emanuel Church shootings, have been motivated by their hatred for people of color, religious groups, the LGBTQ+ community and so on. Harmful rhetoric about the LGBTQ+ community has fueled 21 anti-equality laws and counting in Tennessee since 2015, according to the Human Rights Campaign.

In June, the Tennessee Elections Division sent intimidating letters to recently naturalized citizens asking them for proof of citizenship ahead of the Aug. 1 primary election, stating that “illegal voting is a felony.” This is no doubt in part due to a rise in anti-immigration and anti-Latino sentiment. Right here in Nashville, the recently unveiled rainbow crosswalk was vandalized , again likely due to anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric.

On the national level, hate groups, like the Patriot Front, are on the rise. An annual report from the Southern Poverty Law Center found that in 2023 there was a 33% increase in active white nationalist and anti-LGBTQ+ groups across the country. In Tennessee, the SPLC identified 22 hate groups, 15 anti-government groups and one militia, according to previous Tennessean reporting .

The sad truth is, the neo-Nazi groups that continue to make their (unwanted) appearances operated within their First Amendment rights. A common misconception is that the First Amendment protects against hate speech. It does not.

The First Amendment does not prevent hate speech

The First Amendment restricts Congress from hindering “the freedom of speech, or of the press; or of the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

This puts no restrictions on hate speech and the U.S. Supreme Court has upheld the people's right to make inflammatory remarks and even Nazis' rights to march in the streets, according to the Free Speech Center at Middle Tennessee State University.

This is why although Mayor O’Connell sent the police to the scene of the neo-Nazi march on July 6, as it remained “non-violent,” they were powerless to stop it.

You may be surprised to learn that the United States does not have a legal definition of hate speech at the federal level, but the American Library Association defines it as "any form of expression through which speakers intend to vilify, humiliate, or incite hatred against a group or a class of persons on the basis of race, religion, skin color sexual identity, gender identity, ethnicity, disability, or national origin."

When communication of this nature is of public concern and does not target an individual it is protected by the First Amendment. We saw this in the 2010 case against the Westboro Baptist Church , wherein the Supreme Court sided with the church after they picketed outside of a veteran's funeral with signs that read "Thank God for Dead Soldiers" and "F*gs Doom Nations." This is a prime example of how what is legal is not always just.

We need to bring back shame to stop the haters in their tracks

So what do we do when the highest document in the land will not prevent harmful rhetoric? We bring back public shame. We create an environment where bigots no longer feel comfortable being out in the open. We ostracize those who spew hatred from their communities and successfully strip them of employment and educational opportunities.

Take for example the TikToker who thanked Black people for their role as “puppets” in catapulting her to conservative stardom after she used the N-word in a video. How did we get to a point where your career opportunities can open up after saying a slur on social media? We must stop rewarding these bad actors for their wrong-doings.

If white supremacists like the ones that have accosted Nashvillians over the past two weeks felt they would face real consequences for their actions it would not have happened. We must come together to collectively circumvent this dangerous rise in hate. 

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5 Sample Opening Remarks for a Funeral or Memorial

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Published 10/27/2020

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Public speaking is a challenge for many people. It can be nerve-racking to stand in front of a group of people and give a speech. You may find it even more challenging in a situation where heightened emotion is involved. One example of this is the opening remarks for a funeral. 

Sitting down to write out what you want to say is the first step, but even that may feel overwhelming. If you’re grieving, your creativity may feel like it has run dry. 

Sometimes the hardest part is just getting started. Here we’ll share some tips on writing opening remarks for a funeral service. We’ll also provide some examples of ways people have opened funeral speeches. 

Virtual funeral tip: If you're speaking at a virtual funeral using a service like GatheringUs , make sure you know how much time you'll have to speak. If you're hosting the funeral, you can work with GatheringUs to create a detailed itinerary that you'll follow on the day.

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Tips for writing opening remarks for a funeral.

• Sample Opening Remarks for a Funeral Service

Before we look at some examples of opening remarks, let’s break down some tips for writing them.

1. Keep it brief

There are many speaking roles available at funerals. Friends and family members may be asked to give readings of meaningful poems or religious texts. And at many funerals, someone will deliver a eulogy that’s usually between three and five minutes long.

Your opening remarks don’t have to be that long. You should be able to say what you need to say in just a minute or two. 

2. Set the tone

There are many different kinds of funerals. Some are religious, and some are secular. Some have a more somber tone, while others take on a more celebratory bent. There are typically clues to this in the funeral announcement.

For example, generally, people know ahead of time if they’re going to a   celebration of life service as opposed to a more traditional funeral. 

If you’re making opening remarks, make sure they fit in with the overall tone of the service. If the funeral is meant to be a lighthearted celebration, you can infuse your remarks with a little humor. If it’s a serious service honoring a distinguished person, your remarks should be more formal. 

3. Make everyone feel welcome

Funeral opening remarks are almost akin to a   funeral thank you speech . You want to make sure everyone feels as though they have been warmly welcomed.

One way to do that is to express your gratitude to people for coming. Be open and sincere about what their presence means for you. This will make them feel less like an audience and more like they’re part of a meaningful occasion.   

4. Talk about the deceased

If a eulogy is on the schedule for later in the ceremony, you shouldn’t give much biographical background on the deceased, as it might end up being repeated later. But you should speak briefly about the deceased, as they are the person who has brought everyone together. You can refer to them by name, and you can also mention your relationship with them for anyone who doesn’t know.

If you’re including a quote to get started, make sure it’s something you think they would have connected with. That’s an easy way to make your remarks feel more personalized.

5. Get feedback

Since you’re setting the tone for the rest of the service, it’s a good idea to get some feedback on your remarks once you’ve written them .

Work with the person planning the funeral, or with someone who is helping them with logistics. This will ensure that everyone is on the same page.

6. Practice

Public speaking can be anxiety-inducing even for professionals. It can be even more challenging when you’re experiencing profound emotions like grief. Practice your remarks until you feel comfortable delivering them. Repetition like this can help you feel more confident no matter how sad or scared you might feel. 

If you’re speaking at a funeral, chances are you’ve looked up specific resources, like how to write a eulogy . But you may have had a harder time finding a comprehensive guide on writing opening remarks. 

Here are some examples of funeral service opening remarks to help you craft your own.

Sample remarks for a religious funeral

Thessalonians 4:13 reads, “Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.”

Anyone who knew my mother quickly learned that she was a woman of deep and abiding faith. Though she had been ill for some time she was not sad, nor did she fear death. In the weeks before she passed away, we talked a lot about what was waiting for her after she left the earthly plane. 

She told me that she knew people would be sad, and that was okay. But she hoped that our grief would be tempered by remembering that she has gone to a better place. That was my mother in a nutshell. 

She was always comforting others, even when it probably should have been the other way around. Thank you all for joining our family today to remember such a special and selfless individual.

Sample remarks for a non-religious funeral

Looking around the room today I see many familiar faces, as well as some new ones. This isn’t surprising to me. My sister Marian has always been a gregarious and outgoing person. 

She never met a stranger: everyone was always immediately a potential new friend. It made things interesting. 

Once we were on vacation in a city we’d never been to, and we still managed to run into someone Marian knew. She deeply cared about people, and it warms my heart to see that so many of the people she loved are here. 

Our family looks forward to connecting with you after the service. Thank you all for supporting us through such a difficult loss.

Sample remarks for someone who died suddenly

Maya Angelou once wrote, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” 

My cousin Rebecca was one of those people who always made people feel loved and welcomed. She was always willing to step up and help people in need. She made everyone feel not just good, but also important or valued.

Looking out at everyone here today, I see so many people Rebecca loved. And I realize that even in death, she is looking out for us. The people she has supported are here to support us, and that’s a beautiful feeling.  

Sample remarks for someone who died after a long illness

Greetings, and thank you all for coming today. We are here today to honor a very special person: my dad. As most of you know, my dad has been ill for several years. But no matter how much time we had to prepare for this day, we still don’t feel ready to say goodbye.

We appreciate how many of you have come to support us during this difficult time. As per Dad’s request, today will not be a traditional funeral. Instead, we will have a celebration of life in honor of the joy he brought to so many people.

Sample remarks for a child

A.A. Milne wrote, “If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together, keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever.” 

In just his few short years on this planet, Remy had such a major impact on everyone whose paths he crossed. We appreciate more than we can say that you’ve come to help his family through this difficult time. 

Today, we gather together to remember Remy and the light he brought into our lives. Like me, I know you all will continue keeping him in your hearts today and always.

Set the Tone for a Funeral with Your Opening Remarks

For some people, speaking in public will never be easy. And delivering even a brief speech when you’re in mourning can be extremely challenging. But even if you aren’t comfortable speaking in public, it’s important to honor our loved ones. Speaking about what they meant to their surviving friends and family is a powerful gesture.

The right words can even help bring closure or comfort to grieving loved ones. If you’ve been asked to speak at a funeral, remember that everyone is in the same boat as you are. They’re also in mourning. Even if your speech doesn’t go perfectly, people won’t mind. As long as you speak from the heart, they’ll connect with you. 

If you need more help with planning a funeral or memorial service, read our guides on funeral flowers for grandchildren and what shoes to wear to a funeral . 

Post-planning tip: If you are the executor for a deceased loved one, the funeral isn't the only thing you have to handle. We have a post-loss checklist  that will help you ensure that your loved one's family, estate , and other affairs are taken care of.

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Losing a work colleague can be a challenging experience for any professional. It's not just the emptiness left behind due to their absence in the workplace, but also the loss of their unique contributions to the team, their friendship, and their energy. Amidst this grief, it's crucial to find the right words to celebrate their life and honour the contributions they made in their professional life. Writing a funeral speech for a work colleague may not be an easy task, but it's an essential way to pay tribute to their memory and to help the grieving process among the team members.

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Start your speech by introducing yourself, your role within the company, and your relationship with the deceased. Express how honoured you feel to have the opportunity to share their memory with everyone present.

Talk about how long the deceased had been working at the company and the various positions they held. Highlight their key accomplishments and their contributions to the team.

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Work colleagues possess both professional skills and distinctive personal traits. Talk about the qualities that made the deceased unique to their work environment. Were they always optimistic, a great problem solver, or known for their exceptional kindness? Try to pinpoint their distinguishing characteristics and mention how they affected others.

Illustrate your speech with specific examples from the deceased's work life. These can be anecdotes that reflect their personality, achievements or even funny moments that bring a smile to the audience. Choose stories that highlight the person's spirit and contributions in the workplace.

Express your own feelings of grief and empathy for the family. Encourage everyone present to be supportive of the deceased's loved ones in these trying times. Acknowledge the pain that everyone is experiencing and remind them that they're not alone.

Conclude the speech by expressing gratitude for the time spent working alongside the departed colleague. Offer some hopeful words, focusing on the great memories shared and the positive impact that the deceased had on the lives of their co-workers.

Distinguished guests, esteemed colleagues, and friends,

Today, we gather not just as coworkers but as a community united in grief and remembrance, to pay tribute to a person who was an integral part of our professional family and a cherished friend, [Colleague's Name]. As I stand before you, I am filled with a profound sense of loss, but also with a deep appreciation for the time we were privileged to share with [him/her]. In this speech, I hope to honor [his/her] memory, celebrate [his/her] life, and share with you the impact [he/she] had on us all.

[Colleague's Name] joined our team on [Date of Joining], and from that first day, [he/she] brought with [him/her] a breath of fresh air. [His/Her] passion for [mention their professional role or expertise] was evident in everything [he/she] did. [He/She] wasn’t just doing a job; [he/she] was fulfilling a calling, a purpose that drove [him/her] to excel and to inspire those around [him/her].

I remember a particular instance [share a specific memory or story that highlights the colleague’s professional qualities or contributions]. This moment speaks volumes about [Colleague's Name]'s character – [his/her] dedication, [his/her] integrity, and [his/her] unwavering commitment to excellence. [He/She] was not just our colleague; [he/she] was our mentor, our motivator, and our benchmark.

Beyond [his/her] professional prowess, [Colleague's Name] was known for [his/her] [positive personal quality, e.g., 'kindness', 'sense of humor', 'compassion']. [He/She] had an innate ability to connect with people, to understand their needs, and to extend a helping hand. [His/Her] office was not just a workspace; it was a sanctuary for many of us, a place where we were always welcomed with a warm smile and an open heart.

One of the most admirable aspects of [Colleague's Name] was [his/her] ability to bring out the best in others. [He/She] believed in teamwork, in the power of collaboration, and in the strength of unity. [He/She] was the glue that held our team together, the one who could turn challenges into opportunities and differences into synergies.

[Colleague's Name] also had a remarkable sense of humor, a quality that made the stresses of our daily work seem a little lighter. [He/She] could defuse tension with a witty remark, and [his/her] laughter was often the best remedy for a long, hard day. [Share a light-hearted anecdote that demonstrates their humor]. In these moments of laughter and joy, [he/she] showed us the importance of not taking life too seriously.

In [his/her] personal life, [Colleague's Name] was a [role in the family, e.g., 'devoted parent', 'caring sibling']. [He/She] cherished [his/her] family above all else and provided them with endless love and support. [His/Her] [children/spouse/siblings/parents], [Names, if applicable], were the center of [his/her] universe, and [he/she] reveled in every moment spent with them.

Despite the many roles [he/she] played, [Colleague's Name] was also deeply committed to [a cause or hobby]. [His/Her] involvement in [specific activities or causes] was not just a pastime; it was a testament to [his/her] belief in [a specific value or mission].

The sudden loss of [Colleague's Name] is a stark reminder of the fragility of life. It challenges us to find meaning in the midst of our grief and to seek comfort in the memories we shared. [His/Her] death leaves a void that cannot be filled, yet [his/her] life leaves a legacy that cannot be forgotten.

In [his/her] [age, e.g., 'thirty years'], [Colleague's Name] lived more fully than many who are granted much longer on this earth. [His/Her] impact was profound, and [his/her] spirit, indomitable. Though [his/her] time with us was cut short, the breadth of [his/her] influence and the depth of [his/her] presence were immense.

Esteemed family, friends, and colleagues,

Today, we gather to honor and remember my mother, [Mother's Name], whose life was a beautiful blend of compassion, dedication, and love. As her daughter, it is with a heavy heart yet a deep sense of pride that I stand before you to pay tribute to a woman who was not only an exceptional nurse but also an extraordinary mother.

Born on [Date of Birth] in [Place of Birth], my mother's early life was marked by a nurturing spirit and a desire to help others. This inherent compassion led her to a career in nursing, a profession where she excelled not just in skill, but in empathy and kindness. Her journey in nursing began at [Name of Nursing School or University], where she quickly distinguished herself through her commitment and her unwavering care for her patients.

Throughout her career, [Mother's Name] touched countless lives through her work in [mention specific areas of nursing she worked in, such as pediatrics, emergency care, or a specific hospital or clinic]. She had a remarkable ability to connect with her patients, offering not just medical care but also comfort and understanding. Her colleagues often spoke of her as an inspiration, a nurse who personified the very essence of the profession.

I remember [share a specific story or memory that highlights your mother's dedication to nursing]. This moment encapsulates her selfless nature and her profound impact on those she cared for. Her dedication to her profession was a beacon of hope and healing to many.

At home, [Mother's Name] brought the same level of care and love she showed to her patients. She was the heart of our family, providing not only physical care but emotional support. Her strength, resilience, and unconditional love were the pillars upon which our family was built. She taught us the importance of compassion, the value of hard work, and the joy found in caring for others.

Balancing a demanding career with motherhood was no small feat, yet she did so with grace and poise. She was there for every important moment, every challenge, and every achievement, guiding us with her wisdom and her gentle yet firm hand. [Share a personal anecdote or memory that reflects this balance and her role as a mother].

One of the most striking qualities of my mother was her ability to remain positive and uplifted, even in the face of adversity. She faced challenges with courage and always managed to find a reason to smile. Her optimistic outlook and her ability to find joy in every situation were infectious and brought light to our lives.

As we remember [Mother's Name] today, we not only reflect on her as a nurse and a mother but as a beacon of compassion and humanity. Her legacy is not just in the lives she healed or the family she raised, but in the example she set for each of us – an example of kindness, dedication, and love.

In her final days, [Mother's Name] demonstrated the same dignity and strength that she lived her life. She faced her illness with courage, and even in her weakest moments, she was concerned about the welfare of others. This selflessness was the hallmark of her life and character.

Today, as we bid farewell to my beloved mother, I am reminded of [a quote, poem, or saying that was significant to your mother or reflects her life]. These words beautifully capture the essence of her spirit – a spirit characterized by unending compassion and a deep-seated desire to make the world a better place.

[Mother's Name], your journey with us may have ended, but your spirit, your love, and your legacy will continue to inspire and guide us. You were a healer in every sense of the word, and your memory will forever be etched in our hearts.

As we say our final goodbye, we do so with gratitude for the love you shared, the lives you touched, and the incredible example you set for us all. Rest in peace, dear mother. You will always be remembered, cherished, and deeply missed.

Thank you, [Mother's Name], for everything. Your legacy of love and compassion will live on through us.

Here's a realistic example of a funeral speech for a work colleague:

Good morning, my name is John Doe, and I have the honour of serving as the Regional Manager at ABC Corporation. Today, we gather to celebrate the life and memory of our dear friend and colleague, Jane Smith. Jane was not only a valued member of our team but was also a caring and supportive friend to many of us.

Jane joined ABC Corporation 15 years ago and quickly moved up within the organization due to her dedication and professionalism. She played a crucial role in winning key projects for the company, and her positive energy and enthusiasm were contagious.

In the workplace, Jane was known for her incredible problem-solving abilities and her unwavering kindness. Her infectious laugh and genuine presence will be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure of working with her.

I'll never forget the time when Jane took it upon herself to organize an elaborate surprise birthday party for our boss. She somehow managed to keep it a secret from everyone, including the birthday person, until the last possible moment. This thoughtful gesture is just one example of her ability to go above and beyond for those around her.

On behalf of our entire team, I would like to express our deepest condolences to Jane's family during this incredibly difficult time. The loss of Jane leaves a void in our hearts, but we will never forget the impact she had on our lives.

As we say goodbye to our beloved colleague, let us be grateful for the time we had together and let her memory live on in the friendships and connections we forge at work.

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What is a Funeral Speech for a Work Colleague?

A funeral speech for a work colleague is a tribute given at their funeral or memorial service, focusing on their contributions at work and the personal connections shared with them.

How Do I Start Writing a Funeral Speech for a Colleague?

Begin by reflecting on your relationship with the colleague, their role and contributions at work, and any memorable interactions or experiences shared with them.

What Key Elements Should Be Included in a Funeral Speech for a Colleague?

Include anecdotes about their professional life, their personality at work, the impact they had on the team, and any shared experiences that were meaningful.

How Long Should a Funeral Speech for a Colleague Be?

A funeral speech for a colleague should typically last around 3-5 minutes, long enough to express meaningful sentiments while being considerate of the audience's time.

Can I Share a Personal Story About My Colleague?

Yes, sharing personal stories that reflect their character and your relationship with them can add depth and personal touch to the speech.

Is It Appropriate to Mention Their Professional Achievements?

Mentioning their professional achievements is appropriate and can highlight their dedication, skills, and contributions to the workplace.

How Can I Balance Personal Feelings with Professional Tone?

Balance personal feelings by sharing heartfelt stories while maintaining a professional tone that respects the work environment and relationship.

How Do I Address the Loss of My Colleague to the Audience?

Address the loss by acknowledging the collective grief of the team and the valuable presence the colleague had in the workplace.

Can I Include Humor in the Funeral Speech?

If it’s reflective of your colleague's personality and appropriate for the setting, including light humor can be a fitting way to remember them.

How Should I Conclude the Funeral Speech?

Conclude with a final expression of gratitude or farewell, a reflection on what your colleague meant to you and the team, or a hope for their legacy to continue.

Should I Speak About the Impact of Their Passing on the Team?

Discussing the impact of their passing on the team can be appropriate, as it acknowledges the void they leave and the significance of their role.

Is It Okay to Share How My Colleague Influenced My Work?

Sharing how they influenced your work can be a meaningful tribute to the professional guidance or inspiration they provided.

How Do I Handle My Emotions While Delivering the Speech?

Allow yourself to express emotions but try to maintain composure. If you become overwhelmed, it's okay to pause for a moment.

Can I Mention Our Shared Projects or Achievements?

Mentioning shared projects or achievements can be a good way to highlight collaborative efforts and the successes you achieved together.

What Tone is Suitable for a Funeral Speech for a Colleague?

A respectful, sincere, and considerate tone is suitable, acknowledging the professional relationship while also expressing personal sentiments.

How Do I Make the Speech Relatable to Other Colleagues?

Focus on experiences or qualities of your colleague that others can relate to, creating a sense of shared remembrance.

Can I Use a Quote or Saying That Reflects My Colleague’s Work Ethic?

Including a relevant quote or saying can add depth to your speech, especially if it resonates with your colleague's approach to work or life.

Should I Address My Colleague’s Family in the Speech?

If appropriate, acknowledging the family, expressing condolences, and sharing how much the colleague was valued at work can be meaningful.

What Should I Avoid Saying in the Funeral Speech?

Avoid controversial topics, personal grievances, or any humor that could be misinterpreted in the solemnity of the occasion.

Can I Encourage Others to Share Their Memories of the Colleague?

Encouraging others to share their memories can be a thoughtful way to collectively honor and remember the colleague’s life and contributions.

How Do I Prepare for Delivering the Funeral Speech?

Prepare by writing down your thoughts, practicing the speech, and considering the shared experiences and sentiments you wish to convey.

In conclusion, writing a funeral speech for a work colleague is a great honour and responsibility. By following these steps and using the realistic example provided, you'll be able to create a heartfelt and moving tribute.

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Department Press Briefing – July 24, 2024

Matthew Miller, Department Spokesperson

July 24, 2024

Article Index

• ISRAEL/PALESTINIAN TERRITORIES
• SECRETARY’S TRAVEL/INDO-PACIFIC REGION
• RUSSIA/NORTH KOREA
• CHINA/UKRAINE/RUSSIA
• PAKISTAN/DEPARTMENT

1:17 p.m. EDT

MR MILLER: Hey, don’t let me interrupt the fun. It seems like a good conversation is going on. (Laughter.)

Let me start with a couple things at the top. Secretary Blinken spoke earlier today with Qatari Prime Minister and Minister of Foreign Affairs Mohammed bin Abdulrahman Al Thani to discuss the latest developments in ongoing negotiations to reach a ceasefire deal to the war in Gaza. The Secretary and prime minister discussed the remaining issues on the table and practical solutions to bridge the differences between the parties. The Secretary reiterated that the U.S. continues to see a deal as critical to bringing the hostages home and alleviating the suffering of the Palestinian people, and that we stand ready to work to ensure that the deal turns into an end to the war and lasting peace and stability for the region.

And then on a scheduling note, the Secretary will now depart tomorrow for Asia, instead of tonight as we had originally planned, so he can attend the meeting between the President and Prime Minister Netanyahu tomorrow here in Washington. We have – to accommodate that – reordered the schedule a little bit. He’s now going to travel to Laos first and then on to Vietnam, but otherwise the trip will follow the same schedule that we previously announced.

And with that, happy to take questions. Said.

QUESTION: Could you explain when there’s going to a meeting with the prime minister?

MR MILLER: The – between the President and the prime minister?

QUESTION: No, no. We know the President and the prime minister is going to meet on Thursday.

MR MILLER: Tomorrow. Yeah.

QUESTION: But there is going to be a meeting with the Secretary of State?

MR MILLER: The Secretary is going to attend the meeting —

QUESTION: Attend the same meeting, okay.

MR MILLER: Attend the meeting between the President and prime minister.

QUESTION: Not a separate meeting.

MR MILLER: Not a separate meeting. No. No.

QUESTION: Okay. Let me —

MR MILLER: He had always planned to attend that meeting, but earlier —

QUESTION: Right.

MR MILLER: That meeting was previously scheduled for earlier in the week. Then as you know the President had COVID, had some change of schedule, so now it’s happening tomorrow.

QUESTION: All right. Let me start with where you began at the very top on – that he spoke with the Qatari foreign minister and so on. So there is still – the outlook or there is still – there are signs that a bit hopeful, right, that we might have something or a deal arrived at maybe in the next few days? Because we know come next month, the Knesset is going to go on holiday. We will enter the election seasons here and so on. So give us your assessment of how the talks are going and what might be the glitches. What are the obstacles (inaudible) —

MR MILLER: So first of all, I’m not going to put a timetable on it – table on it.

MR MILLER: Which I know you didn’t ask for, but you referred to a timetable in the premise so I wanted to —

QUESTION: Right, I don’t —

MR MILLER: I wanted to say that. I think that we remain optimistic but at the same time realistic, which is something you’ve heard me say before. It is important that we have reached a framework agreement and that the two parties – Israel and Hamas – have agreed to the framework that the President outlined publicly some six, seven weeks ago. That was a critical step and a critical thing to get agreed, but of course that’s not a full agreement. There are still a number of issues that we need to work through, and we are working through those issues. Obviously, the negotiators themselves are discussing them. The Secretary discussed a number of them today with the prime minister of Qatar, who of course is one of the prime mediators of the deal. And we continue to work through and try to make progress on all of those issues. We want to see a ceasefire as soon as possible because it is the best way to alleviate the suffering of the Palestinian people, to get the hostages home, and ultimately bring an end to this war.

QUESTION: So I mean, in a couple – in fact in less than an hour, the prime minister will be speaking before Congress, one of the most important places on earth. Do you think that he can – I mean, in your assessment, will he take such an opportunity to say, okay, I am announcing that we agree to these terms and so on, and whatever caveats he might have?

MR MILLER: I do not know what the prime minister will say in his speech.

QUESTION: All right. Okay. All right. So in the meantime, Matt, the UN says that 150,000 Palestinians flee the new assault on Khan Younis. I mean, this is – it’s almost like the Twilight Zone. We see these people moving from place to place and so on. I don’t – it’s somewhat apocalyptic, as a matter of fact. So how long should this go on? I mean, suppose we don’t arrive at a deal. What is the vision beyond a deal, if there is no deal?

MR MILLER: We don’t want to see the horrific suffering that’s happening in Gaza go on another single day.

MR MILLER: We want a ceasefire now. We want it as soon as possible. We want to see one reached between the two parties and that’s why we have been pushing for that for some time, and not just pushing but doing the hard work of negotiating; and when roadblocks and obstacles come up, trying to develop practical ways to overcome those obstacles and present solutions to the two parties to meet Israel’s legitimate security needs and also ensure that Palestinian civilians are protected and they get the food and water and care that they need.

When you look at the additional evacuations that have happened over the past week or so, it’s heartbreaking to think of what those families are having to go through: to see children picking up and having to move for maybe the second time, maybe the third, fourth, fifth time; and to move from one place that hasn’t been safe to other places that might not be safe. The suffering is unspeakable, what people in Gaza have been through. And that is why we continue to push so hard to get a ceasefire.

QUESTION: Mm-hmm. I know this issue has been raised time and again on the issue of UNRWA, but the Knesset advanced legislation that would designate UNRWA as a terrorist organization. Now, UNRWA has been responsible for Palestinian refugees for a very long time, since 1950 or ’49. So do you envision, like, a – an alternative to UNRWA? How will – how will schools be run? How will clinics be run and so on?

MR MILLER: Let me say a few things about this. First, UNRWA is not a terrorist organization, and we urge the Israeli Government and the Knesset to halt the movement of this legislation. We have been clear about the important role that UNRWA plays in delivering humanitarian assistance and other critical assistance to Palestinians in Gaza – and throughout the region, not just in Gaza. The – I think you know the United States provides the majority of its funding for – a majority of the funding for humanitarian efforts in Gaza through the UN. We expect to continue to do so. As you know, we are currently barred by statute from providing assistance through UNRWA, but that doesn’t mean we don’t support the work that they do and we don’t support other ways to get humanitarian assistance.

So I would say – and you’ve heard us say this before – that the attacks that the Israeli Government has leveled on UNRWA are incredibly unhelpful. They do nothing to advance the cause of getting humanitarian assistance to civilians in Gaza. So we’re going to continue to support the work that UNRWA does in the region, while also recognizing the need for reform – something that you have heard UNRWA and the UN also speak to.

QUESTION: Thank you. One last thing, if you could comment on – there’s a – about UAE hosting a secret meeting with Israel and the U.S. to – for the day after. Could you —

MR MILLER: Said, I think you were sitting right there when I commented on this yesterday. (Laughter.)

QUESTION: Yes, I know, but – I understand, but is there anything —

MR MILLER: Yeah. No, there’s – there’s nothing I have that I would add in – that is – goes further than what I said yesterday, which is yes, there was a meeting last week that Tom Sullivan, the counselor to the State Department, attended in the UAE. We were discussing a number of – they were discussing a number of the measures that we want to have in place to implement the various provisions of a ceasefire, and to set the conditions for the day after the conflict. And it’s part of a number of meetings that we have held and discussions that we’ve held that the Secretary kicked off in January and that the Secretary and others in the department have been leading for the past several months – primarily focused on security, governance, reconstruction. But of course as to the particulars of what was discussed, I will – we will keep that private, because it’s obviously quite delicate.

QUESTION: Would you – would you encourage, like, a UAE or an Arab peacekeeping force?

MR MILLER: So I’m not going to get into publicly exactly the discussions that we are having with our partners about how to best establish security on the ground in Gaza. Obviously, security is critical. You’ve heard the Secretary speak to this a number of times. In the absence of security on the ground in Gaza, you will see the reemergence of Hamas. And so it is critical – unless you’re going to have IDF occupation, which is something that we reject, something the international community objects – rejects, and something Israel says it doesn’t want to do. So it’s critical to develop a security solution for Gaza. We’re working with our partners in the region. We have made progress on it, but I don’t want to speak to the details of that publicly.

QUESTION: Thank you.

MR MILLER: Yeah, Simon.

QUESTION: Just a couple of things to follow up on from Said’s questions. On UNRWA, didn’t you announce a ban of – before this congressional action, you announced that the administration would no longer be funding UNRWA, and as far as I know never lifted that —

MR MILLER: We announced a suspension of funding to UNRWA pending the investigation that UNRWA launched.

QUESTION: Yeah.

MR MILLER: That investigation is still going. But in the interim, before the time that investigation was finished, Congress enacted a ban.

QUESTION: So – but your pausing of aid basically precipitated this – like, it seemed to precipitate a situation where everybody pulled funding from UNRWA, and now you’re sort of criticizing other people for cutting off UNRWA, or criticizing the Israelis for cutting off UNRWA.

MR MILLER: No, the – that is –

QUESTION: But it feels like –

MR MILLER: That’s not – that is not what I criticized Israel for. I criticized Israel for – or I criticized the verbal attacks and threatening rhetoric and advancing legislation calling them a terrorist organization, which we do not agree with. Other – we’ve always made clear that other countries have to make their own decisions about funding, and we’ve seen other countries restore funding. We just simply don’t have the flexibility to make that decision because of the action that Congress took.

QUESTION: But the investigation and therefore the decision of this department on whether funding should go to UNRWA from the U.S. is still up in the air. Is there any expectation of when that will be taken?

MR MILLER: No, it is a – because it’s a – it’s a UN investigation, it’s not something that we are conducting, so it’s not something that we can put a timetable on. They’ve had two investigations ongoing; one of them finished, one has not.

But just to go back to the decision we made, we made a decision to suspend funding to UNRWA after there were allegations made about UNRWA employees having been involved in October 7th that UNRWA told us they found credible. And so when you had UNRWA telling us they found credible – we thought that was an appropriate step to do, to suspend funding, to fund humanitarian assistance through the – to the Palestinian people through other mechanisms while that investigation proceeded. That investigation is still ongoing.

Now, in the meantime, as I said, Congress came in and enacted this statutory restriction that bars us from funding UNRWA. But all the humanitarian assistance money that we would’ve provided to the – to Palestinians through UNRWA we are providing through other mechanisms, chiefly at the UN and then throughout – through other nongovernmental organizations.

QUESTION: Right. And also just on the question of the day-after talks that Said mentioned involving the UAE, some mention in the Washington Post reporting on that, of the U.S. playing a coordinating role with this international force that would be responsible for securing Gaza, would be invited in by the PA. These are obviously details I’m not sure if you’ll get into, but I wonder if you could sort of address the possibility of the U.S. playing that kind of coordinating role; and separately, whether U.S. security contractors could also be involved in them.

MR MILLER: I just don’t want to get into any of the details at all. I think it’s not appropriate at this time.

QUESTION: One more slightly separate thing. Just on the trip planning that you mentioned, I wonder now that you’re basically – the Secretary has decided to stay for an extra day to attend the Netanyahu meeting. I wonder what the message to ASEAN and to that region, Southeast Asia, is that you’re also – that means that – it was announced yesterday that you would be at – that he would be – or, sorry, earlier in the week, that he would be attending the funeral of the Vietnamese former leader. Now we’re not going to attend that funeral. The – it seems like the participation in ASEAN is much shorter than was previously planned. This is all happening because the prime minister of Israel has decided to come to the U.S.

How do you square that with sort of trying to tell Asian allies, partners in the region, in Southeast Asia – it is obviously a really important region – that the U.S. is sort of all-in on your region. But when a crisis happens in the Middle East, this is a meeting that’s run by the President – does the Secretary of State really need to be there?

MR MILLER: So I think our allies and partners in the Indo-Pacific understand a few things. Number one, that this is the Secretary’s 18th trip to the region. It was his first trip as Secretary, continues to be a major priority for us, and we show that not just by our words but by the amount of time he’s spent in the region. And as I said, it’s his 18th trip. I think they understand that he will be visiting all of the countries that we announced that he’s visiting. He will still travel to Laos, to Vietnam, to Japan, to Singapore, to the Philippines, to Mongolia. And I think that demonstrates our commitment, as do the investments that we’ve made in the region, as do the partnerships that we have announced in the region.

I think people understand that there was a meeting he had planned to attend, and the timing of the meeting got shifted due to something that’s – could not be foreseen – that’s the President getting COVID. And I think they understand that that happens. It happens to a number of foreign leaders, where there are unforeseen events at home that mandate a slight shift in the schedule. But we will still be there attending the meetings that we intended to and still traveling to Vietnam to pay our respects, not on the day of the funeral but the day after, to meet with senior government officials. And I think our allies and partners quite —

MR MILLER: I think certainly understand the importance we’ve placed on the region and understand that we have the ability to do more than one thing at a time.

QUESTION: So I think that obviously the Secretary’s travel has been to the region a lot. But the President did miss the ASEAN leaders summit last year. That will also be in November this year. Is there – did you have anything you can tell us on how the U.S. will be represented at that one? Obviously, the ministerial this week, but the leaders summit (inaudible).

MR MILLER: The summit? No, I can’t. I would let the White House speak to the President’s participation. Obviously, that’s still, I think, a couple of months away. But as I said, the overall presence of the U.S. in the region – and I think if you look at what we said at the outset of this administration how we planned to make a major investment of time, of resources, of energy and capacity, in the Indo-Pacific, we have borne that out through our actions the past three and a half years, and we intend to continue to do that for the next six months.

QUESTION: Thanks, Matt. We’ve been talking about UNRWA, and America has very – it doesn’t have anybody on the ground in Gaza. I just wondered if you had any comment about the rising cases of polio, a disease that’s virtually almost eradicated from the rest of the world, rising in Gaza, and also hepatitis A. Is there any – we’ve seen American doctors have gone in there to volunteer. We’ve obviously got lots of aid organizations. Is there anything else that the United States can do to assist with the reducing the risk of disease rising over the next few months?

MR MILLER: Yeah.

QUESTION: Feels like it’s hanging a lot on, like, waiting for the ceasefire deal, but —

MR MILLER: So obviously, a ceasefire deal would go a long way towards alleviating suffering because it would make it much easier to get humanitarian assistance in, get it moving around Gaza, make it much easier for people to move around Gaza free from the threat of harm. But we have not been waiting for a ceasefire deal to try to address the spread of infectious disease and to address the potential spread of infectious disease before we even saw these reports.

Our – our coordinator for Middle East humanitarian issues, Lise Grande, has been incredibly focused on this. She has worked to try and get disinfectant products and cleaning products and vaccinations, vaccination supplies into Gaza. There has been, as you might imagine, right, a decrease in vaccinations since October 7th. You imagine how hard it is when people are not in their homes and are not going to school, how hard it is to continue with vaccination programs. So we have been working to try to get more vaccines for polio and other diseases into Gaza as well as working on just basic sanitary supplies to try to deal with the very unsafe conditions that people are living in.

So there’s a lot of work that we have been doing with the UN, something that the Secretary discussed with Sigrid Kaag when they spoke two days ago. So no, we have not been waiting for a ceasefire. Obviously, a ceasefire helps alleviate – helps make easier all of the problems that are plaguing Gaza right now. But we have been working on addressing – on addressing the risks for potential disease for some time, even before we saw these reports.

QUESTION: And presumably those supplies are suffering from the same problems of not being able to move around inside Gaza?

MR MILLER: It – yeah, it – everything suffers from the – from the same kind of threats to lawlessness that make it very difficult to move convoys from Kerem Shalom into the – to places in southern Gaza or other – moving around northern Gaza.

QUESTION: And now with the pier being out of operation, is that – are air drops continuing at all with the U.S., or is that —

MR MILLER: I’m not aware of any, but I would defer to the Pentagon to speak to that.

Yeah, Janne.

QUESTION: Thank you, Matt. Two questions. American families victimized by Hamas filed a lawsuit in U.S. federal court demanding $1 billion in compensation from North Korea. The argument is that this is because the weapons used by Hamas were provided by North Korea. What is your assessment on that? Is there any reaction from North Korea on this?

MR MILLER: So as is – as is the case whenever I get asked about litigation matters, I’m going to defer to my colleagues at the Department of Justice to speak to that.

QUESTION: Thank you. And now another one: Following the Russian vice minister of defense visit to North Korea recently, Belarus foreign minister visited North Korea yesterday. They discussed military cooperation and arms trading. What effect do you think this will have on the war in Ukraine?

MR MILLER: So I don’t have an assessment with respect to this particular visit, but as you know, we’ve been incredibly concerned about deepening security cooperation between Russia and North Korea. And if we saw weapons flowing from North Korea to any other country or from any other country to North Korea, that’s something we would also be equally concerned about.

QUESTION: You also – China can mediate to peace talk between Russia and Ukraine because Wang Yi, Chinese foreign minister, invited (inaudible) Ukraine foreign ministers yesterday. So how do you see this?

MR MILLER: Yeah. So I saw the statement that the Chinese foreign ministry put out about those talks with Foreign Minister Kuleba, and I also saw the statement that the Ukrainian foreign ministry put out about it, which said that nothing has changed in their position, that they have always been ready for negotiations. They have always been ready for negotiations to reach a just and lasting peace, but that Vladimir Putin to date has shown no change to his war aims and has shown no real willingness for negotiation. So our take on this continues to be what it has been for some time, which is that when it comes to diplomacy, nothing about Ukraine, without Ukraine.

MR MILLER: Alex.

QUESTION: Thank you, Matt. Staying on topic, Russian drones reportedly fell on Romanian territory last night as they were – they say they were attacking Odesa. Romania had to fly F-16s in response. How much do you know about it, and what’s your response?

MR MILLER: So my understanding is that the Government of Romania is conducting an investigation into this matter. We have full confidence in that investigation into the explosion near their border with Ukraine, and we commend them for the professional and deliberate manner in which they are conducting it. We will continue to assess and share any new information as it becomes available to us.

QUESTION: So are you guys involved in the assessment process?

MR MILLER: No, it’s not an investigation being conducted by us. It’s an investigation being conducted by Romanian authorities. Obviously, it’s on their soil. If they asked us for any cooperation, of course we would be willing to do that, but it’s an investigation being carried out by them.

QUESTION: Thank you. Moving to Iran, yesterday marked 90 days since the MAHSA Act became the law of the land because we’re supposed to provide with a report, an unclassified report, determining those who were supposed to be sanctioned in Iranian leadership. As far as we know, there hasn’t been any determination. Is there any – an update, possibly?

MR MILLER: Let me take that back and get you an answer.

QUESTION: Yeah. On Georgia, we heard from the State Department officials yesterday on the Hill. They were talking about some measures that they are planning to take, but they also said that it remains – I’m quoting – it remains our hope that Georgian leadership will reconsider their actions, sentiment that I also heard from this podium a couple of weeks ago. We talk about same regime that is, like, galloping away from the European values. They are talk about even – they’re waiting you out, according to their latest statements, and they are talking about Trump administration would come in and everything will become bright for us. They are blacklisting Georgians fighting in Ukraine. What gives you hope that they are open to reconsidering their position?

MR MILLER: So if you’ve looked at the actions that we’ve taken, we have made clear that we are going to judge the Georgian Government based on their policies, and that our policies will depend on the actions that they take. And so you saw the Secretary announce a review of our relationship with Georgia. You saw him oppose initial restrictions, initial sanctions on officials in Georgia. That review with Georgia continues.

Now, we are always hopeful that any country that starts to backslide on a path towards – backslide on democratic measures or backslides on European-Atlantic integration, we’re always hopeful that they will change course, especially when you see the people of that country saying that they want to change course. But at the same time that we hope that they will make a change, we develop our policies around the very real contingency that they might not, and that’s what you’ve seen us doing.

QUESTION: And speaking of the actions that you have taken so far, is there any consideration in this building to shift the strategy in terms of naming the names that come with sanctions? The Georgian people saw that you did host their foreign minister here. You hosted their spy chief here, some police officers who actually were involved in their cracking down on opposition leaders. They were actually part of 1st of July event in Tbilisi. So maybe – is there any consideration to shift that policy to give a clear message?

MR MILLER: To naming names from the visa restrictions that we have imposed, for example? We’re – it’s not a question of strategy, it’s a question of law, and we are by law not allowed to name – to release the names of people on whom we’ve imposed visa restrictions.

QUESTION: You did name four prosecute – four prosecutors last year when they were —

MR MILLER: It depends on what you’re talking about. The recent restrictions that we have imposed have been visa restrictions, and under United States law we are not allowed to name those people on whom we impose those restrictions.

QUESTION: Is it fair for us to expect a second tranche soon?

MR MILLER: I don’t – as always, I don’t have any announcements about any measures before we impose them.

QUESTION: Didn’t you name an Israeli spy on visa restrictions?

MR MILLER: We did, and if you look back at the – I discussed this extensively the day that we announced that. It was because that individual was sanctioned under a different law. He was sanctioned under the law – under the State Department authorization – or I think it’s the State Department Appropriations Act, which allows us to name individuals. But when we sanction people, when we impose visa restrictions under the authority given to us under the Immigration and Nationality Act, we are required to keep those names confidential. So it depends. There are different – there are different – there are different sanctions authorities and different provisions of different law —

QUESTION: (Off-mike.)

MR MILLER: — and they give us different – we are – with respect to the visa restrictions contained in the Immigration and Nationality Act, which are the relevant ones here, we are barred from doing so.

QUESTION: Okay, I have one on Iran. CBS has reporting that yesterday there was a rare Principals Committee meeting at the White House with cabinet secretaries and President Biden, and that there seems to be concern about possible actions that Iran or proxies could take while there’s a little bit of transitional – well, not a transitional phase but, like, whilst there’s a lot going on domestically in the U.S. And then you’ve also got an Iranian president who has said that he’s more open to talking to the West, and you guys are always saying that diplomacy is what you see as the best option moving forwards. Has there been any outreach or any – anything towards the new leadership in Iran to consider reopening any kind of talks on the nuclear front, or anything you can tell us?

MR MILLER: So it is true that we have always seen diplomacy as the best way to achieve a sustainable, long-lasting solution to Iran’s nuclear program. But we have made clear that, one way or another, we are never going to allow Iran to obtain a nuclear weapon.

When it comes to diplomacy – when it comes to talks, I think we’re a long way from anything that – like that right now given the nuclear escalations that Iran has made over the past several months, given its failure to cooperate with the IAEA. And also, when you look at the new Iranian president, ultimately it’s clear that the authority for these matters lies with the supreme leader; and because of that, we don’t – we don’t judge any change in their behavior likely at this time.

QUESTION: But it’s always laid with the supreme leader, even when U.S. and Iran were talking. So is now not a good opportunity to maybe – or is it just that Iran is just not a priority right now?

MR MILLER: So no, it very much is a priority. But given the actions that we have seen Iran take, the first thing that ought to happen is for Iran to stop its escalation and start cooperating with the IAEA.

I also want to just say something broad and general about the first part of your question, without confirming any kind of meeting that took place, which I would never do. I would certainly hope that any adversaries around the world who think that the United States has in any way taken its eye off the ball because of the announcement by the President – they should know that they are sorely wrong in that judgment, if that is indeed what they are thinking. The President remains focused on our national security priorities. The Secretary of State and the entire national security team remain focused on them. It’s one of the things the President said to the Secretary when he talked to him on Sunday after his announcement, which is, I want you all focused on the objectives that we have laid out, and I want you to focus on achieving them over the next six months.

QUESTION: Thank you, Matt. I have three questions today. One question on Iraqi and U.S. security dialogue, which concluded yesterday. I know the Pentagon is the mainstream of that discussions, but the State Department delegates were there and they attended the meetings. One question that the Iraqi people want to have an answer from the U.S. State Department, the U.S. Government, and the U.S. Pentagon is: What’s your position, what’s your idea about having a timeline, having a deadline for the U.S. withdrawal in Iraq, which the Iraqi delegation came here with the idea for at least having a deadline or having a timeline for that withdrawal. But we didn’t see anything from the joint statement that just published by Pentagon. Do you have anything exactly on that?

MR MILLER: So – so let me just say, so the meetings that were happening the last few days here in D.C. are the – through the joint security cooperation dialogue that we have established with Iraq. The question about the United States military presence in Iraq is something that we are discussing separately with them through the Higher Military Commission. That is an ongoing discussion with them. And as I said yesterday when I got a similar question, it is a process that we have set up with the Government of Iraq to determine the coalition’s military mission, how it will transition based on the following factors: threat from ISIS, operational and environmental requirements, and capabilities of the Iraqi Security Forces. So those are discussions that are happening in a separate channel from the one that met here in Washington the last couple of days.

QUESTION: Are the discussions still ongoing?

MR MILLER: They are.

QUESTION: Yeah? Okay. And two more questions on Rojava, northeast Syria. I’m wondering if you have changed your position about the election in northeast Syria, which was rescheduled to be held in August. And you were – objected to that election. Have you changed your position on that election?

MR MILLER: I don’t have any new position to announce, no.

QUESTION: Thank you, Matt. You declared Bangladesh a Level 4 most danger zone for traveling. Mass atrocity are occurring under the regime’s shoot-on-sight order, with the death toll surpassing 200. Students are carrying out peaceful protests. What specific steps is the U.S. going to take to rescue the innocent student and the nation from the brutal regime?

MR MILLER: So first of all, again, we have made clear our concerns about the ongoing security situation in Bangladesh. We announced the other day that we are exploring all options to ensure the safety of our personnel in Dhaka. We authorized the voluntary departure of nonemergency personnel and family members at the U.S. Embassy in Dhaka. The embassy does remain open to provide consular and other services to United States citizens who are in Bangladesh. And with respect to the safety and security of any American citizens, obviously that is our first priority and we encourage any U.S. citizen who is worried about their safety and security, has concerns, anything they want to discuss, to contact our embassy.

QUESTION: Is the U.S. embassy full operation in Dhaka?

MR MILLER: It is operational.

QUESTION: Thank you. The Biden administration has recommended more than $100 million for Pakistan to strengthen democracy and fight terrorism. Could you provide some details, please?

MR MILLER: Some details of the – sorry, I thought – usually you have a longer question, so I thought there was a —

QUESTION: Oh, the – I’m sorry. I can repeat the question.

MR MILLER: So I would just say – I’m not – for exact details I can follow up with you at more length, but the – we did just make a budget request to Congress to – for 100 million – $101 million dollars to Pakistan to strengthen democracy and fight terrorism. We would use that for the types of programs to strengthen democracy and civil society, to counter terrorism and extremism, to support economic reforms and debt management. We have made similar budget requests and similar budget authority – received similar budget authority from Congress in the past and made – and invested, used the funds that were appropriated by Congress to invest in our partnership with Pakistan. And we would use funds, should they be appropriated by Congress, to invest in similar programs as we have in this fiscal year and in previous ones.

QUESTION: Sir, Indian media is reporting that in few states, BJP government is forcing Muslim owners of restaurants to display their Muslim names at their eateries, but due to growing hate against Muslims, they fear it will bring more problems for them. What are your thoughts when you see such kind of action by any government?

MR MILLER: So we have seen those reports. We have also seen the reports that the Indian supreme court on July 22nd issued an interim stay on the implementation of those rules, so they’re not actually in effect now. Speaking generally, we are, as we always say, committed to promoting and respecting universal – promoting and protecting, I should say, universal respect for the right of freedom of religion and belief for all anywhere in the world, and we have engaged with our Indian counterparts on the importance of equal treatment for members of all religious communities.

QUESTION: Sir, U.S. Commission on Religious Freedom once again urged Biden administration to list India as a country of concern. This request has been ongoing for the past three years. According to several U.S. commissioners, their visas have been denied by Indian high commission in D.C. They wanted to go there to monitor the ground realities on religious freedom. What are your thoughts on that?

MR MILLER: So I’m not going to speak to a specific visa decision. I’m not aware of the facts of those specific things, but when it comes to religious freedom designations, that is a process that we take seriously, and we announce the conclusions every year in our annual report.

QUESTION: Thank you very much. My colleague just asked you about the 101 million you have announced – requested the Congress for Pakistan, for democracy. But at the same time, the Congressman Brad Sherman has tweeted and mentioned about his meeting with Under Secretary Donald Lu once again to go ahead to tell the ambassador in Pakistan to go and meet Imran Khan. Hundred and one million democracy funds, but the biggest leader in the country is languishing in jail for one year, and the U.S. ambassador is not meeting him despite the Congress telling him. How do you see this?

MR MILLER: How do I see it? So first of all, Donald Lu comes up more in this briefing that any assistant secretary in the building. I don’t know how many times I’ve gotten questions about him.

I’m not aware – you said it was a tweet from Brad Sherman? Haven’t seen this tweet, so I can’t respond to it. I would say – as you know, because you and I have discussed this issue on a number of occasions – internal political matters in Pakistan are something that we do not take a position on. We urge respect for democracy, respect for human rights, and treatment of all political parties equally.

QUESTION: Okay. My – just one more. Although I don’t agree with the – I do not think that Congress is going to approve your request while – the way democracy is being treated under this administration, but my second question is about first time now a girls’ school is blown up in North Waziristan, the tribal areas that I belong to as well. So I have mentioned to you that Taliban is expansion – is expanding in that region, and I know the President and this administration has been under tremendous work since Ukraine war, now Gaza, but is there any, like, serious concentration being paid to this whole terrorism spread? Like, this is the same time, by the way, when Malala was shot and, like, so that whole thing about girls’ education has now passed from Afghanistan and has jumped into Pakistan as well.

MR MILLER: So you started your question referring to the – to our administration requesting additional funds to fight terrorism in Pakistan and then ended it by questioning our commitment to fighting terrorism in Pakistan. And I think – hold on, I —

QUESTION: No, democracy. Democracy, sir.

MR MILLER: I just – I think I would just suggest that in this case the question answers itself.

QUESTION: Thank you. Situation about Bangladesh, already last seven days we are talking here. Once Bangladesh was a safe haven for terrorist organization like JMB, Harkat ul Jihad. With the help of U.S. Government, the Bangladesh Government made impressive progress in countering terrorism with the support of USA, of course, I told. But the recent days, huge number of militant element have destroyed a significant, large-scale government and public properties, including institute, and brutally killed not only innocent people but also law enforcement agencies with deliberate plan to topple the current government. One of the most concerning issue for USA and Bangladesh – also for Indo-Pacific zone – that they have attacked one of the major prison and released nine convicted leader of their militant outfit who were the think tank and brain of the terrorist activities in Bangladesh.

Given the recent violent activities, where militant element and anti-government political parties have caused significant destruction – and does the State Department believe this action will escalate terrorism in Bangladesh? And how does the U.S. plan to support again the Bangladesh Government for the effort to maintain stability and counter these terrorist threats in Bangladesh?

MR MILLER: So let me try to make this clear, because I’ve said it the last couple days: We condemn all recent acts of violence in Bangladesh. We support the freedom of peaceful assembly. We condemn violence against those who are exercising their peaceful right to assembly. And we condemn violence on behalf of any protester who has turned their peaceful exercises simply into an excuse for violence. We condemn violence in all cases.

QUESTION: Of course.

MR MILLER: We want the people of Bangladesh to be able to exercise their fundamental freedoms the same way we want people all over the world to do – to be able to exercise their fundamental freedoms. So we want to – we continue to urge both protesters, private citizens, and the government to refrain from violence.

QUESTION: Any comment on that portion released of nine convicted leaders of militant outfit? Because these are not —

MR MILLER: I don’t —

QUESTION: These are not regular —

MR MILLER: I don’t have a specific comment on that.

QUESTION: All right. Thank you.

MR MILLER: And with that, I think – do you have one – no. I think we’ll wrap for today. Thanks everyone.

(The briefing was concluded at 1:55 p.m.)

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